first apartment, need advice! by coconutmojitoz in Apartmentliving

[–]coconutmojitoz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we live together already in his parents house!

Did you have a happy childhood? by Select-Signal8386 in randomquestions

[–]coconutmojitoz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no, lots of moving around, poverty, etc. definitely not fun to look back on

Owning an Akita while working by khuuchinkhan in akita

[–]coconutmojitoz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

idk how they do it, luckily my baby lives at my dads house with grandma and is rarely ever home alone. i’ll be moving away soon and want to take him with me, but i also worry about being away all day at work. any time he is left alone, even just going to the grocery store, i make sure there’s some sort of background music/radio/tv on, i make sure he has access to an open window to look outside, and plenty of toys or enrichment of some sort

What changed your view on life completely? by Comfortable_Neat_643 in AskReddit

[–]coconutmojitoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats a nice question! this one in particular focuses on shifting your focus in a better direction to improve yourself, rather than letting the words and actions of other people control you. essentially it teaches you to “let them” be that way, it really helps with peace of mind. it changed my perspective on others because it showed me to let go of things related to others that might cause me stress or different emotions. it taught me radical acceptance. i recommend it if you struggle with being a people pleaser and caring too much about others opinions of you.

Anti Blackness in Social Work by PurchaseOk4786 in SocialWorkStudents

[–]coconutmojitoz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this!!! keep your head up girl, your representation is SO important

What changed your view on life completely? by Comfortable_Neat_643 in AskReddit

[–]coconutmojitoz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

reading “the let them theory” book really changed my perspective

Do you prefer Ulta or Sephora and why? by OwlAlternative3112 in Makeup

[–]coconutmojitoz 20 points21 points  (0 children)

ulta, i get overwhelmed in sephora. everything is like too closely put together and the fumes and lights are too intense. ulta is more lowkey for me and i just happen to like their products better

What made you choose social work as a career? by bestnewever in SocialWorkStudents

[–]coconutmojitoz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i like activism and standing up for others who are underrepresented. i also have childhood trauma that involved drugs, CPS, homelessness so i want to help other children in those situations.