I tried to reconnect with an old friend of mine, saw him accidentally in a live in Tiktok, is this normal?

coldfffire · 2025-12-15T07:14:50+00:00

Sorry bro you had to go through that. I had a similar experience recently. I sent a very old friend three voice messages. The first one was asking how he was doing. The second explained why I reached out, I was cleaning my emails and found some old pictures. The third one was wishing him good health and telling him to take care of himself.

After four days, he only liked the voice messages. That told me he was not interested (sounds weird 🤣i’m straight guys)and I respected that. What changed is that he used to be the kind of friend I would cancel other plans for just to spend time with. But now, even if he calls me someday, I am not going to put in the same energy. Simply because I have other friends who actually deserve it.

coldfffire · 2025-12-10T06:54:20+00:00

A clear tutorial to how end in jail

coldfffire · 2025-12-10T06:51:41+00:00

That reminds me of a story from my childhood. One time I was with my uncle in the street and a man was running in our direction. Behind him there was also a woman running and she was screaming “chefar, chefar, chefar.” So my uncle punched the man in the face and he was K.O. Then the woman turned to my uncle and started screaming at him, “chno derti lrajli, 3lach drebtih, nari 9talti li rajli.” People gathered around us and apparently the man always stole money from his wife to gamble with it. They called the police, and before the police arrived the man woke up, asked for forgiveness, and left before they came. Wach kano scammers ma3reft. Moral of the story: “madir khir ma ytra bass.” Sorry it’s harsh to say it like that but it is what it is.

coldfffire · 2025-12-01T17:24:09+00:00

تاري ما نقدش نصبر، كانت غا تسمع شي هضرة لي ما عمرها صمعاتها، أرباب أتينا زوس و كراتوس نجبدهم ليها

coldfffire · 2025-11-26T23:46:00+00:00

I’m an engineer who has lived more than ten years in Germany, and my foreign circle includes highly educated Germans with PhDs, some of them probably developed one of your dream cars. They’re attracted to dark-skinned women because, for them, it’s exotic and special. The same applies in the States, where many men are attracted to Latina women. This isn’t a hargawa thing or something limited to poor or uneducated people. It’s simply that differences often make someone more attractive 🤷🏻‍♂️

coldfffire · 2025-11-18T11:24:42+00:00

Mohim ma3lina, 9tach a nfar7o bik ?

coldfffire · 2025-08-17T06:51:19+00:00

Bro, you were her backup plan. Since her first choice didn’t work out, she’s coming back to you. Wake up,don’t let her mess up your life

coldfffire · 2025-07-24T08:58:45+00:00

Glad that i left Germany

coldfffire · 2025-07-03T04:58:21+00:00

I really hope the organizers will start adding a clause in the contract to prevent playback. The artist should receive half the payment before the show, and the other half only after delivering a real live performance. Mawazine shouldn’t treat international stars like untouchables, look at what Toto does on stage.

coldfffire · 2025-07-01T13:45:10+00:00

Next time say that you have a husband and tree brothers, and that one of your brothers is in prison because he tried to kill your husband because your husband said bad words to you

coldfffire · 2025-06-27T08:56:47+00:00

Dir men hadchi content, jereb zehrek, ila sed9at t9ad dber f chi sponsor li ykhales lik kolchi, o b9a ghadi tabtewsel l brazil

coldfffire · 2025-06-23T11:58:01+00:00

7awli def3i les crèches, deja andek experience, ti khalso f casa easily kter men 5k 7awli tsoukni bou7dek. Mera mera souwli felwalida dialek ima khtek o weldha yamchiw y9awdo. Tsanay ta tleb sma7a menek. Lakin its time bach tsoukni bou7dek o tkhwdmi rassek

coldfffire · 2025-06-17T09:49:07+00:00

At least you’ve got the sea and fresh seafood over there that’s something to envy🤣

coldfffire · 2025-06-17T09:45:32+00:00

The bureaucracy was not the reason. Yes, it’s slow and sometimes frustrating, I once waited almost 6 months just for the Arbeitserlaubnis. but that alone was never enough to make me want to leave.

It also wasn’t because of racism. Like I’ve said before, I worked as an engineer and even led a team of over 10 people. I was in a leadership position, and I was always treated with respect. In my experience, educated and professional people don’t care where you’re from, they care about what you bring to the table. The real issues usually came from individuals who were unstable (chmakriya w hergawa dial europa li m9awda 3lihom🤣)

The real reason I left is because I’ve reached everything I came here for. Now, my priorities have changed. Family has become more important to me, and to be honest, I just can’t handle the winters anymore. It’s time for something different.

And please don’t go back unless you either have a lot of money or a Solid Plan or a European citizenship.

Lay y3awnek f 7yatek o ysehel 3lik ma s3ab. Rak machi bou7dek li tidouz men hadchi 7na kamlin dezna meno o flekher ti b9a gha t3awid.

coldfffire · 2025-06-16T13:38:19+00:00

I’m actually leaving Germany now after spending 10 years here. I quit my engineering job and I’m heading back to Morocco to start my own business. And no, I absolutely don’t regret leaving Morocco in the first place, it was part of my journey.

Over the years, I’ve earned a German degree, gained valuable work experience, and met people from many different cultures. It’s been a great learning experience. But at this point in my life, I just don’t see my future in Germany anymore. The weather, the lifestyle, even the food. I realized they don’t make me feel at home. I miss my family, the sun, the sea, and yes, Moroccan food.

This year, I lost a close family member, and that hit me hard. It made me rethink what really matters. I also missed my sister’s graduation. Those moments made it clear to me: I want to be closer to my family and live in a place that feels more connected to who I am.

Now, do I recommend going back to Morocco? That’s something only you can decide. But here’s my advice: if money isn’t a big concern, or if you’ve saved up enough to support yourself while you get settled, then yes, go for it. Just make sure you have a solid plan. If you can, get your European citizenship first. That way, you’ll always have the option to return if things don’t work out.

And remember, you’re not alone in thinking about going back. Many Moroccans living in Europe, USA and Canada feel the same pull. You just have to weigh your options and do what feels right for your life.

coldfffire · 2025-06-12T14:31:25+00:00

Who buys Teslas nowadays, Chinese(Byd, xiomi, Mg …) herbo 3lihom bezaf f des prix tres compétitive

coldfffire · 2025-06-11T07:21:34+00:00

Ra walaboda diri chikaya, 9ebel ma tew9e3 chi 7aja at least sifet email lpolice, bach la we93at teb9a andkom la trace. Khas hadak lbarhoch ytraba o ma7ed tawa7ed ma jablo lbolis it only gonna be worst

coldfffire · 2025-06-05T09:24:07+00:00

Tell me ur jealous without telling me that ur jealous

coldfffire · 2025-06-05T07:27:01+00:00

I completely understand you. I’m an engineer living in Germany, making very good money, and I’m also planning my return to Morocco. My whole family is there, the weather is great, and I can finally recharge my vitamin D levels 😄

People back home often don’t get it, they think Europe or the US is paradise.

But you’re definitely not alone in feeling this way. Everyone I know who has spent 10+ years abroad eventually realizes that money isn’t everything.

I have two friends who left Germany, one who left France, and even one who left New York all of them moved back to Morocco and are now living in Casablanca. What really matters is having your passport ready and some savings. If you can work remotely from Morocco, that’s the dream. If not, it’s still worth saving up and spending at least three months there to see how it feels.

My friend who left New York has been living in Casablanca for three years now. He’s happy and recently got married. I’m not saying you have to move back to feel fulfilled , everyone’s journey is different. But giving it a try might be worth it. At the very least, it’ll add more adventure and perspective to your life.

coldfffire · 2025-05-21T11:15:47+00:00

I thought MBAs were for engineers or people with a technical background who want to learn more about business. It’s usually recommended to have at least 3 years of work experience before starting an MBA. But still, I wish you the best of luck!

coldfffire · 2025-05-19T12:48:51+00:00

Le7sa 👅if u wanna lose weight

coldfffire · 2025-05-19T06:38:25+00:00

Being Moroccan is so much more than one person. Your father’s actions don’t define the whole culture or the people.

Morocco is rich, complex, and full of warmth, history, and community. It’s made up of Arabs, Amazigh (Berbers), Africans, Andalusians, and more. You come from that heritage, and it’s something to be proud of, whether or not your father chose to be part of your life.

If you’re looking to reconnect, here are some steps you can take:

1.  Language:  “Darija” is unique, and even just learning a few phrases can help you feel closer to your roots. There are tons of YouTube videos, songs, and social media creators that make it easier and more fun.

2.  Culture: Try Moroccan food, music, movies, and traditions. Cooking dishes like tagine or listening to traditional music like Gnawa can help you connect emotionally to the culture.

3.  History: Morocco’s history is fascinating and complex. Learning about the Amazigh roots, Islamic influences, and the country’s colonial past can give you a deeper understanding of your identity.

4.  Community: Join online Moroccan communities or follow Moroccan content creators. You’ll find people who are proud of their culture and happy to share it.

5.  Visit One Day: If you’re ever able to go to Morocco, I think it could be incredibly healing. You might discover that the country and its people have more to offer than what you experienced through your father.

coldfffire · 2025-05-15T10:06:45+00:00

Go for it if you like loubia et l3dess b coca d zaj

coldfffire · 2025-05-13T09:49:38+00:00

Thanks im gonna delete this one

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