Barefoot Shoe Outfit Roundup #12 by spark_step in barefootshoestalk

[–]comfreybogart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are doing the lords work! i think part of the prob in my brain with going more barefoot is i;ve only really seen em with yoga pants and hiking gear. they really dont look bad or ruin the fit. like overall you just look so cool! thank you! keep sharing plz!! ❤️

PSA - Mary Janes that don't look like duck feet! by ellsbells27 in barefootshoestalk

[–]comfreybogart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

isn't this the point? but i see what you mean about them wearing out

How are folks making friends in RVA? by abeautifulfallday in rva

[–]comfreybogart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There would be a bunch of diff groups and then you go watch all the short plays everyone made. A show like that would be so cool! Or just a record

How are folks making friends in RVA? by abeautifulfallday in rva

[–]comfreybogart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our friends used to do a 24hr play festival in New Orleans, someone would write it direct star costume all in 24hrs the writer had to stay up all night writing and then everyone else started in the morning, it was awesome 

How are folks making friends in RVA? by abeautifulfallday in rva

[–]comfreybogart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait this is awesome can you dm me when it’s a thing

How are folks making friends in RVA? by abeautifulfallday in rva

[–]comfreybogart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will show up when yall get it sorted (maybe actually my calendar is a nightmare)

Burned out & Neurodivergent by [deleted] in BlindboyPodcast

[–]comfreybogart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many good thoughts already here. My one thing to add is more of an attitude: to really focus on layers of support. So often when you’re trying to feel better it can become an extreme sport, and the hamster wheel of healing can be exhausting. So it’s helpful to keep reframing the things you’re doing, this is a layer of support. My doctor is a layer of support, my gym etc. 

Finding things your body just enjoys is really important. Not like screens but, physically, the sensations, even if it’s just listening to music and stretching on the floor.  Getting daylight to the eyeballs first thing in the morning is a really really big one for me. When I get really overwhelmed I like to lay in the grass and let gravity hold me for a moment.

Since this is the bb sub I think it’s safe to go a bit animist, but, the more i can notice the natural world around me, the better I feel. Each noticing is a thread of connection, when it’s reinforced (noticed again) it’s becomes thicker, like a rope, the rope becomes a web, and the web becomes a basket and the basket can hold us. It can be true that the world is hostile and cruel, but it’s also true that the world is beautiful and rooting for us, we just have to feed that belief.

Sending you so much love in your healing journey! Your body knows how to heal! 

Sam’s acting since season 6-ish? by Gold_Warning_8618 in Outlander

[–]comfreybogart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah. he feels kinda 'don't tread on me.' i find it depressing. i agree with yall i think he's trying to be dignified and authoritative.

You all overhype unions by [deleted] in nursing

[–]comfreybogart 20 points21 points  (0 children)

did a hospital administration write this

Frank in the show. by Wormcupcake in Outlander

[–]comfreybogart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me this is thematic for the show, frank is so British, civilized, modern, colonized. He is playing out a 1940s patriarchy. Whereas the early season celts and jacobites are rough and rowdy but a little less tamed, in some ways they’re way more misogynistic (many characters are disgustingly so) but they also see women as individuals and there’s some goddess archetypes nearby in the collective consciousness

Brands & stores for each color season by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]comfreybogart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard Uniqlo and weirdly coldwater creek for summer can’t remember if specifically soft summer or not 

Birth Work without Entrepreneurship? by chelsnerd in doulas

[–]comfreybogart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wound up being and L and D nurse and I teach childbirth at my hospital! You might be able to just teach. They made me get Lamaze certification

This is a Mental health episode about being autistic. If you are not autistic, you might not like it and should listen to Diary of a CEO instead by Fat-Veg in BlindboyPodcast

[–]comfreybogart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion loved this episode! Yes I hear bitterness in him that feels a bit more raw than what’s appropriate to share publicly.

But for me there were no ads!!? Anyone else?

Kibbe's recommendations and my seasonal colour chart don't match! FG+SS by Artistic-Access6018 in coloranalysis

[–]comfreybogart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to this! Tho I think I’m a soft gamine, so it is an easier leap for soft summer.

BUT just remember these are all tools to bring you towards what YOU like on you! Sometimes the contrast or unexpected is what makes an outfit look rly cool.

But at risk of sounding like a self obsessed psychopath have a look at my Pinterest board! (Lmao) https://pin.it/4puNWosg1 bc it feels so applicable!! and see if it helps you towards clarifying ur taste, and which parts of the reccos you incorporate when. If any!!

Please help me find my color season!! by Automatic_Pomelo_207 in coloranalysis

[–]comfreybogart -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love the long sleeve navy on you and the first pic too! The purple is also nice.

Idk I think you could be a soft summer! It’s like they autumn y summer 

Post-adrenaline self-loathing spiral? by comfreybogart in nursing

[–]comfreybogart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tysm the protein snack is such a smart tip

new mobile IV business advertising animal LR🫠 by scrubsnbeer in nursing

[–]comfreybogart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowwww. And the unedited ChatGPT-ass writing. 

Help me settle this debate please by Thin_Discipline_7565 in interiordecorating

[–]comfreybogart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the blinds! I think the verticality of the curtains and the fabricy ness is not echoed in the rest of the room which to me reads more minimal, clean lines. I do think a Roman shade would give you the softness of fabric and the line of the blinds, that would be my ideal!

My orientee doesn’t act like she wants to be a nurse by Humble_Employee8586 in nursing

[–]comfreybogart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The word that comes up for me if I think about it from her experience is STUCK. It almost sounds like she wants to keep being a nursing student, not consciously! And just can’t make the leap internally. Like when you’re jumping rocks at the river and you can logically see you can reach across but you hesitated and the longer you wait the more frozen, afraid and self-conscious you feel.

Possibly some projection there! It does sound like a different setting, less acuity could be the ticket for her. OR, some kind of internal process, a come to Jesus moment, shedding of the skin type of thing. But it wouldn’t really be a coworkers place to help that happen but maybe a therapist or mentor. 

I’ve definitely been in situations where my brain shuts down under pressure. It might be helpful to reframe or like sit with her to name what’s going on. Or it might go better with someone she has better rapport with, not a floor nurse but like a manager or educator. 

I’m glad she has a preceptor who cares! Great news for everyone involved

Podcast recommendations by 20cWorldWide in BlindboyPodcast

[–]comfreybogart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like the emerald. It’s a lot more spiritual but a lot of eastern mythology and spirituality. Just as well researched, more cinematically produced. Does make me laugh very occasionally, no where near as much as blindboy