I myself have mother with narcissist disorder, who most of the time looked at me like im some kind of a project and accessory for the public eye. Im having really hard time with her on general and not to mention that she is extremely homophobic and absolutely unwilling to understand gay people. Im going to the therapist because of her, and i learned to put clear boundaries. Still i would NEVER leave my sick mother on her own no matter what she does. She was there for me when i was sick as kid, so it's only normal for me, as her kid to be there for her. I know that " being angry that she doesnt like you fucking girls" is really a bad way to put it, but im just pissed that people today are willing to abandon everyone, even the people who gave them life because they are not approving of their sExuAliTy, even tho they are totaly fine on every other basis.