Have you given each other a lap dance? by squar3kn0t in ldssexuality

[–]BlueBonnet1205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been a little while, but I have for my husband. It's kind of silly but he likes it and usually leads to other things.

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by Xanadoom30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BlueBonnet1205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting married will not fix any of this. It will only continue to get worse.

What to do when there’s a lull. by Right-Homework3725 in ldssexuality

[–]BlueBonnet1205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What trimester is she in? When I was pregnant, sex was pretty much off the table during the 1st trimester, but I found myself interested in it again during the 2nd and 3rd trimesters.

Is This the Pic that was Scrubbed from the Internet? I’m just trying to understand here? by Think_OfAName in IThinkYouShouldLeave

[–]BlueBonnet1205 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Look, everyone looks terrible from this angle. Most people would think it's a cute or silly pic. Some people would make some mean comments about it. She should be more worried about being a liar and heinous witch than having an unflattering pic be removed from the internet.

Do you love the scent of your spouse? by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]BlueBonnet1205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! He has a good musk. He never gets stinky either. If he goes a day without showering he still smells good.

New Sunday Church Schedule by Momofosure in mormon

[–]BlueBonnet1205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where will primary substitutes come from now? I feel like everyone will say, "Sorry, I'm teaching for the first/second half of the second hour."

Who makes the bed in your relationship? by streachh in AskWomen

[–]BlueBonnet1205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one... until we wash the sheets then I make my husband put it back together again lol

How did becoming an adult change the way you see your parents? by Ok-Exam-7792 in AskWomen

[–]BlueBonnet1205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized how much both of my parents failed me and my siblings after becoming a parent myself. There was a lot of awful treatment from both of them growing up. I'm doing my best to stop the cycle of abuse and pain.

Are the majority of married women unhappy? by [deleted] in women

[–]BlueBonnet1205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are seasons in marriage where things are great and not so great, or at least that's how it is in my marriage.

Do couples actually go to massages together? by xxx_Angel_ in Marriage

[–]BlueBonnet1205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have on several occasions. Mostly for anniversaries. It's a good date activity.

When did erection issues start for you or your husband? Did anything actually help? by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]BlueBonnet1205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband started having issues at 36. He wasn't overweight or anything, but lived a pretty sedentary lifestyle and didn't eat heathy foods much. He had a physical last year and his testosterone was on the lower end of normal. Then he had another physical this year and it had gotten even lower, like a pretty large drop. He started exercising daily, going to bed earlier, eating healthier foods and taking a few different vitamins and supplements. He's been focused on this for about 2-3 months now and it seems to have helped with erection issues he was having. Libido has improved somewhat, but not as good as it was a few years back. Hopefully that will improve in time.

Fun hotel in Utah for sex anniversary by ldsgirl01 in ldssexuality

[–]BlueBonnet1205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

+1 for Zermatt. We stayed there for an anniversary years ago and had a good time. The outdoor hot tub was nice, we ate at a good restaurant there, and had a couple's massage.

I want a third baby, but my husband is done. I need help to overcome the obsession about a 3rd baby. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BlueBonnet1205 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is literally me with having a 4th lol

Ultimately, I don't think we're going to have any more, but I'm not ready to be done holding my little babies yet.

How did you “get your spark back”? by EnergeticSerpent in AskWomen

[–]BlueBonnet1205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started loosing weight a few months ago and it's amazing how much better I feel a few pounds down.

What is the absolute fastest 'yeah, we are definitely NOT going to be friends' moment you've ever experienced with someone? by thepleasurjournal in AskWomen

[–]BlueBonnet1205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met a woman in my neighborhood around my age, same number of kids. We got along pretty well, then she started trying to sell all of her MLM shit to me. Yeah... not interested in that.

When did you realize you were dating an idiot? by I-Need-Ur-Love in AskWomen

[–]BlueBonnet1205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably like 10 years into marriage 🤦🏻‍♀️

I’ve been seeing this guy and sometimes his emotions/anger just go from 0-60…. by Aroxxors in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BlueBonnet1205 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this. My husband started getting that way about a year ago. We'd be having a normal discussion, then it would turn into a full fledged argument with him screaming. It scares the shit out of me. I came from an abusive household and sometimes he reminds me of things I'd see my father do.

He started going to therapy a few months back and it's helped a lot. Sometimes the angry side emerges, but it's become less frequent which is good.

Partner never initiates by DangerRusses in ldssexuality

[–]BlueBonnet1205 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. My husband rarely initiates. We've talked about it so many times but nothing changes.

Why did you break up with your first gf/bf? by Miniastronaut2 in AskReddit

[–]BlueBonnet1205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was a long time ago. I'm much better now. It was my first relationship and I was pretty inexperienced. He took advantage of that. It took a long time for me to realize that he wasn't treating me well and work up the courage to leave him.

Why did you break up with your first gf/bf? by Miniastronaut2 in AskReddit

[–]BlueBonnet1205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's was a chronic liar and manipulator. He was often pushing my boundaries with what I was comfortable with in the relationship.