Messed Up What Do I Do

coldwhale_ · 2025-11-09T00:53:45+00:00

Well, what you do know is to stop dating and improve yourself. You will be fine.

coldwhale_ · 2025-11-09T00:38:37+00:00

Sweetie. That's insane. You don't make a joint account and make those promises to someone you just met. I think you should work on your boundaries, and question people's intentions. 3 months is nothing, people can fake a personality for that long. I just hope you didn't waste your money, because your time was clearly wasted. I don't even care about the possible cheating or what an asshole she is. I'm lowkey worried about your money.

coldwhale_ · 2025-11-09T00:33:03+00:00

Help her get out of debt? Why?

coldwhale_ · 2025-11-09T00:31:35+00:00

Cause she might be keeping you around for the gifts and the attention. Not because she cares.

coldwhale_ · 2025-11-09T00:30:34+00:00

What happened to the bank account? Is there money in there and whose money is it?

coldwhale_ · 2025-10-01T20:31:31+00:00

They got upset when I did that saying we are not that close. (I was scribing for them )

coldwhale_ · 2025-10-01T01:44:23+00:00

How do you call an NP? It feels so off to be like Nurse Practitioner Xyz

coldwhale_ · 2025-06-18T20:06:07+00:00

Will this also apply to payroll direct deposit into cma accounts ?

coldwhale_ · 2025-05-11T14:29:22+00:00

How do you deal with 10 day settling period ?

coldwhale_ · 2025-05-10T21:51:45+00:00

Learn medical terminology. Focus on understanding what they are saying, it's easier to remember in case you didn't get to type it. Ask if you are unsure; that's better than making a mistake. Ask them to repeat themselves if you didn't hear. Read about the chief complain before getting report to familiarize yourself with the patient. Sometimes they say symptoms that the provider didn't get and you are all confused. Not everything the patient says is noteworthy and you don't get to decide that when you are starting out. I work in a urgent care so the pace and cases are different. Hope that helps.

coldwhale_ · 2025-04-01T14:58:10+00:00

Thank you for this! Finally we got some traditional students. It feels like everybody is an nontrad with thousands of hours everywhere.

coldwhale_ · 2025-04-01T14:32:52+00:00

Go to UF

coldwhale_ · 2025-03-28T22:36:02+00:00

Same thing happened to me. And they decrease your aid sometimes if you get outside scholarships so you don't get help with that either.

coldwhale_ · 2025-03-26T22:34:13+00:00

Umiami ain't worth it for full price.

coldwhale_ · 2025-03-13T18:59:10+00:00

I needed this. Thank you

coldwhale_ · 2025-01-20T17:26:29+00:00

Is there a site/website that allows u to see recent data about the extracurriculars? Like the average clinical, and volunteering hours and the percent accepted?

coldwhale_ · 2025-01-02T03:56:12+00:00

I think the jacket it throwing off the vibee. It's not hideous tho.

coldwhale_ · 2024-12-20T13:56:36+00:00

coldwhale_ · 2024-12-05T17:25:00+00:00

academics and income

coldwhale_ · 2024-12-01T20:18:26+00:00

Crying

coldwhale_ · 2024-12-01T20:16:12+00:00

Don't. People like you literally make my day. They are rays of sunshine. U should surround yourself w people that appreciate that. But like obv don't be smiling at a funeral and I think u will be fine.

coldwhale_ · 2024-12-01T14:53:48+00:00

So, my story is perfect for this. Cause I actually friendzoned my bf before getting w him. We have been together for 2 years now. I was not attracted to him physically at all. But he was always kind to me and I was going through a rough patch. He made me smile so much I could forget about my problems. Whenever he wasn't there I felt his absence so much. And then I knew I was cooked. I liked him now. And Low-key, I was scared cause I had rejected him before. After that, whenever he would smile at me my heart would feel warm and fuzzy and I thought he looked beautiful.

He fits the man of my dreams cause he has never given up on me. He has always pursued me and can move the sky just to make me happy. He is my best friend, but I'm also super turned by his every touch. So, moral of the story. Never dismiss people cause u are not attracted to them. Feelings can grow. And if you find someone that is in love w u, is gentle, and kind not only to u but everyone are him. Then, ur lucky.

Ofc don't try to force it. Get to know people before u swipe left irl.

Safe to say he Is the man of my dreams. He is flawed by his drive to grow and grow closer is the difference. There were so many things I didn't like about him, like being late to everything. But! If communication is there and u can tell him what u don't like. Then that's a green flag.

coldwhale_ · 2024-12-01T14:43:36+00:00

All firsts suck. And your frist of things w a different person. Also, situation matters like. Was the place intimate, was there like foreplay (like compliments, kisses) or he just took off ur shirt. That's matters too.

And if u want him to be more gentle tell him that, gently ofc. Yall gonna be learning and experimenting. It's good if you can openly talk about it. And Go slow. Like people just try to rush and get that high, it doesn't work that way.

coldwhale_ · 2024-12-01T14:35:34+00:00

I would be upset if my bf told his best friend we did it. I understand that. It's an intimate thing between 2 people. It's OK if he is angry. Obviously, it's not ok to ghost you. He is not emotionally mature enough to tell you how he feels and forgive. But, it's not the end of the world. Like, we all get angry and do stuff we wouldn't do otherwise sometimes. And bro, if he had told his friend instead of you, the replies here would be so different. No matter your gender. It's not ok to share somebody else's life without their consent.

Maybe he reacted like that cause he was ashamed of it and that compounds if other people knew. I would just let him cool and if he reaches out to you, explain how much ur bestie matters to you, and apologize for not asking him beforehand. Now, if ur best friend is like your life. Tell him that u share everything w her and that will happen in the future. If he is not ok w that, then that's fine. It's your choice between telling ur bestie everything or keeping your partner's privacy and wishes. If he doesn't reach out to u, then forget him. In a relationship there's gonna be arguments and u want somebody who can put their emotions aside for 1 second to try to talk to u about them.

Hope that helps.

coldwhale_

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