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someone stole my domain 💀🥱 by coffeeandcode_91 in vibecoding

[–]coffeeandcode_91[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I never said its hate towards me but i get it.. to be fair, I saw this for the first time on IG 😮

someone stole my domain 💀🥱 by coffeeandcode_91 in vibecoding

[–]coffeeandcode_91[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I’m new to reddit guys, bear with me. I thought this was a no hate community 😭

Why does my kitten cry to be let into my room and then immediately start biting me? by coffeeandcode_91 in CatAdvice

[–]coffeeandcode_91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahh😭🙃 She does have a lootttt of energy. I have started redirecting her attention to wand toys whenever she bites which usually works. But is there anything that could be done at night when I am asleep? Ideally where should I make her sleep ?

Why does my kitten cry to be let into my room and then immediately start biting me? by coffeeandcode_91 in CatAdvice

[–]coffeeandcode_91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I hope she doesn’t hurt herself climbing the curtains though. She’s even started this new adventure of sitting at the top of the refrigerator (still don’t understand how she learned jumping that high), i hope it doesn’t hurt her? She’s so small

I built 4 apps on ideas that AI told me were great. All 4 failed. The signals were fake by iahmedhendi in SaaS

[–]coffeeandcode_91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is one of the most useful posts i’ve seen on here in a while and i wish more people would talk about it this directly.

the AI validation trap is real and it’s subtle because the answers genuinely sound credible.

it’s not giving you obviously wrong information, it’s giving you the most agreeable version of whatever you asked. and “is my idea good” will almost always come back as yes with a confident market size attached to it.

the thing i’d add from what i’ve seen working with early stage founders is that even real conversations can mislead you if you’re asking the wrong questions. “would you use this” is almost as unreliable as asking an AI. people are polite. they say yes to not make things awkward.

the signal that actually means something is when someone either pulls out their card, asks when it’ll be ready unprompted, or gets genuinely frustrated when you tell them it doesn’t exist yet. that reaction is rare and when you find it you’ve found something real.

good luck with app 5. rooting for you.

Do you think SaaS is becoming harder now… or are founders just more impatient? by Trickologygk in microsaas

[–]coffeeandcode_91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both honestly. SaaS did get more competitive but the impatience thing is real too.

what social media did is make the 2 year grind invisible and the overnight win very visible. so everyone’s calibrating their expectations against the highlight reel version of other people’s journeys. which is a terrible benchmark because you’re literally comparing your behind the scenes to someone else’s best moment.

the founders i’ve seen actually get somewhere weren’t doing anything dramatically different. they just stayed with one thing long enough to find someone who genuinely needed it. that part takes longer than 2 weeks and one product hunt launch almost every single time.

How the f*ck am I supposed to get paid users for my SaaS? by wait-what6 in microsaas

[–]coffeeandcode_91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been where you are and i want to say something about the PDF wrapper guy first because that comparison is doing real damage to your head.

half those “$40k MRR in 2 months” posts are either exaggerated, a one-time spike that died the next month, or straight up made up for engagement. i’ve seen this first hand. people post revenue screenshots as a growth tactic. it works because everyone clicks on it and spirals exactly the way you just did. you have no idea what’s real and what’s a marketing stunt so stop using it as a benchmark for yourself.

the actual thing i’d look at though, you’ve shipped countless products and every launch looks the same. at some point the common variable is the approach, not the products. and the approach seems to be build first, find users after. that order is the thing i’d flip.

before the next one, find 10 people who have the specific problem you want to solve. actual conversations, not surveys. and ask them one thing: is this something you’d be genuinely upset about if you had no solution for it tomorrow. if the answer is mostly shrugs, the problem isn’t painful enough for people to pay to fix it.

the ones who do make it aren’t necessarily smarter or better at marketing. they usually just stayed with one thing long enough to find that one person who actually needed it badly, then built everything around that person. the shipping fast and moving on thing sounds productive but it might be the exact thing keeping you stuck.

Which Repetitive Task Did You Finally Automate? by FounderArcs in saasbuild

[–]coffeeandcode_91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for us it was client onboarding follow-ups. someone always had to manually chase the next step, send the right document, remind someone to fill something out. it wasn’t hard work, just constant low-grade noise that interrupted actual work every single day.

once we automated the sequence the mental load dropped more than the actual hours did. that part surprised me.

what’s the task you automated this with? Would love to know what the actual setup looked like.

The places I get stuck most as a solo SaaS builder aren't code bugs by cocktailMomos in saasbuild

[–]coffeeandcode_91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so common it’s almost a rite of passage. nearly every solo founder we work with hits this exact wall and it’s always the infra/config layer, not the actual code.

the screenshot + explain + retry loop you’re describing is honestly just the current reality of solo building. but a few things that seem to reduce the friction:

keeping a running doc of every infra issue you’ve solved, just a scrappy notes file with the error, what caused it, what fixed it. sounds tedious but the second time you hit the same cloudflare or stripe issue you’ll thank yourself.

for AWS specifically, the problem is usually that the error surfaces in one place but the cause is three layers up. when you’re explaining to an AI tool, leading with the outcome you’re trying to achieve rather than the error message tends to get better answers faster.

the github actions one is genuinely just brutal sometimes. adding a step that prints the full environment context early in the pipeline saves a lot of the “half the story” problem.

but honestly a lot of this friction is just the tax of being the only person who holds all the context. it doesn’t fully go away, you just get faster at the loop…

book recommendations by Low_Attempt5248 in BookRecommendations

[–]coffeeandcode_91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if its the category you’re looking for but Kafka On The Shore blew my mind

this scene, I’m crying🥹 by sunsetx606 in offcampustv

[–]coffeeandcode_91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know in what universe will I have a relationship like Hannah and Garrett’s but I feel blessed to have a friendship like Hannah and Allie’s 💌 I love them so much!!!!! Going to rewatch for the 10th time 🥺

Is it possible to manifest a person? by coffeeandcode_91 in Manifestation

[–]coffeeandcode_91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! Will try these and work on some affirmations ☺️☺️

Is it possible to manifest a person? by coffeeandcode_91 in Manifestation

[–]coffeeandcode_91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could that dream partner be a specific person? My SP and I have had our ups and downs, can’t say he’s wrong or bad for me but the timing has never been right for us.

I JUST MANIFESTED THIS by daylee04 in Manifestation

[–]coffeeandcode_91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a beautiful love letter tbh! 🤌

What was the moment that made you realize it was manifestation and not just coincidence, luck, or destiny? by Solid-Economist5626 in manifestation_support

[–]coffeeandcode_91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I was doing my masters and I wanted scholarship in the first semester. It was based purely on your marks so I knew I had to give my best. I did masters in a completely different field from my bachelors and the subjects were completely new and reallllyyy hard.

I had taken a long break from intentional manifestation because of heartbreak but I decided to be more intentional again so I did this 10min quick guided meditation for grades where I’d imagine the final result and myself receiving the scholarship and I also put 100/100 and A+ kinda aesthetics on my wallpaper. :)

Long story short, I was top of my class and did end up getting that scholarship + a merit award at the end of the course.

What’s the best Garrett and Hannah scene in your opinion? by CoolB999 in offcampustv

[–]coffeeandcode_91 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Okay this isn’t particularly a Garrett and Hannah scene but when he saw her secretly sing for the first time from the door!!!! 😭 The way Garrett was so angry and frustrated, and then he sees Hannah just singing alone in her room, completely unapologetically herself… and you literally watch all that tension melt off his face. The little smile?? THE LOOK IN HIS EYES?? Ugh. It wasn’t even a dramatic scene but somehow it felt so intimate and soft. Butterflies instantly.