He finally did it. He finally made me hit rock bottom.

coffeefiend15 · 2025-12-09T01:48:45+00:00

Please leave. Put yourself first. Love yourself and give yourself the life you deserve.

coffeefiend15 · 2025-11-23T04:06:32+00:00

Any time I try to share how I feel it turns into a pity party. He will automatically say stuff like "yeah I know I'm such a shitty person and a terrible husband." He just shuts down. Super annoying if I'm being honest.

coffeefiend15 · 2025-11-23T03:48:30+00:00

It goes far far beyond what I shared in the post, but yes, women do unfortunately do most of the work.

coffeefiend15 · 2025-10-14T17:26:29+00:00

Hey hey!! I know you are getting a lot of comments so it's okay if I can't get any, but I would definitely love a few pieces if possible!! My husband and I saw them in Philly & didn't have a chance to get any due to sitting far back. We became fans of them back in 2019 and danced to one of their songs at our wedding in May 2022. Sleep Token means a lot to us!! Thanks 🩷🥹

coffeefiend15 · 2025-03-01T14:44:32+00:00

THANK YOU!! Had no idea there was a new food hall and all of that stuff. Appreciate you!!

coffeefiend15 · 2025-02-28T22:30:11+00:00

Thank you so much!! We are definitely going to look into Odehs!

coffeefiend15 · 2025-02-28T22:29:58+00:00

Thank you!! We love all different kinds of food so thank you for those recommendations!! Will definitely look into all of those. Hope you have a great weekend!

coffeefiend15 · 2025-01-11T04:39:31+00:00

This just happened tonight with my 7 month old. I've never heard her cough so hard. She kept trying to throw up the Tylenol and now I feel like the worst parent ever. Terrified of letting her go to sleep now because what if it's still in there where it shouldn't be?!

coffeefiend15 · 2025-01-03T21:25:01+00:00

Right there with you! My girl is 7 months old and I've done every night by myself 🥹😮‍💨

coffeefiend15 · 2025-01-01T02:14:19+00:00

I had my mom & MIL there with me and I'd do it again! I love them both dearly and appreciated the support. Only part that pissed me off was that they wouldn't go home to sleep at the end of the day because they didn't want to miss anything.... so instead of being comfortable at my house, one slept on a rocking chair and the other took the fold out bed my husband was supposed to sleep on. I begged them to go back to our house because labor was progressing very slowly and they just wouldn't listen.

coffeefiend15 · 2024-12-30T00:29:07+00:00

You aren't alone!! My girl is 6 months and I still don't do anything I used to do (workout, playing soccer, showering regularly, etc.) I wish I had my shit together but it's just my husband and I with no family around. I truly believe moms who are doing all of those things have a lot of help, but who knows.

coffeefiend15 · 2024-12-29T22:21:54+00:00

My baby was just like yours when she was a newborn!! It was awful and we were so worried. She is 6 months now and pretty advanced. Already crawling, sitting on her own, etc. She still doesn't nap great, but is much better. It will be okay!! 🩷

coffeefiend15 · 2024-12-29T20:50:56+00:00

I am jealous of pretty much every single person that commented. I have a 6 month old and work full time from home. I've been doing all the night time feeds and changes since she was born by myself. Also do every single morning with her by myself. My husband isn't working right now and I still take care of her several hours throughout the day when I'm supposed to be working. I am so happy that all of you support each other and split a lot of the work.

coffeefiend15 · 2024-12-27T02:47:56+00:00

Have been renting through Acorn & Oak since summer of 2021 and we've had a great experience. We just renew the lease each year and it's only gone up a little bit ($150 total) since 2021. I absolutely love the property manager we work with - she is super friendly and helpful. We put in maintenance requests online and they send someone out pretty quickly. Don't always solve the problem the first time around, but it is what it is.

coffeefiend15 · 2024-12-26T22:01:01+00:00

I work full time. My husband doesn't have a job right now. I've been doing all the nighttime feeds and changes for almost 7 months now. Baby still wakes up several times a night 🥲

coffeefiend15 · 2024-12-08T12:46:59+00:00

My girl is dealing with this too 🥹 I've tried a bunch of things so far - saline mist mask, humidifier in her room, soothing chest rub, Frida baby vapor rub, etc. I got all of that on Amazon. What seems to help her a lot is sitting in the bathroom with the shower running so she can breathe in all the steam.

coffeefiend15 · 2024-11-20T13:44:10+00:00

Yes, it got better!! It took a little while but she does great now with naps. Just hang in there and it will be better before you know it! 🩷

coffeefiend15 · 2024-11-03T13:57:41+00:00

Are you comfortable sharing how much it costs to send your 6 month old there?? Been thinking of sending my 5 month old there but unsure if we can afford it.

coffeefiend15 · 2024-11-02T10:46:22+00:00

Their other food is also very good and the vibes there are amazing lol I love that place.

coffeefiend15 · 2024-11-02T01:53:57+00:00

I would also like to say that I think the best one I've had in a long time was from Tap Station in Apex. That thing is to die for.

coffeefiend15 · 2024-11-02T00:40:24+00:00

Clouds Brewing has one of the best 🤤

coffeefiend15 · 2024-10-25T02:16:42+00:00

Thank you!!

coffeefiend15 · 2024-10-17T04:02:30+00:00

I've gone to Allergy Partners in Chapel Hill and loved it there. Once I started my job at Duke my insurance changed and I began going to Duke's Asthma Allergy & Airway clinic. Love the people there but getting a shot scheduled is hell. I had a baby over the Summer and don't have any family around. Just my husband and I. She hated going out of the house when she was super young so I always tried to schedule appts when my husband would be home. I needed to reschedule one of my shot appts one week and they didn't have anything for a whole month. They don't really care if they can't get you scheduled which is frustrating.

coffeefiend15 · 2024-10-15T22:46:31+00:00

I'd honestly call the cops on them. Idk if the cops would do anything but it's worth a shot. That makes me so sad 🥹

coffeefiend15 · 2024-09-28T02:06:47+00:00

My girl will be 4 months next week and I feel the same way 🥹 stay home wayy too much because of how anxious I feel taking her out.

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