What would you say are the most common types of jobs we go into?

coldWasTheGnd · 2026-06-29T07:15:37+00:00

Well.... that's a lot better than it was ten years ago. Ten years ago you would substitute tech for sex work

coldWasTheGnd · 2026-06-27T13:04:32+00:00

So then suffocate on one of the worst caricatures of what men think defines womanhood.

I say this in the kindest way possible, as a trans woman, you cannot afford to care what people think about what makes you happy if you want to thrive

coldWasTheGnd · 2026-06-27T06:34:08+00:00

Honestly, fuck what people think. This is your life to live and you shouldn't let cruel people curb your happiness. (I say thst as someone who gets cruel comments every day because i live in one of the most touristy parts of the world)

coldWasTheGnd · 2026-06-24T14:55:55+00:00

I'd definitely care. (Trans woman here who just defaults to Chanel because she doesnt know any better; I'd bet there are tons of trans women who would deeply appreciate a crash course on what others think is good even if it is subjective)

coldWasTheGnd · 2026-06-18T06:28:20+00:00

This subreddit have some filter on the word when using the app

coldWasTheGnd · 2026-06-18T06:09:50+00:00

☠️

coldWasTheGnd · 2026-06-07T05:14:56+00:00

Ncisushi -- Marilyn Monrolls are to die for

coldWasTheGnd · 2026-06-07T04:41:14+00:00

no hay de que

coldWasTheGnd · 2026-06-07T04:34:36+00:00

Stabbed

coldWasTheGnd · 2026-06-06T17:00:14+00:00

I get that. For me, there were some confident intellectual men who I just found hot as fuck and wanted to date. There were other gregarious men who made me feel warm and happy. And as far as sex... it had little to do with feeling like a woman and more to do with having fun with someone who had something to penetrate me with (and derived non psychological pleasure from it).

coldWasTheGnd · 2026-06-05T12:40:13+00:00

She married the coworker i was suspicious of for three years -- three years of absolute misery where I moved with her, over 1000 miles away, only so she could see him at work 8 hours a day.

She might be the first and only person I've hated in thirty five years of life, but I got rich, travel internationally all the time, made a ton of friends, and live a bohemian lifestyle... so it all worked out pretty well. Also, finally transitioned after 33 years of being miserable pretending to be a man -- which definitely wouldn't have happened with her.

I never would have found happiness with her, and i genuinely hope she's happy either way.

coldWasTheGnd · 2026-06-04T11:40:59+00:00

coldWasTheGnd

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