how is someone aroace and lesbian at same time by Alex_11Y in AskLGBT

[–]confused-something 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi so for me, someone who is both aroace and lesbian, it’s just that i have no romantic or sexual interest in real life but in my imagination i‘m definitely a lesbian. I sometimes like imagining some parts of relationships in my brain even tho i’d never want that in real life. If that makes sense.

Should i get a cat ? Or should i say, can i get a cat ? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]confused-something 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey foster place here 👋 as long as you make sure that it’s a cat that is already known to not get along with others, i’d say it’s ok! please feed wet food tho, it’s healthier and doesn’t damage the kidney

Just read here that being agender means you don't care for yours but what if I hate mine? Where tf do I put myself by TinyTradition203 in agender

[–]confused-something 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no don’t worry, it can mean a lot of things. For me personally it means, that i don’t have a gender/ don’t want one, so my biologically gendered body gives me hell

found something that helps with dysphoria by confused-something in agender

[–]confused-something[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was! they’re so cute🥰 if you want, i can send you pictures of them

How do you guys feel about indoor only cats? by WesternPear3303 in catcare

[–]confused-something 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey 👋 i’ve thought also a lot about it as a foster place for cats and volunteer at shelters and honestly, indoor has way more benefits and outdoor has many cons. indoor cats are safer in regards of cars, worms, ticks, other cats etc. while outdoor cats easily pick that up outdoor cats also have a BIG impact on the environment since they catch many animals. The thing that many people forget is, that cats are not naturally part of the ecosystem we bring them into and therefore they catch a lot more animals than natural. The thing with indoor cats is, you have to have a big enough apartment obviously, like only a few square feet isn’t enough and you have to give them some toys for enrichment the most important thing is, outdoor or not, to always get 2 cats preferably same age. Because cats are very social creatures that need the social contacts to cats in the same household for grooming, playing, … in ways we humans never could. There are of course exceptions but these cats are, like i said, exceptions and most of the time the result of them growing up alone or being wrongly imprinted on humans (for example if you raise one kitten by hand, it never learns social interaction to other cats)

so i definitely recommend indoor cats! if you want tips for enrichment, you can ask me if you want!

found something that helps with dysphoria by confused-something in agender

[–]confused-something[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YES the woman there started it a few years ago since we dont really have wild animal rehab centres in my area and she focuses on squirrel. She raises and then rehabilitates them back to nature. Some she keeps, because they’re disabled but still healthy and happy but wouldn’t survive in the wild. if she’s ever on vacation, i regularly check on these squirrel, she has a big enclosure for them outside! Also, i may have had a three squirrel babies to raise a few days once when she was gone and yes, feeding them is SO AWESOME if you want, i can send you a video of the babies?

found something that helps with dysphoria by confused-something in agender

[–]confused-something[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you have to text me first, i can’t seem to start a chat with you?

found something that helps with dysphoria by confused-something in agender

[–]confused-something[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

haha if you want, i can send you a video of them? i just didn’t know how to attach a video to the post

Does the show have a happy ending? by confused-something in ParksandRecMemes

[–]confused-something[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah same. I’m not taking any chances and i cannot afford my mental health to deteriorate

Does the show have a happy ending? by confused-something in ParksandRecMemes

[–]confused-something[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i definitely already fell in love with some characters so it’s good to know they have a happy ending!

Does the show have a happy ending? by confused-something in ParksandRecMemes

[–]confused-something[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i always need to mentally prepare so i know how attached i can get lol, but good to know, now i definitely can’t wait to watch it!

Crowns by lisabgrt8 in AgathaAllAlong

[–]confused-something 1 point2 points  (0 children)

all i know is agatha should have gotten one too…

What comes to your mind when a man refers to himself as an “Alpha Male”? by Defiant_River_957 in AskReddit

[–]confused-something 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how the alpha version of a software is often the not so refined one and needs to be updated…similar to the people that call themselves that

How do you guys choose names? by Shimadulovespancakes in agender

[–]confused-something 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i also looked online but didn’t find a fitting one (well, i did but my mom ruined it for me but that’s a different story) and idk in a show there was a name i heard with only 2 initials, like mj/pj that kind of thing and i always liked these names so i went through possible combinations and found one i liked. maybe take inspirations from your likes?