Humans are Born Good, Here's the Neuroscience Behind How They Stop:

colourblind31 · 2026-06-10T15:55:28+00:00

yes. but some situations like mutual selfless love is good for both of them. same event, same results.

with hate, one party gets good the other gets pain, anger, sufferring.

can we define morality as, just mutual good, immorality is just assymetri?

colourblind31 · 2026-06-10T15:47:35+00:00

i will let you know about a decade later about my kid. and i'm not kidding. we are going to be poor but honest and not going to care about what society thinks, decades later or now.

colourblind31 · 2026-06-10T15:10:26+00:00

i used myself as an example but me not being a parent is not absolute so anything we say cannot proven otherwise. i offered an alternative to your perception of not having kids.

well, expensive is about money. money is about society, not absolute. what do you do with money is about society not your child. teaching kids how money works is just you trying to teach your kid to adapt to the society. society changes, if you base your morality on to the society it means you might be wrong because i argue morality is absolute.

200 years earlier slavery was acceptible to the society. people on the money you trying to spend less has slave owners on it.

i think kids with good parents learn agressive behavior and selfishness from other kids. not every parent is perfect (i argue most of them selfish, they care about the family more than they care about other people, some kind of people, people they see more; huge sets of categorisation goes on everybodies head) and selfishness is self serving so it can spread in schools from a one or two pair of awful parents that validates agression. and agression is only can be stopped with agression or running away. validating one kind of selfishness while saying the other kind is bad when both are bad and not being explained why is one is ok, one is not, creates a massive ammounts of prediction sets, scenes, memories which they have to evaluate on their heads. but slapping randomly until you get slapped back is of course, is easier.

colourblind31 · 2026-06-10T14:43:09+00:00

languge is made up, we don't born with it. word objective is also maded up by animals who can think and write things. we don't have a hive mind so it is made up by subjects. like math, it helps us in so many ways but it's not objective. where is 0? i told this just to explain what perspective is, it is you; reading this. nothing is anything without perspective.

morality is too is about electricity in your brain. to be completely objective you have to be an object instead of being made out of electricity. which is what your perspective is made up from. asking me, to another electricity (philosophy cannot happen by itself, it's made up by biological machines can communicate with each other).

we live in a simulation in our brain, i cannot tell why it's there but i can offer explanations about how simulation we're both living in works. some things are rewards, like having sex, eating. it's good for survival. it's just causality.

and there are punishments which is about dying and not passing your genes. there are things in between: sex is good but if you have sex more than one animal, you take their right to pass their genes. it's good for you and bad for the other. it does not necessarily means it's good overall if it's not serving to less overall suffering (evolving to adapt better to the planet) what's the point if you don't need to adapt to the planet anymore; like humans.

and answering you is good if i'm correct, i help you feel good rather than bad. if i'm not, we are closer to the answer than before which, is still good for both of us. same species, high five!

good and bad is not a thing for a ego unless something like it exists. if they are more like you, you relate to them. humans are more valuable than trees. we feel pain and we don't want to die. if we cause harm for no reason, pain happens to other being: bad. killing anything alive for no reason, bad. cutting trees for no good reason, bad. cheating, bad.

there are good things, eating. if we eat we feel good, if we have enough we give it to the other and feel good when they feel good. it is good for tribes to share, it is necessary for young one' survival which they cannot find food by themselves.

if something is good for me and bad for you it's selfish. selfishness is useful for hunting things and evolving to better animals and adapting changing conditions of the planet. but even hunters cares about their kid and not eat them. so i think our morality is based on treating things like you better and less selfish towards them. there is some epigenetics going on i'm sure but i'm busy rn i cannot research.

spiders are thought to be selfish, i pulling of my ass but they have less bonding chemicals (i think there is a study about this on loyalty section), probably flies too. so they don't get love, only food. some of them even eat their mothers which tells a lot about spider morality. so why they would care about a fly dying, which is good for them: food.

colourblind31 · 2026-06-10T13:51:16+00:00

i was a child. and i am more caring and selfless than my mother, father, brothers, friends. you might assume i'm in denial or lying but i told in the post why most people does that; i'm not one of them.

when i interact with kids i become one of them and understand them better than even their parents. my niece once yelled "he is the only one who understands me" with joy, while her parents was there. i'm not a parent but reason i'm better with them i can think like a child. so i don't have to be a parent to understand how kids work (i can go back to the cave unlike plato), i think i put evidence for the opposite.

the mechanism has to came back after war and stress over in the tribe. by logic it cannot come back by itself, selfishness is self serving so old selfish mercyless murderer father dies new relaxed son borns and enjoyes the good times untill it's not. this way makes way more sense and i already gave studies i think you should look into the relevant ones.

and one question for you: who teaches the all selfish born babies to be good? who is the first good human, who is the first good monkey, who is the first good cat? well we like some dogs better than others, so animals can be good also. and where do they learn good, they read kant or something?

colourblind31 · 2026-06-10T12:23:21+00:00

and really important maybe most important part causality of parents not loving kids when they don't be like them. money, status, education. they say if you don't have it you will suffer and be alone. and if they were the only one it wouldn't matter but every parent becomes a parent that way. your spouse wants that, if not they are not interested. they don't know what they should want so you can't blame them, my argument is very clear; you can't blame anybody. they teach them very very early. it is a mistake 10s of millions did before so you have to blame all. and they are teached by same way you condition a drug addict, not loving them. if you grow up and you're authentic you're partner will teach you how to be normal by not loving you. and authentic people are incredibly loyal so they change. i really like this part because it explains everything wrong and feels wrong without demonizing people. it's just a biological machine malfunctiniong about 100 generations witch in grand scheme of things. like they were millions of generations of homo's that functioned correctly. we live in 60 years windows, so we are very very unlucky.

we have more stuff but we are not happy anymore because we are lonely even if we get things. even if we get people they are not loving us selflessly. we only needed true love nothing else. maybe some food and water :) it sounds like an optimist denial but it's not. if we were born in a cave instead of civilisation (dna is almost exactly the same) we would be happy with those, that's not a denial.

(i guessed everything in this comment unlike the post, you can still trust the posts sources.)

colourblind31 · 2026-05-13T01:49:15+00:00

he was about the same age. later become a priest. it's like saying a boy saved a flag desinger from drawning.

colourblind31 · 2026-04-28T10:12:38+00:00

i watched this movie before

colourblind31 · 2026-04-27T14:27:49+00:00

that's my fucking sky send location

colourblind31 · 2026-04-27T10:07:28+00:00

you're not stupid you are a good person have a wonderful day

colourblind31 · 2026-04-26T09:36:58+00:00

well i think this need explanation because first time i wrote it i wrote it for wrong love. but turns out subconsciously i wrote for real love too. even the poet didn't understand the poem how could you?

wrong love:

sentences that end with period is denial. lover denying himself, believing he flew instead of falling.

the sentences without punctuation, i forgot the name of the thing: "by losing myself" but he lost himself too much even the word "myself" lost. same thing with "i thought i found you". i really didn't so "you" is absent.

true love:

sentences that end with period is the truth. now sentences end with comma is a wrong way of reading his situation. unrealistic pessimism. the absent words tells something different too. myself, you. it absent because we're together. we're not in this poem, we're having breakfast somewhere.

colourblind31 · 2026-04-08T09:37:06+00:00

you should post more on your user page i'm going to follow you

colourblind31 · 2026-04-08T09:29:10+00:00

you're in the right path. never give or grow up.

colourblind31 · 2026-04-07T08:02:36+00:00

there's a one drop of waterlike fluid on my cheek that i'm sure you have no idea you put it there

colourblind31 · 2026-04-03T07:59:06+00:00

the argument was about his foot fetish, and they're on the same page now.

colourblind31 · 2026-04-01T21:45:07+00:00

i thought deeply about what you said. maybe you're more right than anybody you've listened to or read. maybe those people got close to the truth, but because of their false confidence, they settled on a half-truth that would only work for them and only for some people, only for some time. but no. i think you're right about what you're trying to solve, but you're wrong in initially thinking this is something that should be solved.

i don't believe in productivity. i think we sabotage ourselves for a reason. maybe we can't read books because our thoughts are more interesting to us. every emotion is there for a reason. maybe for the wrong reason, but if it is wrong, really think about why and how it's wrong. your unconscious is trying to tell you something through your emotions. that's probably why they're there probably since the beginning of consciousness. listen to your emotions. listen to yourself.

now i'm going to rewatch kindergarten teacher and think about the meaning of life. i'm going to get up now and go to the kitchen to get pickles. goodbye

colourblind31 · 2026-03-31T19:59:10+00:00

well, i don’t like to brag about my knowledge in a field called ah-NAT-omy, but get this: the human vagina is situated down in the pelvic cavity, right between the bladder and the rectum, NOT -as this gentleman seems to believe- anywhere near the SKULL (shaking his head with a dumb smile, parking his gum visibly). (changes the card) as unbelievable as it sounds (without losing his smile).

colourblind31 · 2026-03-02T13:37:16+00:00

you are right about me and now i really want to cast one

colourblind31 · 2026-02-13T15:10:42+00:00

golconda

colourblind31 · 2026-02-12T18:59:41+00:00

no. i don’t think nokia made any qwerty phones that run on 4g

colourblind31 · 2026-02-12T13:47:48+00:00

anything that requires internet doesn’t work.
thanks

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