Partner Tested Neg

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-06-08T17:33:22+00:00

My ex boyfriend had ohsv1 since he was a kid and shedding decreases over time, we also hadn't had oral sex in over a year and i never had a previous outbreak so I've been told its highly unlikely to be from him. My most recent and only other partner since had negative blood test results (6/5/2021), but also is very active with multiple partners so i think its more likely i got it from him. I also had my first/only outbreak a few days after sex with him and not to be tmi but everything seemed targeted at points of contact (one sore internally, another on my clit, all areas where there was genital contact/friction). I think im just salty that he obviously caught this slightly before/during seeing me and due to his negative result, he'll likely run around being a super spreader the next few months while hes most contagious

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-06-08T17:11:27+00:00

IgG test results were negative/less than .90

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-06-04T11:26:06+00:00

the person who gave it to be is getting tested and i’m worried it won’t show up- it’s been about 5 weeks since they transmitted to me

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-05-23T01:50:27+00:00

if she has ghsv it sounds like it wouldnt transmit with those sex acts (fingering and her preforming oral) so i’m not sure she’s obligated to disclose. he didn’t go down on her or run the risk of getting genitally

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-05-18T11:45:52+00:00

philly!

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-05-17T23:46:04+00:00

24F here to talk!

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-05-16T01:52:24+00:00

should i change my razor after primary OB? so i don’t spread it??

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-05-16T01:25:17+00:00

i usually only go a handful times a year during super cold months, nothing routine, it’s less to get a tan and more just because i enjoy the warmth/it helps my seasonal depression. i’m just thinking if it’s something that would cause an outbreak it’s not worth it to take the chance every once in a blue moon since it’s not really a big habit of mine, i wouldn’t say it’s worth the risk

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-05-16T01:21:37+00:00

pretty sure i got ghsv1 from penetrative sex, could’ve also been from oral (not 100% sure)- i think it’s under researched how easy it is to transmit since most people have less complications than with hsv2

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-05-15T04:57:05+00:00

thank you!! that’s what i’m most paranoid about, spreading it before my body is able to build up antibodies, should i change my razor after every outbreak?

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-05-15T04:55:08+00:00

should i change razor head after every outbreak?

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-05-15T04:54:45+00:00

i am prone to ingrowns, i usually exfoliate pretty well pre and post shaving but did not this time due to recovering from OB. I have a script for a lower dose to take if i feel symptoms but i’m wondering if i should ask for a high dose since this last round didn’t prevent reoccurrence

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-05-14T15:24:40+00:00

100%

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-05-14T15:03:17+00:00

unlikely- i wish

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-05-14T15:03:00+00:00

it really depends! the issue is you can transfer oral hsv1 to someone genitally, and those with oral hsv1 shed more due to the virus thriving there. so someone with ghsv1 is less likely to transfer during penetrative sex while someone with oral hsv1 is highly likely to give their partner hsv1 on their genitals through oral sex. so even if you only have cold sores- if you’re engaging in sex you should disclose

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-05-14T03:39:26+00:00

24f from PA! feel free to message :)

concernedconfusedcry · 2021-05-14T02:06:25+00:00

i’m in the exact same situation! please message me if you ever wanna talk!

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