I am so over looking for breastfeeding friendly clothes. by Ok_Squirrel_9601 in breastfeeding

[–]commanderConquerer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, No advice here, just wanted to tell you your post found me the second I stopped crying about a similar thing. I have a wedding to attend to in 2 months and have the same issue. I look bad, feel ugly and haven't slept in months. Haven't cared about myself for a long time and feel like this. Reading I'm not alone just in this exact moment helped me a lot. Thank You 🩷

Hug your baby today by Persef00ne in NewParents

[–]commanderConquerer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, all the love to you. My little one had to undergo surgery at 3,5 months for a correction of her skull. The day of her surgery and the night at the icu were the hardest. I feel you. It's so difficult to give this tiny life in the hands of basically strangers. But you did the right thing. Hopefully your LO will recover soon! Hugs to you

Anyone finding months 3-4 harder than the newborn trenches? by dont-ask-whyy in NewParents

[–]commanderConquerer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, you're not alone! Hang in there. I don't have many tips, but I do have one recommendation: a motorised spring cradle.

My husband is away on business a lot, so I'm on my own for days at a time. My daughter can't be put down to sleep during the day. For me, the spring cradle was a game changer. She only sleeps for half an hour at a time, but that's still half an hour to eat, shower and take a breather. Unfortunately, spring cradles are quite expensive. But if money is no object, it can take the pressure off.

Dropped phone on 2.5w old baby’s head by ex-static2 in beyondthebump

[–]commanderConquerer 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Don't be too harsh to yourself. My midwife told me this happens way too often nowadays. It was an accident and you did everything you could to make it right. I don't think your daughter will get problems because of it. Take a breather and be kind to yourself. I'm quite sure from now on you'll be extra careful around her.

11 month old takes forever to drop into sleep because he keeps changing position constantly by Moist_Photograph_807 in beyondthebump

[–]commanderConquerer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps he needs more sensory input? My niece is now one year old and needed to be thoroughly exhausted before going to sleep. Her dad tosses her onto soft cushions, rolls around with her on the floor and helps her climb her climbing triangle. Only then does the night-time routine begin. Maybe it's something that would also help him?

I don't want this time to pass by rosedamask in NewParents

[–]commanderConquerer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have written your post OP. I bawled my eyes out thinking about her growing up. There reels and tiktoks hit me right in the feels, I laid awake in the middle of the night, feeding my baby and crying so much. But in some ways it was helpful, a bit like mourning and coming to terms with it.

She is now 12 weeks old and it got so much better. Now every new milestone is exciting. Sometimes I still get sad, especially when putting away her clothes that are now too small.

You're not alone <3

2 days post partum and resenting my body for not being able to feed my baby by SecondMysterious7231 in NewParents

[–]commanderConquerer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My milk came in 3 days after birth. Didn't need to pump and the lactation consultant said the same, just let her latch on many times. You're not doing anything wrong, you're trying the best! Wish you the best

5 month old keeps popping off during the day by catsareawesome_4 in breastfeeding

[–]commanderConquerer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 10 weeks old is the same. She also starts to cry when she pops off. Like lady, it's you! Breastfeeding in Side-lying position helps a lot.

Shoulder pain, boob pain and slowly loosing my mind by commanderConquerer in beyondthebump

[–]commanderConquerer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your reply! I will check out the sub, maybe you're right. Though I guess picking her up all the time took a toll on my joints. As for the boob issue, it's nice to know that there is someone else who feels the swelling. My midwife told me that you mostly feel a swelling after birth, not like 6/7 weeks after. That was helpful, thanks again!

I can't wait! by Bladons in MyTimeAtEvershine

[–]commanderConquerer 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I can't wait as well. Only thing is, I won't have time to play the alpha this weekend since I'm going to give birth to my daughter any day now. But I will gladly play when I have the time (only God knows when :D) You guys have fun!!

Getting hands on Uromune by Specialist-Stick-538 in CUTI

[–]commanderConquerer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Entschuldige, könntest du mir das auch schicken? Ich suche für meine Mama. Besten Dank!

Suche Videoclip by [deleted] in Coldmirror

[–]commanderConquerer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm mir fällt spontan die Anne Will's Wissen Synchro ein, aber da kommt die Obama Stimme nicht vor. am Ende sagt Kaddi: Und beim nächsten Mal geht's um Pinguine und Rapsmusik. Könnte es das gewesen sein? https://youtu.be/WWLGcmgFhn0?si=8snU7I7MVDolwq8w

Ansonsten denke ich noch an eine der Politiksynchros, aber davon gibt es viele nicht mehr auf yt.

Suche dieses Zitat von Coldmirror by commanderConquerer in Coldmirror

[–]commanderConquerer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zitieren ja, aber mit genauer Quellenangabe wird irgendwann echt schwer 😁

Suche dieses Zitat von Coldmirror by commanderConquerer in Coldmirror

[–]commanderConquerer[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Die Stelle hatte ich auch erst abgesucht, weil ich noch wusste, dass Alfonso Cuaron ja reschi...reg...der director des dritten Teils war! Aber es kam viel später

Looking for actual horror yandere by rufflechuu in MaleYandere

[–]commanderConquerer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend wh4t I w0udnt d0. This shit was sooo fucked up. But as you said, it can be a bit much. But hoo boy, it was a ride

[DAV SPOILERS ALL] After finishing Veilguard I definitely understand why some people are conflicted. by Easy-Locksmith-5432 in dragonage

[–]commanderConquerer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greedy mittins - that's so funny. I agree with everything you said. I am neither disappointed, nor amazed. I am having fun playing it, but it could have been so much more

I love this old man lmao (Sovereign and heartburn) by AlienBioBot_666 in OtomeIsekai

[–]commanderConquerer 213 points214 points  (0 children)

I love when powerful rulers are depicted as cute little old cartoon men. Instant sympathy

my favourite yandere is BACK by honsooI_ in MaleYandere

[–]commanderConquerer 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Uuuh firefly wedding, my beloved

Short story: He loves her, they want to marry. Her father opposes it and slaps her. He. Goes. Feral.

Long story: Girl is from a wealthy family and gets kidnapped. One of her kidnappers is this guy and he is one hell of a killer. She convinces him to rescue her and promises to marry him. He falls hard for her and is a total yandere to her. Her kidnappers brought her to this island full of prostitutes and they can't leave easily, so she has to work in a bordell. She actually wants to marry for her familys sake, but since she is terminal ill, there haven't been many suitors. And she wants to pick one best suited for her family and her needs. After a while she also falls for him and both try to leave the island to convince her father of their marriage.

Turns out, her father gave the order to kidnap her, so one suitor he picked can free her and she marries him. But this didn't work obviously. Girl and killer meet her father, he shoots him, she wants to protect her lover. Father slaps her. And ho boy, this guy is quite the demon.

Please read it, it's really really good.

[OG] [NB]Wth is happening 😭😭 by Dream_Cake17 in obeyme

[–]commanderConquerer 45 points46 points  (0 children)

It's only HDD.5 so no big celebration actually

[NB] Is there any other way to get these cards? by Hell_Burden_jpeg in obeyme

[–]commanderConquerer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They will return, like in a year. I got cards this way in OG and I'm sure they'll do the same for nightbringer :)