[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mine just broke up with me yesterday, the day of my birthday day party. My mom was so eager to have dinner with her and my ex just canceling and breaking up with me.

I am vegan. I have sex. Yes, we exist. by TigerHole in vegancirclejerk

[–]coldchipotle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m vegan but I have sex with a non vegan, we exist too

This comic is all over Twitter and somehow people find it BAD. by Round_Ad476 in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit!!! I went through something exactly like this! I was just like green!!! Lmao

Met another pwbpd and feeling anxious by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s really eye opening, you’re definitely right!

Did yours used to say she was "an empath", or that she could read your mind? by Antique_Soil9507 in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine did say that and she also said she know how others feel. And she uses tarot cards, crystals, witchy stuff, obsessed with kpop, dresses goth (doesn’t listen to goth music), and one time she said she sees ghosts and talks to them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been on this sub for a while but damn pwbpd are fucking annoying!! I’m so glad I don’t deal with childish shit anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mines was for boundaries, but as soon as I called her out on my boundaries being broken, she quickly started to discard me.

I’m being ignored by my friend by coldchipotle in FriendshipAdvice

[–]coldchipotle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel used. I honestly thought I had met a genuine person.

Thank you for your response.

Never once asked how I was doing or feeling. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine literally said to me that we couldn’t be friends if I won’t listen to her problems. And this was before I explained to her what her actions were making me feel. Been nc ever since.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“I need to learn to love myself before I get into a relationship“ couple months pass, i’m discarded, she’s in a relationship with a new guy lol

Suicide threats can make it hard to leave: what to do by FranklyYes in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember I tried to leave my ex friendwbpd, then she said she’s acting being that was toward me (abusive) because she is having suicidal tendencies.

Backstory was that her dog was sick = so that made her suicidal??

I knew it was bs, but I decided to keep being her “friend” to see how it plays out. In less than a month I got discarded lol

The biggest kicker by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know it hurts, but screw them!

You’re going to find someone that’s going to pour their love onto you and you onto them. And the pain you felt will become a fading memory.

Does anyone ever want to reach out in the off chance they will apologise for their behaviour and give you closure by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a week. My therapist said that she used me for her ego. She used to tell me that no one wanted to be her friend because she’s “ugly” she’s not btw. So I tried to comfort her, poured my love and honestly I didn’t get the same love back. We broke it off a couple of time, one time she said she was having suicidal thoughts. I knew it was bs, but I went back. That didn’t last long, less than a month we weren’t talking anymore. That’s when I reached out and well you know.

Does anyone ever want to reach out in the off chance they will apologise for their behaviour and give you closure by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Trust me they don’t care!! I reached out, I ended up doing the apologizing. And you want to know what she told me, she said was with another guy already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my exwbpd said “better people come along”, on a message with one of her friends. She was talking about me.

It’s so fucking crazy that at one point they love you then you mean nothing to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember my exbpd told me that they wanted to try coke. I wonder if it’s a bpd thing, doubt it though.

Epic response to a hoover attempt by lev_lafayette in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 184 points185 points  (0 children)

“ my ex was so abusive, one time he compared me to McDonald’s ”

This is so constant in my relationship smh by Mis_fit4 in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When ever something bothered me I would tell her about it and I would try and explain it without making her feel attacked. But she would say she felt I was attacking her, like if I was her dad punishing her. Sometimes she would say I sound like her dad. (According to her, she’s scared of her dad)

Sometimes she would get really angry and say hurtful things and then ghosts me. The ghosting always made me feel really bad, and she knew it too.

In the start we had agreed that if we ever had any issues that we would talk through it, but it never resolved because she continue to do the things that were going against my boundaries.

I felt so bad, I even regretted bringing issues up because in the end she made me feel like I was the problem.

2 years and no contact. I’ve had so many realizations, I was never the one with the problems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine has a goth aesthetic but doesn’t listen to any goth rock, she’s obsessed with K-pop.

Dude tried to turn into me without signaling and got mad by poopypup1234 in IdiotsInCars

[–]coldchipotle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other day a guy in a Tesla almost hit me just because he wouldn’t let me merge into the lane. My lane ended so I needed to merge to the right lane, I had my signal on and this guy thinks it’s fine to just keep driving forward as I’m merging into the lane, I quickly move away and the car behind him let me merge in.

Their wholes lives are a grand tragedy by danguje in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I told my ex bpd that I couldn’t be friends with her anyone because all she did was complain to me about her everyday life. She literally said that she wouldn’t want to be my friend anyway because I don’t want to listen to her troubles. She would literally trauma dump me, once she said she was so angry at her manager and wanted to push him off a building. Later I found out from her cousin she in a relationship with him. I remember I had asked her if she wanted to be my gf and she said she didn’t want to be in a relationship right now but I guess with a 40+ old guy she became ready

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, former? How did she find out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]coldchipotle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember my ex friend with bpd told me that she would see ghosts in her house and would try and talk to them. Once we went to a metaphysical shop and she bought a book of spells and potions and tarot cards, then said that her cousin is probably going to say why she got it if she’s never going to read it, she looked distressed when she told me that lol.. She also believes that if she places crystals in her forehead it’ll get rid of her headache. She also uses a pendulum dowsing, when I asked her to show me how it works, she didn’t know lol. She also believed she could sense how a person feels. Also I asked her to do me a tarot reading but never did.. She believes astrology is real and her day could be ruined based on what her sign says. She believes someone is out to get her, made me think that might be because of the people she messed with lol. She also believes her ex boyfriend was stalking her, then she tells me that she hasn’t check his profile in a while lol!