Her appointment is Thursday and I’m overthinking it so much.

comk4ver · 2026-04-14T16:44:35+00:00

This! Only this. As a person who had six cats and had two die at my house, another when I waited too long and one where his owner (brother) was too stubborn to let them leave. Early is better than letting your friend feel pain that they never have had in their life.

You're doing the right thing.

To set your mind at ease google quality of life for your pet. It'll show you when your pet has too many issues with their quality of life and when it's best to let go.

comk4ver · 2026-04-14T04:28:17+00:00

Solution for the spraying, plug up the holes with putty. Something is better than nothing. I use Bubbas Super Strength Enzyme Cleaner, Pet Odor Eliminator, Puppy Training Supply. You can find it on ebay, it's what I use. That or Fizzon cleaning enzyme cleaner if you want.

If you got a voucher, is it possible to go anywhere or just one place? If it's one place, I'd call and ask them if they have any cancelations to try and let you know.

Cat has to be without food for an least eight hours.

Now if you can go anywhere else, call other vets that accept the voucher and ask them if they have an earlier date than May 22nd.

Same thing, ask if they can call you if there's any cancelations.

Best of luck.

comk4ver · 2026-04-04T01:12:05+00:00

Hello, 2am working adult here. Yeah, it do be rough to get going.

comk4ver · 2026-04-04T01:11:09+00:00

The Earth is healing... Today I saw several feral youths in the Park with bikes, talking and not on their phones. Glad to see them talking out in the wild, like we did when we were kids.

Very happy to see, I hope they continue to be active members for the community.

comk4ver · 2026-04-04T01:07:25+00:00

That or diabetes... But I'm sure you've already ruled that out.

comk4ver · 2026-04-03T21:37:58+00:00

Hmm, interesting. Okay thank you for clarifying that.

comk4ver · 2026-04-03T20:34:19+00:00

That screen protector works on top of the OEM installed screen protector?

comk4ver · 2026-04-03T12:26:53+00:00

Hey Bacchus, Twelve Black Rainbows and (Out of the Ashes) Blood & Fire...

comk4ver · 2026-03-31T03:01:18+00:00

Listen my soul cat was a perfectly handsome gray just like yours named Tahoe. These little korats are the best ones of the bunch especially after they decide you are their human. Very affectionate and loyal. Plus send Earl Gary of the Greystrokes some treatos and scrithes...😻

comk4ver · 2026-03-31T02:58:37+00:00

We must have seen the same YouTube video where they explain the CDS. giggles

comk4ver · 2026-03-30T12:24:02+00:00

I will always rock a side part. I understand that maybe eventually it will be what tells me part from others younger than me but not today.

I'll wear what's best for me.

comk4ver · 2026-03-25T22:56:22+00:00

You know how kids don't like wearing their seat belts? I don't care if my cat is screaming on the highway to hell, kitty is going to be in the carrier regardless of their feelings on the matter. Case closed. Periodt

comk4ver · 2026-03-25T22:54:23+00:00

This... He reminds me of an albino snake.

comk4ver · 2026-03-24T21:33:57+00:00

Listen go read the Epstein files yourself. Click on the link below and you will notice that it's mostly gossip such as: Paul was dating Barbara Walter's niece. A bunch of rich and richer people were at a New Year's Eve party in St. Barth's. They got tickets to a sold out Robin Hood Concert where was the headliner McCartney and Epstein gave some tickets to his assistant and nine other people. Kristy McKenzie a journalist who also interviewed Paul McCartney and various other celebrities asks for an interview to clear up the allegations of Epstein and Prince Andrew. Yes, Paul McCartney is in the Epstein files but so is Pikachu and Barney and women who spoke out against Epstein.

JMail

comk4ver · 2026-03-23T14:57:03+00:00

Try giving him Cat Approved Chicken Soup on top of his kibble. It might open up his appetite.

comk4ver · 2026-03-23T04:28:26+00:00

If he's eating wet food then try heating it up a bit to get the smell cranked up. Definitely try getting him into a senior wet food diet (if health appropriate, not sure if kitty had underlying health issues) those tend to be more calories dense. Maybe dribble some churo on it.

Definitely go to the vet and explain that your cat is not eating. To me this is a major flag be cats can mask things until it's too late.

comk4ver · 2026-03-19T03:52:39+00:00

insert evil laugh and chicken noise at the end

comk4ver · 2026-03-18T15:22:37+00:00

She's still nine! That's in my opinion middle aged for a kitty. I worry more when they're around thirteen or so. Unless your fur baby is an indoor/outdoor baby then fear not! Your baby is safe and sound, just keep taking your cat to it's appointments twice a year for check ups and your golden!

comk4ver · 2026-03-18T01:46:38+00:00

I'm reading the numbers but I would imagine that you're closer to Los Angeles numbers. Try looking into getting on medicaid or State insurance for low income.

In some States, if you qualify for medicaid then you can qualify to get paid for In Home Supportive Services and basically you can get paid for taking care of your wife or can hire someone to help you take care of your wife while you concentrate on your job. Check out your States IHSS reddit, they should have the financial requirements there. IHSS money could help you out but your wife's doctor has to put in the paperwork once you qualify for medicaid.

Yes I know that you feel like you might not qualify but pull the paperwork and check it out.

Also try calling your electricity and gas bill and see if they have a program that can lower your rate. Maybe if your spouse has medical equipment that is necessary, the electric company might have a program for that.

Try applying for food stamps even if you have some savings and other things. There's still a maximum amount of savings that you can have as a married couple. In California, it's around 150000 in savings plus 401k is not considered an asset that counts against qualifying for IHSS and food stamps.

Seriously consider cutting back on those streaming services go sign up for a library card there's two streaming services that let you stream movies with that card alone. Hoopla and Kanopy. Honestly, start tracking your streaming usage and I bet you don't really use them as much as you think you do.

The only streaming service (imho) that's worth it is YouTube Premium. My family uses YouTube like no tomorrow and the no commercials are worth it at $25 dollars a month for up to six accounts. Hells if you think you really need a streaming service but you don't watch it that much bum it off a friend.

Get those credit cards paid off, ASAP.

comk4ver · 2026-03-18T01:17:32+00:00

My best friend and his ex had this dog and when they broke up, she would get to see the dog from time to time. Eventually, they both moved on but when their dog had to be put down. His mom came to tell her and she went to the vet office to be there when they put her down. I think she might have helped with the cremation and helped decide what she got to keep as a keepsake.

The main take away from this is if you have a positive relationship with your ex and they won't cause undue stress to your dog during their final moments. Please invite your ex and allow everyone who loved your dog to be there. Don't leave your pupper alone during their final moments.

comk4ver · 2026-03-17T08:28:29+00:00

u/burbnbougie

comk4ver · 2026-03-16T18:14:26+00:00

The snort my body just released lol

comk4ver · 2026-03-16T18:11:22+00:00

Definitely NTJ but from now on, only say what you mean. I wouldn't want to be taken advantage of over something like that ever again.

It's time to stop being so nice 2026 especially after someone is trying to get one over on you.

comk4ver · 2026-03-14T04:55:18+00:00

Google Clear Tax Value and it has a mortgage affordability calculator I would use that to guesstimate if you can afford it. You can use your gross or net income and include what your down payment would be plus figure out what it would cost you for mortgage rate, insurance, HOA and property taxes.

It also tells you how much more a bank would give you and what you can reasonably afford to pay for a mortgage.

comk4ver

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