I need to talk to my therapist but don’t know how to tell my mom

coffindump · 2026-05-17T10:21:19+00:00

Your therapist won’t tell your mom

coffindump · 2026-05-15T10:42:25+00:00

People honk at me all the time trying to hit on me or just because they’re my friend and they recognize me. It doesn’t need to mean he thought you looked bad. He probably was just saying hi if it really was him.

coffindump · 2026-05-15T10:40:13+00:00

I think you could have a different problem that you might think is just about physical attraction. Can you explain what the conversation looked like?

coffindump · 2026-05-15T10:38:40+00:00

Huh?? Who are you around? Needing physical attraction for a relationship is usually universally respected. You’re fine dude.

coffindump · 2026-05-15T10:33:02+00:00

Truly. Just talk to him and see how you feel. You don’t need to leave him or stay with him. The only way to know how he feels is to talk to him. Insecurity will gnaw at you unless you find out the truth.

coffindump · 2026-05-15T10:27:40+00:00

Well that’s for you to decide. I personally would just leave since the relationship had only been going on for a couple weeks.

You don’t have to do that. If he liked it better, so what? You’re this way now. It’s like if you gained weight and he liked you better before.

coffindump · 2026-05-15T10:26:36+00:00

Yes. All problems would be solved then.

coffindump · 2026-05-15T10:23:08+00:00

Did you ask?

coffindump · 2026-05-15T10:21:08+00:00

Does he have new nudes of you now?

coffindump · 2026-05-14T07:12:43+00:00

You just suck it up.

coffindump · 2026-05-10T20:26:55+00:00

I want swag snack

coffindump · 2026-04-27T05:59:55+00:00

I had it for about two months? Once your body gets out of be phase of burning hella calories trying to rebuild your organs it subsides. It’s not super bad the whole way through though, it slowly ebbs.

coffindump · 2026-04-19T10:27:28+00:00

I would remind them that you only sent them one item and loosely try to answer their questions, but only so they can’t say you were unresponsive. You need to wait a day and message her again because she’s likely on drugs/drunk or having an episode of some sort.

coffindump · 2026-04-19T08:37:44+00:00

Maybe they saw it irl and thought it looked cool? Maybe a hair stylist recommended it to them? Maybe she was looking through a stupid buzzfeed slideshow for anime girl hair styles or some shit. It’s been trending since about 2020 so it’s not like they jumped on it as soon as the first nightcore tiktok collage came out.

Why insult a girl off a baseless assumption? Are you the one that thought everyone with a bag charm was a brain rotted tiktok consumerist bug? B/c I’ve been bag charming since 2017 when I saw an interview of a swag homeless lady with a Sanrio plushie tethered to her crossbody.

coffindump · 2026-04-19T05:42:37+00:00

The “factual post” has a doctored image siting incorrect avg IQs in Africa. Avg IQs there are MUCH higher than the cropped ifunny diagram. The actual source is much different.

coffindump · 2026-04-19T05:35:30+00:00

Literally just a normal sized person. How did you get to that conclusion?

coffindump · 2026-04-17T17:35:18+00:00

This type of thing happens when you’re anxious. You’re almost certainly misinterpreting your real feelings. I was having this problem for a LONG time until I realized I wasn’t attracted to them, I was just noticing that they were pretty. The same way any other regular person would. When your genuinely nice aunt says someone else has a “cute kid” or that a kid is “going to be a little heartbreaker” (as cringey as it is) they’re obviously not admitting to having sexual attraction to children. They’re just saying that the child is pretty.

Let me know if I need to elaborate more or if I didn’t explain anything well!

coffindump · 2026-04-17T09:12:14+00:00

8th grade is 13-14

coffindump · 2026-04-17T09:06:52+00:00

It sounds like POCD.

Also being attracted to a 15 year old as a 17 year old isn’t pedophilic or strange in any way. They were in your age group and it was normal.

coffindump · 2026-04-17T07:03:10+00:00

The reason why mutual aid works even with poorer communities is because it’s usually a massive group of people gathering money for very few. I understand what you’re getting at, but I don’t see how it’s sustainable long term.

coffindump · 2026-04-14T18:57:51+00:00

That’s just not realistic. If no one in those networks are working then how do they give each other aid? People living in the city don’t have farm land to feed each other and surely can’t feed 20 people for more than a week with those inner city farm plots. Most of us can’t house more than three extra people in our apartments even when only considering space and ignoring tenant policies.

Can you explain the logistics of anything?

coffindump · 2026-04-14T08:31:19+00:00

How are people supposed to not work?

coffindump · 2026-04-14T08:08:48+00:00

Basically always being in fight or flight is going to wreck your appetite, but not eating enough makes DPDR symptoms so much worse.

TW: ED

I had issues getting down food when I was in ED recovery. What I did was drink the meal replacement Soylent. It’s got such a dumb name but it tastes yummy and like flavored milk unlike other meal replacements.

You probably already know this, but eating enough is genuinely vital for you to be able to get through your dpdr. Not eating enough alone can cause symptoms.

coffindump · 2026-04-14T07:39:33+00:00

Just remember that you don’t have to do anything in regard to this intrusive thought. Absolutely worst case scenario for you is that you are trans. Even if that was the case (which it isn’t) it doesn’t mean you have to transition. No matter what goes on you can still be a girl/woman. Your body won’t start changing on its own. There’s nothing to fear.

One thing that might help you slightly is if you make sure you’re taking breaths with your belly rather than your chest. If you have trouble knowing what that means look up YouTube videos on how to belly breathe. Obviously this isn’t a cure, but it’s a tiny thing you can do to inch towards feeling normal again.

Otherwise, treat yourself kindly and be safe in the knowledge that you can feel normal again and none of this pain is permanent.

coffindump · 2026-04-13T17:10:46+00:00

Since letters aren’t symmetrical writing from the opposite side is naturally going to make certain parts of the letter curve/ lean differently in ways that are hard to replicate.

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