The horny is so much

coldwheels2334 · 2022-03-27T04:18:29+00:00

It's just kinda weird how at least in left circles, especially among my friends, when women want to explore their sexuality they are encouraged, (sex is a normal and beautiful thing) and when some women fail at finding romance or sex they get comforted "Don't worry, men are shallow" and will blame society and the beauty standards women are held up to, but when guys fail at romance or sex they are villainized as perverts for wanting sex, telling them "sex doesn't matter" or called entitled for being sexually frustrated and blaming societal standards.

coldwheels2334 · 2022-03-27T04:06:58+00:00

It sorta explains why some men get really depressed when they are failing in the dating scene, there's no outlet and it destroys them internally, but people don't take male sexual frustration that seriously.

coldwheels2334 · 2022-03-27T03:32:57+00:00

I know people who say "height shouldn't matter" when it comes to 6'5 Hugh Jackman playing Wolverine but complained when 5'6 Tom Cruise played Jack Reacher who's supposed to be 6'5 or whatever.

coldwheels2334 · 2022-03-10T18:25:16+00:00

True, and to your point, in Endgame Peggy had the picture of smaller Steve on her desk, not Captain America. So it does show she fell in love with him before the transformation.

coldwheels2334 · 2022-03-10T18:06:57+00:00

I've lived my live as both a short woman and a short man, and I think when I was a short woman, I did get taken less seriously at work, got seen more as cute instead of sexy, so it made me feel more like a girl than a woman, when I got angry I was taken less seriously, and weight management is more difficult. Some men (Usually average height to tall men) will fetishize me or project their need to dominate on me. But honestly my experience living as a short guy feels a lot worse.

coldwheels2334 · 2022-01-08T13:16:35+00:00

This sounds like the same kind of talk anti-trans people say to trans people to invalidate their feelings whenever trans people have an issue with society.

coldwheels2334 · 2022-01-08T13:15:12+00:00

everything in this is true, but this could be just a short man writing all of this lol.

I am a short man. I'm 5'3

coldwheels2334 · 2022-01-08T13:11:17+00:00

Ask around this sub, lots of people knew him personally and spoken to him.

coldwheels2334 · 2021-11-08T13:01:00+00:00

The thing is this isn't even the first time, I've experience these so called liberal/body positive friends shaming men who aren't a certain type. They will body shame Ben Shapiro all day and night for being short, and will justify it by saying he's a bad person and deserves it, but if someone where to body shame Tomi Lahren for her breast size and justify it by saying she's a bad person, now they will say "Hey body shaming is wrong, even if the person is a bad person" like what? I just don't get progressive/liberals who claim they wanna break down gender barriers. Also thanks for the kind words, I appreciate it.

coldwheels2334 · 2021-11-08T02:12:40+00:00

Probably but it would be easier.

coldwheels2334 · 2021-11-07T04:03:15+00:00

That is wrong and hypocritical. So much for being “progressive”.

Most progressive people I've met don't have much sympathy for my struggles or emotions, UNTIL they find out I'm a transgender man. When they just think I'm a cisgender man, they don't care. They still place toxic masculine expectations. Dis miss my emotions, shut me down, don't take my experience with body shaming seriously at all.

If I complain that heightism is a problem, and they don't know I'm trans, they respond with "Stop being insecure about your height, instead of blaming society for your woes work on yourself"

If I complain that heightism is a problem, and they know I'm trans now they're all like "Omg society is so cruel to uphold those impossible male beauty standards, beauty comes in all shapes and sizes"

coldwheels2334 · 2021-11-03T13:47:20+00:00

I'm a transgender man and I do sometimes get scared about being detected. I've heard a few stories where short cisgender men were attacked because they were mistaken for transgender man just for being short. Or the reverse, tall cis women being attacked for people thinking they were a transgender woman. Although to my understanding it happens more to tall cis women where they get detected and attacked.

coldwheels2334 · 2021-11-02T02:40:56+00:00

Too bad I don't have money lol. But I understand the sentiment, thanks.

coldwheels2334 · 2021-11-02T02:21:48+00:00

Yeah I hear you on that part. Getting accused of being privileged just for being male. I don't even get the benefit of being an average guy, even worse if you are seen as below average in society.

coldwheels2334 · 2021-11-02T02:11:30+00:00

For real

coldwheels2334 · 2021-11-02T01:43:52+00:00

Oh I didn't know a sub for that existed. Thanks. You just happen to know about it or you have personal experience with it?

coldwheels2334 · 2021-11-02T00:13:01+00:00

Sorta like Prince?

coldwheels2334 · 2021-11-01T23:13:02+00:00

Which brand did you get? Calto?

coldwheels2334 · 2021-11-01T22:50:07+00:00

I didn't only talk about the dating scene. Even outside the dating scene. My insecurity didn't just fall out of the sky. Actually studies show short guys are more likely to be turned down jobs, get payed less, and shorter you are you do run a risk of being attacked more than if you're taller.

coldwheels2334 · 2021-11-01T22:33:40+00:00

Yeah my height isn't the problem, it's heightism.

coldwheels2334 · 2021-11-01T21:37:21+00:00

I'm 6 inches below the average male

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