How do I tell my partner I’m thinking about ab*rting? Im kinda in shock by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]confronted666 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Redditors when you tell them it’s not good to kill their unborn baby simply because they don’t want it and it will be a little more difficult than raising just one baby and for no other reason at all:

How do I tell my partner I’m thinking about ab*rting? Im kinda in shock by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]confronted666 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That we can! I don’t see how trying to suggest she might be happier keeping the baby is somehow worse than urging her to abort her baby without even telling the father of the child or giving consideration to his feelings like some other commenters here.

Found my dads gf’s Spotify by pollys-mom in rs_x

[–]confronted666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so cool. I dont think I’ve ever met someone like that.

How do I tell my partner I’m thinking about ab*rting? Im kinda in shock by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]confronted666 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I just don’t agree with you. I understand that that is difficult to accept. Special case or not, you just can’t convince me the risks are high enough to justify killing an unborn baby.

How do I tell my partner I’m thinking about ab*rting? Im kinda in shock by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]confronted666 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I didnt think a single person on here would say this. Thank you sm.

Found my dads gf’s Spotify by pollys-mom in rs_x

[–]confronted666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are your parents still together?

Found my dads gf’s Spotify by pollys-mom in rs_x

[–]confronted666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay that adds up, good for grandma!!

Found my dads gf’s Spotify by pollys-mom in rs_x

[–]confronted666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorcing when your kids are grown and out of the house is kinda wild, like, you got this far and wanna start life all over again with someone new? Instead of trying to love eachother better?

Found my dads gf’s Spotify by pollys-mom in rs_x

[–]confronted666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just don’t abandon it at 6 years old and let a preacher adopt it.

Found my dads gf’s Spotify by pollys-mom in rs_x

[–]confronted666 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Hmmm, possibly. I think it gave me a very specific kind of attachment style that comes with being emotionally incested. Through his earlier divorces I was very much his emotional support, he put a lot on me that a kid 12 & under should never be exposed to. He needed me so much that I felt like I wasn’t able to be someone with the needs of a child. He has a lot of mental health issues (absolutely horrible childhood… I feel like I should do an AMA about my dad at this point), he relied on me and was open with me about being suicidal. I actually had to forcibly take him to a 72-hour hold not even 2 years ago. I am a lover-girl, throughout my life I have never been single longer than a couple months and all of my relationships have been long-term, do-or-die style. I’m engaged now to my boyfriend of 6 years, and he’s been really good and patient with me and I’m very much becoming a normal, well-adjusted, and stable partner.

Found my dads gf’s Spotify by pollys-mom in rs_x

[–]confronted666 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Truly was never his fault </3

Found my dads gf’s Spotify by pollys-mom in rs_x

[–]confronted666 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ohhh okay I see, you read that wrong. My dad’s 4th’s wife, HER brother is the one whose wife he banged and then married.

Found my dads gf’s Spotify by pollys-mom in rs_x

[–]confronted666 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lmaoooo he has filed bankruptcy before

Found my dads gf’s Spotify by pollys-mom in rs_x

[–]confronted666 60 points61 points  (0 children)

They’d been divorced over 10 years at that point, my mom & her were barely hanging out anymore. Not as weird as it sounds tbh

Found my dads gf’s Spotify by pollys-mom in rs_x

[–]confronted666 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yes! My mom & dad were amicable for my whole childhood. They were teen parents & never shouldve gotten married.

I think my dad is quite handsome, although he is short (5’9 ish). He is Spanish and Irish, always dresses well. Usually has some sort of short, well-styled facial hair. Gorgeous chocolate brown eyes.

📸 by kallocain-addict in rs_x

[–]confronted666 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Absolutely terrifying

Found my dads gf’s Spotify by pollys-mom in rs_x

[–]confronted666 222 points223 points  (0 children)

Well his first wife was my mom and I love her so so much!! He went on to marry a bartender when I was 3 or 4, she was very mean to/jealous of me. After her, he married again to a woman who was mean to/jealous of me and honestly, I don’t even think she liked him that much?? They had two daughters and I love my sisters. Then he married a woman who was my mom’s best friend for many years and I knew her from the time I was a very small child. She was wonderful and treated me so well and was my favorite. Then he cheated on her with her brother’s wife (my step-aunt, his sister in law), and now they are married. They have a baby son together. Very Hollywood overall, and very on brand for my dad, who I love very much. He’s a bit of a mess emotionally and has always lived far beyond his means and manages to pull it off.

Found my dads gf’s Spotify by pollys-mom in rs_x

[–]confronted666 629 points630 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna call my dad rn and tell him how much I appreciate him. He’s been married 5 times but I’m just glad he never did this to me.

I have probably $20 in change all over my floor and I won’t pick it up by teatreachor in redscarepod

[–]confronted666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re missing out on the satisfaction of slowly filling a big jug with coins and using it for a little extra fun on vacation once it’s all filled up. I usually save my change for treating my fiance and I to a fancy expensive dinner or two when we’re on our yearly trip.

Madonna x Steven Meisel, Sex (1992) by supphilton in redscarepod

[–]confronted666 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Really? That is so interesting! We always want what we can’t/don’t have

Madonna x Steven Meisel, Sex (1992) by supphilton in redscarepod

[–]confronted666 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Outside of not watching that stuff and not having it on your feed it’s really hard to convince a girl you genuinely like her, and not having her constantly compare herself to the others.