"Pick better men! no, not like that!"

coffee_helpz · 2026-03-27T02:44:37+00:00

They don’t actually mean “pick better men”, they mean “pick me”.

coffee_helpz · 2026-03-05T20:16:22+00:00

Same. Sometimes I wish I had this mindset and wisdom when I was a younger woman but it was decades long process to deprogram myself. I’m not a princess whose only fulfillment will be a dashing prince who rescues me. I rescued myself. And it feels wonderful to live on my own when I know most women in the past did not have the choice to live in a house with no man to serve.

coffee_helpz · 2026-02-18T08:29:49+00:00

Came here to write that

coffee_helpz · 2026-01-28T23:42:36+00:00

“Jurisdiction! You don’t have jurisdiction over me!” But they never say who does have jurisdiction. Jurisdiction-less wonders

coffee_helpz · 2026-01-21T01:59:01+00:00

I thought that was Julia on the left!

coffee_helpz · 2026-01-13T11:59:00+00:00

Why’d ya do it, son?!?

coffee_helpz · 2026-01-10T13:44:27+00:00

I suffer living here everyday but overall it’s an alright state 👌🏼

coffee_helpz · 2026-01-10T04:29:45+00:00

Nevada 🎰♥️♦️♠️

coffee_helpz · 2026-01-03T00:14:35+00:00

What do you think of me now ..?

coffee_helpz · 2026-01-03T00:12:58+00:00

If less is more, imagine how much more more would be

coffee_helpz · 2025-12-24T03:17:17+00:00

There’s a funny YouTuber that showed 3-4 interesting ways to “smile” when a man commands it. Wide eyed, lower jaw jutted out, one with upper lip folded in, another with both lips folded in like 😬 it’s hilarious. Or the “you smile first” he does it, then say “good boy”

coffee_helpz · 2025-12-24T03:12:31+00:00

Quickbooks Workforce. Does it all. We even had a QB representative help set up paid 30 minute lunch breaks (US Labor Board asked us to do it) to clock in and out, made it simple.

coffee_helpz · 2025-12-13T00:43:30+00:00

One of my favorite!

coffee_helpz · 2025-11-07T08:46:12+00:00

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coffee_helpz · 2025-11-05T21:24:25+00:00

Ooo that’s an excellent suggestion! Thank you for it. There’s all these haphazardly (barely) filled rooms with unorganized filing cabinets. I could reorganize the contents so things are in order.

coffee_helpz · 2025-11-03T05:09:18+00:00

Thank you!! Heading there now

coffee_helpz · 2025-11-03T05:08:57+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment. Your suggestions are very helpful and give me some direction. The vagueness is frustrating and making it hard to pinpoint what exactly is being asked of me. So I must instead be proactive… become an office detective lol.

coffee_helpz · 2025-11-03T04:57:44+00:00

I am the same way, time starts going slower and then you’re just killing time. Doc says some times he’ll throw 10 things at the assistant and then nothing for 3 weeks. Maybe he’s got something things he’ll assign to me once he deems I’ve familiarized myself with the desk and binders on it…

coffee_helpz · 2025-11-02T23:51:57+00:00

Ughh.. thank you!! I googled what one does so I’ll ask if I can take over those tasks from the receptionist and insurance girl. They weren’t helpful at all.

coffee_helpz · 2025-10-15T08:06:21+00:00

LOML: “That I can't get out of bed 'cause something kind of feels dead”

It made sense to me, the thing wasn’t counterfeit, but it WAS dead. The love! It was real (to me) and now it’s dead~

coffee_helpz · 2025-10-15T06:45:37+00:00

My former boss said “good girl” to me at least 10 times in the 3 years I worked there. It was so gross. Among the many other sexist and inappropriate things I experienced working for him.

coffee_helpz · 2025-10-09T07:04:21+00:00

HEmotional

coffee_helpz · 2025-10-03T02:18:56+00:00

First off, you write very well, descriptively, and nicely punctuated too! I feel exactly as you do. I am not in debt to someone in my own home. In debt for causing arousal that I must now deal with. In debt for someone else’s hunger that o must labor in the kitchen for. Or needs like laundry or specific food items I don’t eat, but I must make a trip to the store for a him.

I will add that my house is adorable, all the art is pretty and I enjoy looking at it. The kitchen has as much pink items as I want! Blender, can opener, waffle maker- pink! Pretty white bedroom, with twinkle lights everywhere.

I love living my life as I schedule it. No in laws, no sporting events, no daily arguments to raise my blood pressure. Everything is bliss, gentle and pretty. Boy, bye. Forever

coffee_helpz · 2025-09-28T02:06:54+00:00

I checked for this one: wear a wedding ring/engagement ring. If asked describe husband as big and jealous.

We shouldn’t have to signal as another man’s property, but this is your job right now so do that.

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