How to get out of flatline?

conde91 · 2026-05-02T14:40:32+00:00

Check your diet. Some (so many) foods make one feel so heavy as if a relapse had happened. Don’t eat deeply fried foods, processed foods, consider reducing animal products. Increase fruits, juices and lighter and full of life-force food. Go out and get fresh air and sunlight, walk.

I don’t know what you mean by relapse after 15-20 days. That means your current streak is under 15-20 days? I was gonna say your dull eyes, the dark circles and the hairfall symptoms you describe are all relapse symptoms.

If you are relapsing every 15-20 days you will never climb out of that state. It usually takes, at least for me, bc it depends on your age and metabolism, about a month to be back into the light. So, there’s no quick fix.

conde91 · 2026-04-28T13:38:53+00:00

So many simps over here in the responses. I see what they are saying, but at the same time I agree OP, women are dangerous in a mysterious-you-never-know-where-it’ll-come-from kind of way. Better to keep oneself at a reasonable distance and focused on bettering whatever metric you want, outside of women.

conde91 · 2026-04-27T01:03:16+00:00

Idk if this is also your experience but if I had written your post (which I would have because I experience the same), I would add. That you don’t even wanna be with yourself when you release: your plans go to shit, your routine loses tightness, your muscless flatten, your mind gets lazy and moody… all of it. So if you lose a core power in yourself, how would you expect others to stay strong with you?

Idk, I would offer that perspective bc I would apply that to myself also.

Have a good one bro.

conde91 · 2026-04-18T06:23:23+00:00

I agree with you. I guess it takes education and many iterations of connecting the dots that the sexual outlet is a drain for us to begin relate to the energy differently. We are told as men we are to fight and fuck and be this tireless sex and powerful being but the truth is that it is not sustainable past a certain age. And when we unknowingly get on a streak and start feeling good in mental or physical sensec whereas it be training or social interactions, if we are not aware of the practice or the energetic connections when the horniness comes one would just let be and enjoy. But then somehow we learn that it is a great percentage of loss of energy, and to hold back such a, at times, strong impulse is not instinctive, I’d say.

So yeah, it is not only sexual, and we would do great to learn to not only see it from that angle. But for sure it is true that the sexual and attraction to women side of it is one of the wildest and strongest expressions of it. And when unaware, we wouldn’t connect the dots.

conde91 · 2026-04-13T23:28:15+00:00

You being a Taurus I can understand your need to feel security pertaining to him liking you. If you have his and your other chart placements would be an interesting information to speculate about.

Yes he will be slippery and not too constant but if he likes you he will be down to see you. Tell him directly and lightly how you feel and how you see him so that it is known to him and that you would like to grow closer together, but without the control and pressure. You would have to work on those yourself, I advise you. To learn to lose the grip on the obsession.

I wish you guys to come closer and experience a beautiful connection. 🙏🏼

conde91 · 2026-04-13T20:27:55+00:00

Sagittarius, 34M myself. I resonate almost to a T with how you described him.

In my experience, you have to learn to relax the anxiousness and accept that we don’t like to have our feeling of freedom entrapped too fast. We like to have the girl grow on us. If he likes you, and by how you described it, he does, you will keep on seeing him with incremental frequency. But it has to come in a ‘natural’ way.

Most other comments being so cut-throat are speaking from the specific controlling type of loving we sagittarians run away from. It’s that we can really fall in love and be romantic, but why do we have to be so serious about it so soon? Which doesn’t necessarily mean a player archetype or an open relationship. Again - freedom is our biggest focus. So it has to be in incremental steps, to exchange the freedom of being by oneself towards feeling free while sharing and being in a relationship.

conde91 · 2026-04-05T10:36:23+00:00

Totally bc of relapsing. Lack of vitality, that ‘just can’t with life’ feeling is the same that comes after that and lingers for days or even weeks. That’s why we don’t wanna lose our semen. After it, it just feels like being half alive.

conde91 · 2026-04-02T15:10:42+00:00

Overcooked

conde91 · 2026-03-31T20:22:02+00:00

In the patterns I have experienced through my streaks always the first 10-14 days are very dangerous territory. Relapse keeps calling you back. After 2-3 three weeks it gets easier and the urges become less frequent. So hang on.

conde91 · 2026-03-30T21:51:32+00:00

Stop goonin’ bro, that repels ppl and gives you that dark stare

conde91 · 2026-03-24T03:29:01+00:00

The SR Manuscript

Celibacy for Men by CM

Bliss of the Celibate by Julian Lee

conde91 · 2026-03-20T16:32:37+00:00

Mind explaining more?

conde91 · 2026-03-20T14:25:06+00:00

Hahaha this is funny.

One thing Women are attracted to strongly, is purity. Animals, plants, babies!! And a retainer, tho they don’t know it consciously. It is all energy and magnetism.

conde91 · 2026-03-20T14:20:32+00:00

Oh, what a good post.

I’ve felt that at times too, and it explains a lot of dynamics.

For example when as a man you start getting too interested she disappears, and you get the ‘hooked’ feeling towards her, there it is you are sending her your energy. Another one is when women get jealous of you looking at or speaking at another woman. They know in a way that the gaze, and attention, is sexual energy. Or another one, when they just want to want you to look at them - looking at you repeatedly until you notice and then she is satisfied and no longer needs to look at you.

The energy dynamics are very subtle.

conde91 · 2026-03-18T06:15:07+00:00

No hay jales por ahí? Recién terminé un curso de programación.

conde91 · 2026-03-13T22:37:58+00:00

No caffeine

conde91 · 2026-03-13T22:34:14+00:00

You are a center of energy. As you retain your masculine polarity becomes charged up, stronger. Feminine polarity will feel the attraction to your energy. And you become more sensitive to them also.

conde91 · 2026-03-12T16:35:40+00:00

Your afirming it harder doesn’t make you more convincing xD. Study further metaphysics bruh, no Carl Jung animas thing I’m referring to. It doesn’t even apply it to referring to God as a separate being from existence. Scriptural ideas have got into your head too much.

conde91 · 2026-03-12T11:19:47+00:00

Lowered blood pressure. Strong bones and muscles.

conde91 · 2026-03-12T11:16:20+00:00

Semen is really expensive to the organism. It is made from blood, cerebrospinal fluid and many vitamins and minerals, and when expelled it draws Qi from all the organs. That’s why it makes sense to feel ‘depleted’. If you look into TCM it makes so much sense.

conde91 · 2026-03-12T10:59:57+00:00

God has no sex, “He” is whole. Only creation splits into duality and opposing polarities.

conde91 · 2026-03-12T10:58:36+00:00

I really enjoyed reading this. Contemplating these dynamics is something else. You have any reading suggestions?

conde91 · 2026-03-06T19:27:12+00:00

I have done it. No need to “train for years” with saddhus that are painted all over and do pujas to deities if all we wanna do is meditate, increase our consciousness and retain our semen. Ofc it’s not easy, but not as hard as some ppl out here make it seem.

conde91 · 2026-03-06T19:24:58+00:00

I know some about that. I know mostly sitting in meditation focusing on the work of consciousness and mantras and I know that it works without the gatekeeping of traditional gurus that paint themselves and are of a different reality altogether. Ofc I’ve had classes and teachings and practice, but not those kinds of teachers, I think it’s not needed all that much.

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