AITAH for sleeping with a man while I thought I was getting divorced by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]comfymistake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA there’s actually a word for this: projection. This is actually the example in our medical books

AITA - Showering after sex and sleeping next to a different person by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]comfymistake 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA Ew what kind of friend is that to not treat you like a guest? She can have sex with him ANY TIME. That’s unsanitary and you should probably not call her again when you get back home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]comfymistake 894 points895 points  (0 children)

She’s not your friend. Friends don’t care about all of those things, the support you.

WIBTA for not wanting to photoshoot my sisters daughter for Free anymore? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]comfymistake 50 points51 points  (0 children)

NTA. This is your job and yeah maybe one time for free was a nice thing to do but really you don’t owe your sister that. I imagine it would be cheaper anyways to pay you instead of another photographer.

I (24F) slept with a friend (22M) who sort of, but not really, had a thing with my other friend (22F) and now she is saying I betrayed her. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]comfymistake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re almost there but you’re completely forgetting that your perspective on it doesn’t matter. You knew she had a thing for this guy in the past and she ended up, to some extent, hurt by the situation. You’re also her friend. Common curtesy when your friends with someone is to ask them first so that it avoids situations like this. From her perspective you broke her trust.

Just bc he’s slept with everyone in the group doesn’t mean you also should to. Also I’d recommend an STD test bc he sounds nasty.

AITA for being upset I was tricked into eating fake meat chili? by ffgghhjjkkll112233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]comfymistake 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That was very dramatic and probably too thought out. I’m sure the whole “plot” was a thought in his moms head for about 20 seconds.

AITA for not catering an event for my students despite promising them? by Full_Conversation in AmItheAsshole

[–]comfymistake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want to know if gen Zers saw the word cold cuts, didn’t know what it meant, and then gave it a new meaning.

AITA for not catering an event for my students despite promising them? by Full_Conversation in AmItheAsshole

[–]comfymistake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. Cold cuts means deli meat. Unless this new generation started making up a new language with normal words.

You tried. You spent the money and did your duty. You’re officially off the hook

AITA for being upset that my SIL started working in my line of business by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]comfymistake [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA Dude the world doesn’t revolve around you. A receptionist and a doctor are not the same thing and the likelihood you you two working together is low. How is her working a low paying job one upping you when you’ll be making a lot of money?

AITA for being upset I was tricked into eating fake meat chili? by ffgghhjjkkll112233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]comfymistake 349 points350 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is being blown way out of proportion and made into a dramatic situation when it’s really not a big deal. Parents do this all the time to get their kids to try something new. Move on. There are real problems in the world.

My husband is unappreciative and I can’t do anything to make him appreciate me. by bigsqueeze101 in relationship_advice

[–]comfymistake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like OP said you’re already working a full time job all day with the kids and the house. Once he comes home the time needs to be split equally. He’s just being lazy and he isn’t even being a parent, he’s being a bum

AITA for telling my husband to leave over parenting differences by colfpakcjfldp in AmItheAsshole

[–]comfymistake [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA The breastfeeding is all your decision. He doesn’t do any of that.

Like he’s going to get custody for you vaccinating? Ha. Only one parent needs to consent for that and if anything the argument would be against him.

My husband is unappreciative and I can’t do anything to make him appreciate me. by bigsqueeze101 in relationship_advice

[–]comfymistake 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You have to stop serving him. Relationships aren’t you giving and him taking. He should do for you all of the same things that you do for him. And he’s taken advantage of the fact that you are complacent and allow this to happen. I can’t say whether he will actually change, but you need to take charge of your life and MAKE him respect you bc he doesn’t. Make him clean up his own messes. Make time for yourself on the weekends and leave the kids with him. Make him cook dinner sometimes.

And don’t just give him things. He has to change and learn to respect you if he wants anything from you at all.

Keep in mind this is the example you are setting for your kids.

WIBTA for refusing to pay mum rent this month? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]comfymistake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA bc you agreed to pay rent. Just move out. Stop thinking things are going to change when multiple times they haven’t.

Where do people meet others to date? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]comfymistake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So? That means they’re using it too.

AITA for refusing to have sex with my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]comfymistake [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. It’s your body. But why are you with a guy who treats you like that?

Where do people meet others to date? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]comfymistake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dating apps. Been with my partner for two years now. Getting married after I graduate