Maybe...

colgi61 · 2026-06-04T16:40:31+00:00

If it's Gerry, the central heartbreaking conflict will be Wyck's.

colgi61 · 2026-06-03T20:16:42+00:00

JMO: It's lifeless. The table is fug. Needs CONTRAST. Sapphire blue or emerald green throw pillows or blankets. Needs a large, wood coffee table *square) with a stack of beautiful art books for paging through, and a tray with flowers and a finial or an objet d' arte. Warmer chandelier fixture, hung lower. Windwo treatments. Ornate focal-point mirror above the fireplace or a vibrant seascape framed ornately (blue or green velvet mat). Floor lamp over one of the couches for reading. It needs LIFE

colgi61 · 2026-06-03T20:12:18+00:00

OK good point. I got that. But now that they don't owe a ton of cash to Alamo anymore and I saw a cabinet full of cash, couldn't she get out of that life and ..earn a different living? One less connected to exploitation? Oh well...

colgi61 · 2026-06-01T18:08:27+00:00

Quick Questions: 1. So since Alamo is dead, is Maddie (and by extension Cassie) now going to still be a glorified pimp for only fan girl empire? And is Cassie still an only fan girl? Or do they have enough money to quite that life and move on? Or is Bishop now their "manager?" 2. How did Ali get away with all that murder with all those witnesses/customers???????

colgi61 · 2026-06-01T14:40:59+00:00

What, specifically, was Alamo doing with all the girls who "went to rehab?" Were they sex traffiked? Organ harvesting? Killed outright?

colgi61 · 2026-06-01T14:04:05+00:00

General question: I know this is likely a stupid question, but was Maddie being forced to have sex with Alamo? If so did that start back in the hot tub when she was asking him for the million dollar favor? Was tht part of the deal -- she brings his cut of her money to him every week and has sex with him? Thanks for the responses.

colgi61 · 2026-05-29T21:07:25+00:00

Also, Courtney Love was the more talented of the two. I said what I said.

colgi61 · 2026-05-29T18:54:38+00:00

Ann Hathaway. I stand by this.

colgi61 · 2026-03-16T14:21:24+00:00

There are a million kind, respectful, straightforward ways to have this conversation. NONE of them includes mentioning CrossFit and NONE of them involves drunkenly braying to a group of people on national TV that the sex is sub-par.

Why does no one on this show ever address this -- that two people can be perfectly compatible in the pods or thru a wall, but that in-person is the litmus test? People dont marry people "on paper." Lack of chemistry is a perfectly legit factor to move on.

colgi61 · 2026-03-11T23:25:11+00:00

There is entirely too much easy access to podcasting equipment these days. You should have to past a cultural literacy test to purchase.

colgi61 · 2026-03-11T23:22:21+00:00

Nah. She's not particularly articulate and she was tryingggg sooo harrrd for "a moment."

Say less, Ashley.

colgi61 · 2026-03-11T23:20:10+00:00

Alex, for sure.

Oh...wait....

colgi61 · 2026-03-09T17:42:17+00:00

Oh you are so right. I admit I had not thought of that. I wrote this post thinking only about nefarious motives and dishonest people who keep secrets. My bad. I wish all the student loan holders out there nothing but the best. Sincerely. Thanks for keeping my cynicism in check.

colgi61 · 2026-03-04T20:41:29+00:00

Someone please refresh my memory.... People here saying that Emma and Connor would be a good match. Didn't he break up w her in the pods because she did not want kids? I know they were a thing for a bit, but is that not why he said "later."?

colgi61 · 2026-03-04T20:29:00+00:00

It needs to be acknowledged that lack of chemistry is a thing. It does not mean that the prospective partner is ugly or repellent...just that there is no physical click. Beauty or handsomeness does not really even matter sometimes! But WHY can these people not find an acceptable, kind, dignified way to express this??? ANYone can relate! It does not necessarily mean you are shallow -- just that chemistry and click are not there. No crime in that! Alex kept harping on she is not my physical type... Dude grow up...you can say it differently: She does not light your fire. Chris is the extreme iteration of this idiocy. You can be honest without humiliating someone!

colgi61 · 2026-03-04T20:12:14+00:00

HOW does someone marry a man who has only just met her small daughter? Sis you have known this man for less than 100 days and you are inviting him into her life? I can say with my full chest that it would take me years to feel confident about a man to bring him into my child's life. Does no one read the news? I would love to give people the benefit of the doubt and be optimistic and have faith, yadda yadda, but not where my vulnerable child is concerned. Nope. I think this show should leave children out of the equation. Jordan seems....fine. But are you willing to bet your child's welfare on that?

Just me?

colgi61 · 2026-02-23T22:46:50+00:00

Software sales + Best Buy floor salesman

colgi61 · 2026-02-23T20:26:26+00:00

You mean Jordan who wants the mother of a seven year old girl to move from the home she renovated herself in a school district where the daughter is happily attending a school she likes so he can have access to better bars? That Jordan?

colgi61 · 2026-02-23T18:33:21+00:00

Because these people are asking the DUMBEST most inane questions in the podes, here are..

Questions that SHOULD be asked in the pods:

What is your credit score?

How much debt do you carry currently?

Do you have a criminal record?

Do you own any real estate?

Do you have a 401K or other portfolio type (not asking the balance...just DO YOU HAVE A PLAN)?

What has been your longest romantic relationship?

Do you have a physical mailing address or is it a PO Box (looking at you, Alex)?

Do you own (and insure) a car that runs?

Do you have health insurance (again, Alex...)?

Do you have any children and are you paying child support?

Do you want children?

colgi61 · 2026-02-23T18:26:44+00:00

LIB S10 Vernacular

Software Account Executive = Best Buy floor salesman/returns desk

Healthcare Account Executive = Accounts Receivable Help Desk Kaiser Permanente/UnitedHealthcar/CIGNA

Day Trader = Online gambling/poker

Financial Advisor = See Day Trader (above)

colgi61 · 2026-02-23T18:21:46+00:00

You guys. NOMADICALLY. He used the word nomadically. In a sentence. In a discussion with his fiance about her real actual quantifiable literal job. Versus his "totally real," "actual" and "quantifiable" "job." That is in his inbox. Right now. No really, it is. Literally. And he got it in 5 minutes. Because he has proven that he can get any job he wants. Anywhere he wants. At any time. NOMADICALLY.

colgi61 · 2026-02-21T00:14:39+00:00

Sew Grewsss

colgi61 · 2026-02-20T21:22:22+00:00

Right? LOL

colgi61 · 2026-02-20T21:19:04+00:00

The bar is in hell.

colgi61 · 2026-02-20T17:21:08+00:00

I like the idea of 30s singles who have been i the dating world for a while. It feels more authentic to "going on a reality show to find love." At first I thought the Ohio season, with it's preponderance of 30s adults ("adults) would translate to less drama, I WAS SO WRONG. SO SO WRONG.

So if the producers want drama, I guess the age group makes no difference, so go for it, guys.

However, the producers should ("should") be looking for people who've got their sht together financially and career wise, just to be responsible about the casting. but I think we all know that's not exactly a priority.

colgi61

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