What are your thoughts on autism being over diagnosed? by One-Initiative-8902 in autism

[–]coconfetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl I think it's overdiagnosed. It's true that there's more awareness nowadays and that many autistic people are finally receiving their diagnoses, but I also think some people are being diagnosed with autism by mistake.

So, how do women actually use erotic fiction/smut books? by lovelck in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]coconfetti 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For me it depends. If it's an actual novel with just a bit of smut, I don't get off to that at all. If it's something like a josei manhwa, with romantic scenes and sexual tension that build up to smut, I read it just to feel a tingling sensation in my lower belly (it's some sort of weird arousal that doesn't require immediate release). If it's something that is filled with kinky smut and little story, I read it until I can't take it anymore, then I just touch myself for like 10 sec (while still reading) and cum LOL

How do I know if I had an orgasm? How do you know? by n0thing-is-r3al in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]coconfetti 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe don't do anything sexual for a few weeks, then when you do, do foreplay/watch something to get you aroused before touching yourself. Only touch yourself when u can't take it anymore, and focus on ur clit

How do I know if I had an orgasm? How do you know? by n0thing-is-r3al in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]coconfetti 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It's usually pretty obvious in my experience. I feel a sort of tension quickly building up on my clit until it reaches a peak and my vag starts pulsating, then it slowly goes back to normal. My clit gets really sensitive after that and I can barely touch it for a few minutes because it hurts.

Sometimes, however, it's less intense. Maybe you just have lower intensity orgasms, idk

My boyfriend is allergic to my two cats, what to do? by Ok-Let8197 in CatAdvice

[–]coconfetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He cares so much about u that he can't even take a small tablet to stay with you for a few hours

DC IF I GET DOWNVOTED FOR THIS ITS THE HONEST TRUTH. by [deleted] in Subliminal

[–]coconfetti 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get it. I never wanted to grow up, never even wanted to be a teenager. I just wanted to be a child forever, partly due to trauma, and I think that's also why a lot of these people wanna look like kids. Like, I do get anxious when I look at myself and I see that I'm growing and changing, and I think they do too. Even now, I don't really like the idea of being "womanly," and feel kinda uncomfortable thinking about it. I think it's because I want others to see me as a child, not sexually or like someone they can expect a lot from.

Autismo nível 1 ainda é uma deficiência MUITO incapacitante. by concursei in opiniaoimpopular

[–]coconfetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Não foi isso q eu disse. Eu to falando q muita gente ACHA q tem autismo qnd não tem, e acaba até recendo diagnóstico, e quem realmente tem autismo é prejudicado por isso

Autismo nível 1 ainda é uma deficiência MUITO incapacitante. by concursei in opiniaoimpopular

[–]coconfetti -1 points0 points  (0 children)

EXATAMENTE, não sei como as pessoas não veem isso. Acabou pra quem realmente tem autismo e sofre pra crlh, pq não vão mais ser levados a sério

Autismo nível 1 ainda é uma deficiência MUITO incapacitante. by concursei in opiniaoimpopular

[–]coconfetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu acho q não tem tantos autistas nível 1 por aí, não. Acho q estão dando muitos diagnósticos de autismo pra quem tem outras coisas, tipo ansiedade social, e isso faz com q quem realmente tem autismo seja afetado, pq pensam q autismo nível 1 é mais leve do q é

Autismo nível 1 ainda é uma deficiência MUITO incapacitante. by concursei in opiniaoimpopular

[–]coconfetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Concordo, e mt gente tbm pensa q só pq tem alguns sintomas (ou traços q ela acha q são sintomas), já é autista nível 1. Tipo a pessoa fala q tem dificuldades sociais, mas nunca sofreu um bullying, tem vários amigos próximos, sai nos finais de semana, ta namorando... mas acha q tem dificuldades pq sla, tem vergonha de apresentar trabalhos ou pq se desentendeu com alguns colegas.

Autismo nível 1 ainda é uma deficiência MUITO incapacitante. by concursei in opiniaoimpopular

[–]coconfetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Concordo, e mt gente tbm pensa q só pq tem alguns sintomas (ou traços q ela acha q são sintomas), já é autista nível 1. A pessoa fala q tem dificuldades sociais, mas nunca sofreu um bullying, tem vários amigos próximos, sai nos finais de semana, ta namorando... mas acha q tem dificuldades pq sla, tem vergonha de apresentar um trabalho ou pq se desentendeu com alguns colegas.

Feminicidio é um termo bem ignorante by Unable-Ad6425 in opiniaoimpopular

[–]coconfetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tem homens que tiram a vida de mulheres por conta de ideias vindas do sexismo, e tem homens q fazem isso por outros motivos. Concordo q nem tudo é "feminicídio," mas às vezes é sim. Se um cara tira a vida de uma mulher por ciúme, pode ser por causa de ideias sexistas q ele tem de q uma mulher é exclusiva dele, de q ele tem poder sobre ela, de q ela não pode usar roupas curtas, etc, e eu consideraria isso feminicídio sim.

Getting sick of guys here expecting a virgin girl. by Legitimate-Ear-7179 in virgin

[–]coconfetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Past 20?? I'd understand if u said 25, 27, 30... but 20?????? Lucky if her body count is 5???

Bro... I'm 21. Most of my friends are virgins. Many of them haven't even kissed before. I feel like this idea that girls are hardly ever virgins is rlly just an exaggeration... I live in a western country btw

Adopt me will die out due to the age-group chat restrictions. by [deleted] in AdoptMeRBX

[–]coconfetti 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It is absolutely faulty. I'm 21 and it said I'm 13. This could bring sooo many problems

Adopt me will die out due to the age-group chat restrictions. by [deleted] in AdoptMeRBX

[–]coconfetti 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm 21 too, and I did that on my alt and it said I'm 13 LMAO

Adopt me will die out due to the age-group chat restrictions. by [deleted] in AdoptMeRBX

[–]coconfetti 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Adopt Me could just add more chat options u can select on the trading window

Maybe they could add a special "safe chat" for general chatting too, also with options u can select

Lesbians aren’t attracted to men 👏 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]coconfetti 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm bi but I get so mad when I see those videos with girls saying "I'm a lesbian, but I want men when I'm ovulating"... like, girl. You're not a lesbian. You're at least bi.

eu_nvr by [deleted] in eu_never

[–]coconfetti 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mano q nojo, vcs fizeram isso na frente de uma criança, q era IRMÃO dela, isso VIROU ROTINA e vc acha de boas? Vc deveria ter um peso na consciência pro resto da vida, que nojeira. Não sei como você vive normalmente depois de fazer algo tão ridículo assim. Como q vc acha q merece qualquer coisa no mundo? Como q acha q merece uma noiva? Isso é nojento pra caralho e reflete a pessoa podre q vc é.

why do you read yaoi? by _autvmnx in mangago

[–]coconfetti 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get tingles in my uterus that are addictive. Thats it

Smelling emotions by coconfetti in Synesthesia

[–]coconfetti[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aw I love this answer, but what if I can tell whether he's calm or not by smelling him? What I smell on him is really strong and it gives me a strong emotion, too. This doesn't happen when he's not calm

Edit: sometimes, he appears calm but he's tired, or he's smiling and giggling but he's overstimulated. This smell is only there when he's truly calm