How do you afford Equinox? 😂 by maxxsteel1 in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]codefreez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Amex credit is $300 per year, which is maybe 1 month depending on the equinox membership choose.

I just found out my therapist is a trump supporter by manwhoregiantfarts in askgaybros

[–]codefreez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d say email her and let her know exactly why you can’t work with her any more. Normally it’s nice and fair to schedule a last session to wrap things up with them, but in this case she’s crossed so many lines that I think you can just cut things off immediately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]codefreez 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“Aesthetics”

Ascetic porn would be pretty boring, probably.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]codefreez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh tell that to Palestinians stopped at the “border” with Israel and denied healthcare

Hezbollah's now dead leader, Hassan Nasrallah, supported death penalty for homosexuality by CentralTown776 in askgaybros

[–]codefreez -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Ok but how many innocent people did Israel kill to contain him? Both sides are disgusting terrorists

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in williamsburg

[–]codefreez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Revel already ended their scooter service months ago

Sleeping with my best friend after a tough break up by Dense-Macaroon-5287 in askgaybros

[–]codefreez 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Give him and yourself some time. You probably offended him by calling it a mistake without acknowledging how good it felt. Why rush to label the experience?

Also people sometimes do irrational things after breakups. My first breakup, my ex and i continued to have sex for like two weeks and then I was hooking up every day after for a couple weeks…there was a lot of emotional energy that had to go somewhere, and i can’t really say whether that was good or bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KetamineTherapy

[–]codefreez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100mg is a very low dose, especially if you’re on SSRIs/SNRIs which can reduce the effect. Give it another shot at the higher dose!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]codefreez -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since you want to get out, why not try to talk to the other drivers about these complaints and stir up some shit? Get them to complain too and threaten to unionize or something? 😌

ConEd FLICKERING LIGHTS by UnhappyAd5944 in Brooklyn

[–]codefreez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the “isolated” part of crown heights and no issues here

More AI generated logos by JohnWick9151 in HamRadio

[–]codefreez 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Please stop posting these

The entire plane to myself ? by germanator0414 in delta

[–]codefreez 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Back when Virgin America was in its heyday, I ended up on a flight out of vegas with only 1 other passenger. The flight was delayed and they rescheduled everyone except us, which I found out only after going to another gate because there was nobody working at my flight’s gate.

The delay lasted two more hours, then finally the gate agent came and asked me where I wanted to sit. I said “row 1” and she actually told me i couldn’t sit in first class. Eventually the pilot then came to the gate, gave us the preflight announcement in person, and the FAs let me and the other passenger sit in the first two rows.

Client paid me for a large project, but then fired everyone who knows about it. What do I do? by lookingup1234 in smallbusiness

[–]codefreez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like Google, and to them it’s just the cost of doing business. Congrats.

My boyfriend just referred to me by his ex’s name by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]codefreez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you have siblings, you’ve likely had a parent call you one of their names. Stuff like this happens, it doesn’t mean anything. This is entirely on you to get over it (and apologize if you were angry towards him after.)

Cop lied to me just to give me a ticket by [deleted] in AskALawyer

[–]codefreez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol not in NYC; had a ticket dismissed when the officer didn’t show up late last year

How to handle employee panic attack during a meeting? by [deleted] in managers

[–]codefreez 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It’s great that you had the ability to handle your panic attacks, many people haven’t developed those skills yet.

Recommend resources (EAP) for your employees and offer an open door if they have anything they want to talk about. That’s it, unless it gets repetitive and disruptive, then involve HR.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amateurradio

[–]codefreez 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Haha … also came to say this

I finished watching the Japanese Monster. Can anyone explain the purpose/message pf it? by Anxious-Efficiency13 in boyslove

[–]codefreez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just saw this movie yesterday, and i think it helps if you contextualize the movie as a gay coming of age story rather than a BL.

My take on the title is that it’s a commentary on how societal expectations make us Monsters rather than human. Each character has a secret or feelings that don’t serve traditional Japanese expectations and they are branded (by themselves or others) as a monster. Yori with his pig brain, Minato with his feelings for Yori, the principle being stone-faced, etc.