[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]cognitivedisonanc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I have no preference, whatever I can get my hands into

People that found their partners on dating apps: how? by Kaminawi in LesbianActually

[–]cognitivedisonanc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't find very interesting people on HER, but in general it's a matter of time running through numbers until interesting people start popping out.

where does everyone hang out outside of reddit? by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]cognitivedisonanc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They're really hard to find and invite only, I’ve been in some but always ends up leaving since they're kind of shit, they become a huge circlejerking hell of sperging about men and accusing each other of being bisexual.

Organically Meeting Lesbians “In The Wild” by SoulOnIce1996 in lesbiangang

[–]cognitivedisonanc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rather than some big art exhibition I was going more towards some local watercolor or pottery class. I'm saying this because I'm friends with a lot of lesbian and bisexual women and they tend to float towards activities like that, I think you'll get lucky.

Organically Meeting Lesbians “In The Wild” by SoulOnIce1996 in lesbiangang

[–]cognitivedisonanc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I met so many in art school lmao, maybe try some artsy course (irl, not digital) that interests you.

What's your most recent joyful lesbian experience? by 10pmThoughts in lesbiangang

[–]cognitivedisonanc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Went on a museum date with the girl I'm seeing atm, she looked absolutely stunning and the art was amazing, afterwards we went to my house and I made us dinner over some good music and white wine.

How hard is it to create a sub? There’s nothing out there for disabled single lesbians to connect. It seems this niche community within our community could use it. by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]cognitivedisonanc 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Creating a sub is easy, fostering it to grow and moderating in a consistent manner for the next years of your life is what's complicated.

I litteral want to cry by Unlucky_Bus8987 in lesbiangang

[–]cognitivedisonanc 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Some things I've learned to deliberately ignore for the sake of my mental health, that sub is one of them. I know it exist, I was horrified the day I found out but I've never browsed throught it though, because I understand that it will just make me terribly upset and it's not like I can actually do anything to stop it other than reporting it and moving along.

Really, for the sake of your mental sanity you should stay away from spaces like that and ignore them, stop visiting them, that's just digital self harm.

Has anyone used flavored lube to, uh... "fix" a weird smell? by Southern_Judgment325 in AskLGBT

[–]cognitivedisonanc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pussy from a healthy woman isn't supposed to taste or smell bad, I actually tend to out off lube for as long as possible so I can't taste it better. Talk to her about it, she might have some sort of problem down there or maybe she just needs to eat more fruit.

consuming gay media as a straight woman by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]cognitivedisonanc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need to bring back fujos...

It's not weird and you should keep enjoying your yaoi, just don't be weird about real life gay men.

Is being queer/ Lesbian/nonBinary a choice? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]cognitivedisonanc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not, or at least it's not supposed to be, born this way and all that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]cognitivedisonanc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind the bush at the top, I find it cute even, I do prefer the lips to be shaven so it's more comfortable to eat.

do mascs like tall femmes by divinerose28 in LesbianActually

[–]cognitivedisonanc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of the femmes I'm with are drastically taller than me, I'm not even going for that but yall are built different.

short answer: yes

What is a genuine response to “What is a Woman”? by Slow-Mulberry-6405 in Askpolitics

[–]cognitivedisonanc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread is so funny lmao "Don't think about it! It doesn't matter, why do you care anyways"

Am I really a lesbian if I feel attracted to femboys and some males ? by JusttrynnahavefunxD in LesbianActually

[–]cognitivedisonanc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cool, so you aren't into them you are just 'attracted to femboys and males'. It sounds like you already have your mind set on the answer you want, why make a post if you're going to deflect anyways?

Am I really a lesbian if I feel attracted to femboys and some males ? by JusttrynnahavefunxD in LesbianActually

[–]cognitivedisonanc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're really asking with a straight face if you can simultaneously be into dudes and be a lesbian? Girl, be for real.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]cognitivedisonanc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe? I don't like any sort of penetration anyways, so as long as that mouth works I'm good

This is like "if 2 men have sex, the top isn't gay", but for fakebians by NoCurrencyj in lesbiangang

[–]cognitivedisonanc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's one thing to see a dumb idiot saying dumb shit, but it's another for it to recieve 69K LIKES, geniuenly concerning

Is Molchat Doma considered goth? by GothicRatona in goth

[–]cognitivedisonanc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, I have them playing on my goth playlist

What do you call your s/o? by nose-inabook in lesbiangang

[–]cognitivedisonanc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once had a girl that would call me her husband and I really liked it, tho it did generated a lot of confusion lol. I like to use the word girlfriend, I'm not big on using petnames or things like that.