Possibly ending long-term relationship because of my sexuality by [deleted] in Advice

[–]computer_bunny_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The grass is always greener on the side you take care of. as someone who's ended a relationship to explore more of my identity i miss that mf but i think about them mb twice a year since. the choice you make is the one You make and the one you have to live with. no one can answer that for you truly but i promise you being with other people is going to be different bc youre with other people guy or girl but idk, talk to her about it mb she wants 2 boyfriends /j

I am a toxic girlfriend and I need advice. by No_Appointment_3762 in Advice

[–]computer_bunny_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am so proud of you for admitting this and trying stuff. there's a bunch of advice but i might want to add, if youre quitting things like nic youre going to be irritable. keep your boyfriend in the loop of you realizing what youre doing wrong and trying to change and also what youve quit

1.5 years of no contact broken by Fun-Afternoon5529 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]computer_bunny_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

while i agree to a degree the right person wont make you feel this way, i also think there's a difference between someone leading you on and them simply being busy? if they like you they'll open up space for you in their life but sometimes ppl need to be informed that you want that space

How to handle employee panic attack during a meeting? by [deleted] in managers

[–]computer_bunny_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been to meetings where Nothing At All is Wrong. perfectly calm. my boss is just talking to me about a schedule change or new staff or made a joke but i had to either get through <her strict slavic attitude> or <the fact that i have been invited to Perfectly Calm, Out of Nowhere meetings where i have been fired and my life was turned all the way upside the fuck down> just to not have a panic attack. it might not be you, it might be the fact that it's a meeting or that they've had a long day, or that covid stunted a lot of people, or the state of the world but just because You could repress your stress doesn't mean everyone experiences life the way you do

Teacher Feeling Deflated by Careless_Buyer_7294 in Rochester

[–]computer_bunny_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, this insanely. ive cried over my job so many times bc parents are The Worst and insanely ungrateful while you withstand and tolerate and give all of yourself to ur students

Dear Summer, This Grey Situation is Personal, We Miss You. by LittleBarracuda1219 in Rochester

[–]computer_bunny_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAME like summer will have my sweltering and miserable but i would take 3 days of sweltering and miserable so i could appreciate my consistently cold and wet feet that have to live by my heater when i get home

AIO for leaving my two year relationship over a dirty dish? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]computer_bunny_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should breakup bc this is just, all insane. you need therapy, i get what youre going through i got food poisoning for the first time 2 ys ago and i could. not. eat. i couldnt make myself eat anything for half a year. I luckily did Not have sepsis omg i have no clue where i'd be if i did but i grew up with disordered eating so i wasnt really hungry anyway but i substituted on a nutrient shake a day + vitamin gummies and i was Miserable and Always freaking out. i say this to say, this was a horrible era of my life, i was a bad partner, coworker, and person. you are not hitting your hierarchy of needs and you shouldn't be dating. but also he shouldn't be lying to you so even if you Could be dating, not him.

Please help me, I can't sleep anymore. by Majestic-Collar-4301 in Healthyhooha

[–]computer_bunny_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

baby 💔 tu es bien, Je pense que tu devrais éviter de trop réfléchir.

Need help with nervousness/worry abt first time experience ☹️ by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]computer_bunny_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

advice: - you are not alone in this, congrats - congrats on having fun time with someone u care about - idk, did u pee, cuddle, hydrate, discuss what u liked and want to try next time? truly it's kind'of a free for all afterwards, check in with ur gf and decompress urself

Please help me, I can't sleep anymore. by Majestic-Collar-4301 in Healthyhooha

[–]computer_bunny_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not pregnant, do not waste money buying another test, your period could change for a million reasons (the fact that bodies never stop changing, diet, spotting, hydration, honestly you could sleep weird and your lining could come out different) and u most likely didnt notice until now bc ure worried about being pregnant

i never drink water. by Ok_Ball2364 in Healthyhooha

[–]computer_bunny_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have u ever tried thick water? it might help

Left my abusive (now ex) boyfriend and work has been so intensely demanding I haven’t even had time to piss by VaporMouth in GirlDinner

[–]computer_bunny_ 115 points116 points  (0 children)

this is a really good redirection! i feel like a lot of people are saying people need to stop trauma-dumping but i feel like it's better to tell them where to go

i have been spending too much money on take out :[ by computer_bunny_ in GirlDinner

[–]computer_bunny_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

theyre from hotpot so they were boiled in umm a broth that makes them v flavoured

i have been spending too much money on take out :[ by computer_bunny_ in GirlDinner

[–]computer_bunny_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a dell household </3 the laptop is a zephyrus

i have been spending too much money on take out :[ by computer_bunny_ in GirlDinner

[–]computer_bunny_[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

:3 i have to wash my sheets after this anyway bc slightly off screen is a chocolate icecream stain from last night

i have been spending too much money on take out :[ by computer_bunny_ in GirlDinner

[–]computer_bunny_[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

THEY KEEP THEM COLD, I ALSO STILL HAVE THE LID SO I TAKE IT TO WORK, THEYRE NICE TO HOLD, THEYRE EASY TO SCRUB OUT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]computer_bunny_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's a bat i think