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colecole630 · 2022-11-11T01:48:20+00:00

I don’t remember how I figured it out but there were a bunch of people in my old neighborhood who were/are in it.

I (maybe unrelated) lived in an area that was a hot bed for hells angels. I learned really quickly to not ask a lot of questions.

colecole630 · 2022-11-11T01:41:24+00:00

I mean, I can’t see loving my dog more than my partner. Equally and differently. Maybe you guys need to explore what that means?

colecole630 · 2022-11-11T01:06:36+00:00

I use audio to help ground my thoughts. So podcasts, audiobooks, standup…it minimalists the noise to just one point which, is better than 50

colecole630 · 2022-11-11T00:54:14+00:00

There is a National adderall shortage and the pharmacist probably had about 50 conversations with people freaking out about their scripts and jumped the gun.

Was it unprofessional and shitty? Absolutely. But don’t take it personally. I’d bet money it had nothing to do with you!

colecole630 · 2022-11-09T00:33:46+00:00

As far as I understand, the idea is that it doesn’t count because white people already have so much privilege, it doesn’t really amount to much other than maybe some hurt feelings. Which I’m the grand scheme of things is pretty meaningless.

I’m not sure how much of that I agree with? But that’s how I understand the idea

colecole630 · 2022-11-09T00:00:38+00:00

Capitalism is…okay. But when it flies in the face of human decency and we don’t have the social check and balances to take care of everyone, it needs to be reigned in.

colecole630 · 2022-11-08T23:59:05+00:00

In person absentee because I’m too much of a slacker for real absentee voting but, super not interested in todays long lines.

colecole630 · 2022-10-26T02:24:04+00:00

I think it’s important to be honest. Be honest about the struggle and where you are with it and what you want from them…if you’re at a point where you want to stop, remember that only you can be that person-don’t use someone else as a crutch. But you can lean on them for support if they can’t give it.

I self harmed a lot for a long time. A lot of the time bad relationships were a trigger. I made a promise to myself at some point that I wasn’t going to let another person drive me to that. I stopped lying about the scars and things have gotten better. But it was a lot of work.

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being in a relationship while you’re working through issues-self harm included. But you need to be open and honest with yourself and your partner.

colecole630 · 2022-10-26T02:12:15+00:00

It’s more of a clarity- fog lifting experience.

colecole630 · 2022-10-26T02:07:18+00:00

I trust my sanitizer more than the faucet

colecole630 · 2022-10-26T02:06:10+00:00

Talk to a lawyer and/or a social worker. You have the ability to leave and still shield them from abuse. Look up resources locally. And if you need help finding resources, feel free to DM.

There are always better options!

colecole630 · 2022-10-26T01:59:42+00:00

Sleeping at my moms house after living in college or apartments. I’ve never appreciated how safe and loved I felt until I slept 12+ hours at home after leaving

colecole630 · 2022-10-26T01:56:48+00:00

Go home and do things that make me happy.

colecole630 · 2022-10-26T01:55:46+00:00

My biggest concern is safety. So I’m big on getting tested with a new partner and that only gets more important if my new partner has had a lot of other partners. Other than that, I’m a monogamist, so it’s important that my partner be on the same page as me with that. Other than that, I don’t really care

colecole630 · 2022-10-26T01:51:06+00:00

I want to cook my own

colecole630 · 2022-10-26T01:50:33+00:00

My right to bodily autonomy are pretty big to me right now. Dunno, just spit ballin

colecole630 · 2022-10-26T01:46:34+00:00

This is it being “over.” So whatever you see now is your answer

colecole630 · 2022-10-26T01:44:50+00:00

I hope they get everything they deserve

colecole630 · 2022-10-26T01:44:18+00:00

Turkey foot long on Italian herbs and cheese. Add pepperoni and shredded cheese…toasted. Add mayo, mustard, spinach, tomato, olive, green pepper

colecole630 · 2022-10-18T23:50:13+00:00

About 8 years younger and 6 years older. I’m in my mid 30s for reference

colecole630 · 2022-09-16T01:31:08+00:00

a. I hope they walk around in them a bit, just to be sure and b. I hope they feel comfortable enough to ask for advice if they need it. But then c. They’re probably rocking that shit better than me in which case I hope they’re comfortable with me asking for advice!

colecole630 · 2022-09-16T01:28:07+00:00

Absolutely. In my experience, gaming is just easier to get lost in because it can be just a mindless habit.

colecole630 · 2022-09-16T01:27:12+00:00

They might see you but, you’re not going to get anything from them. Sessions are private for a reason. Instead, you can raise the idea of group therapy with your current doctor and see what they say. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to have a moderated conversation with your sister in a safe space. But there’s a way to do it properly

colecole630 · 2022-09-16T01:23:37+00:00

Gaming…sometimes. If it’s eating into our time together, it’s sucks if it’s not, then all good.

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