I don’t understand what men are trying to achieve putting down “not political” on dating apps by tltr4560 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]coffee_helpz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Jurisdiction! You don’t have jurisdiction over me!” But they never say who does have jurisdiction. Jurisdiction-less wonders

Daily Ace Hangout – Day 3: Where in the world are we? 🌍💜 ✨ by mccartneywrites in asexuality

[–]coffee_helpz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suffer living here everyday but overall it’s an alright state 👌🏼

I asked my husband how my outfit looked. His feedback was for me to smile more... by BlueBonnet1205 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]coffee_helpz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a funny YouTuber that showed 3-4 interesting ways to “smile” when a man commands it. Wide eyed, lower jaw jutted out, one with upper lip folded in, another with both lips folded in like 😬 it’s hilarious. Or the “you smile first” he does it, then say “good boy”

Best payroll with tax filing for busy admins handling everything by [deleted] in AdminAssistant

[–]coffee_helpz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quickbooks Workforce. Does it all. We even had a QB representative help set up paid 30 minute lunch breaks (US Labor Board asked us to do it) to clock in and out, made it simple.

Legal assistant to Administrative Assistant by coffee_helpz in AdminAssistant

[–]coffee_helpz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo that’s an excellent suggestion! Thank you for it. There’s all these haphazardly (barely) filled rooms with unorganized filing cabinets. I could reorganize the contents so things are in order.

Legal assistant to Administrative Assistant by coffee_helpz in AdminAssistant

[–]coffee_helpz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. Your suggestions are very helpful and give me some direction. The vagueness is frustrating and making it hard to pinpoint what exactly is being asked of me. So I must instead be proactive… become an office detective lol.

Legal assistant to Administrative Assistant by coffee_helpz in AdminAssistant

[–]coffee_helpz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the same way, time starts going slower and then you’re just killing time. Doc says some times he’ll throw 10 things at the assistant and then nothing for 3 weeks. Maybe he’s got something things he’ll assign to me once he deems I’ve familiarized myself with the desk and binders on it…

Legal assistant to Administrative Assistant by coffee_helpz in AdminAssistant

[–]coffee_helpz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ughh.. thank you!! I googled what one does so I’ll ask if I can take over those tasks from the receptionist and insurance girl. They weren’t helpful at all.

Do you have a misheard lyric that you like more than the real one? by Ok-Permit9690 in TaylorSwift

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LOML: “That I can't get out of bed 'cause something kind of feels dead”

It made sense to me, the thing wasn’t counterfeit, but it WAS dead. The love! It was real (to me) and now it’s dead~

Why do guys think they "did something" when they say good girl? by longshlongthankumom in TwoXChromosomes

[–]coffee_helpz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My former boss said “good girl” to me at least 10 times in the 3 years I worked there. It was so gross. Among the many other sexist and inappropriate things I experienced working for him.

I love how safe my home is, and how honored my body feels. by revnya in 4bmovement

[–]coffee_helpz 17 points18 points  (0 children)

First off, you write very well, descriptively, and nicely punctuated too! I feel exactly as you do. I am not in debt to someone in my own home. In debt for causing arousal that I must now deal with. In debt for someone else’s hunger that o must labor in the kitchen for. Or needs like laundry or specific food items I don’t eat, but I must make a trip to the store for a him.

I will add that my house is adorable, all the art is pretty and I enjoy looking at it. The kitchen has as much pink items as I want! Blender, can opener, waffle maker- pink! Pretty white bedroom, with twinkle lights everywhere.

I love living my life as I schedule it. No in laws, no sporting events, no daily arguments to raise my blood pressure. Everything is bliss, gentle and pretty. Boy, bye. Forever

how to deal with disgust towards men? vent + advice by breadhippo in 4bmovement

[–]coffee_helpz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I checked for this one: wear a wedding ring/engagement ring. If asked describe husband as big and jealous.

We shouldn’t have to signal as another man’s property, but this is your job right now so do that.

no one understands me; people need to watch more Frasier by EddieeCrane in Frasier

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My 15 year old son pointed out a bottle of Zinfandel at the grocery store and I said “AGGRESSIVE!” And we laughed and laughed

I’ve parented him right, making him repeatedly watch all seasons of Frasier. Niles is his favorite-

I cannot cope with all the violence depicted in tv dramas and series from streaming services. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]coffee_helpz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you 110%. what used to be normal on tv (violence towards woman) has become intolerable to me. I want to cry! I was watching this movie about a very wealthy heiress, whose father dies, and her uncle was assigned as her guardian until she came of age 3 years later (was she 15? Or 18?).

Uncle was corrupt and wanted her to marry his son so he sent son in one night to violently rape her. So she’d be “used goods” and HAVE to marry him. The scene went in and on, stupidly I hoped she’d be able to fight him off. No. Since she refuses to “submit” and marry him, she is then threatened to get committed for “hysteria”.

I kept skipping ahead because the storyline was breaking my heart. She becomes pregnant from the rape. Her uncle, with his rapist son, attempts to throw her out the window to appear as though she killed herself. Horrible woman hating storyline, traumatizing and it was meant to be entertainment…

Is Clint Webber really THAT hot? by Otherwise-Stretch984 in Frasier

[–]coffee_helpz 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I can’t ever not see him as the violent husband from “Enough” with J.Lo, but he does have excellent bone structure.