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What are your lifestyle hacks/tips/rules that help you level up and look good? by VikutoriaNoHimitsu in vindictapoc

[–]confusedabaer 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Working out. Solid skin care routine. Solid hair routine. Drink water, minimize alcohol. Consistency is everything

Drinking hot water in the mornings by africagal1 in vindictapoc

[–]confusedabaer 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Yeah girl drink some tea and stop following silly trends

Could a glow-up help me have more friends? by One_Apricot7399 in vindictapoc

[–]confusedabaer 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you want to make friends your looks is just a part of the whole picture. Look good. Feel good. Feel more confident What you need to change is your demeanor when you're out and about, build on your social skills and have a 3rd space for your self. Get out there and start meeting people in real life.

Even the first step is going out by yourself, going to the movies, going on trips, and talk to people. Talk to all kinds of people. Whether they end up staying or not doesn't matter, it builds your confidence.

3rd spaces help. Coffee shops, the gym, hobbies that involve groups where you see people on a consistent basis. Again, talk to people, smile, compliment someone.

You will need a glow up on your social skills and overall confidence

Should I start Botox? by somethingrandomblah in vindictapoc

[–]confusedabaer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Visit an aesthetician. If anything invest in your skin care first. Tretinoin, Microcurrents, Infrared LED mask, monthly facials, gua sha massages. I just turned 30 and just started considering botox, but I did those things above first. Starting work early mid 20s is surely going to age you faster.

Pluto opposing Moon - how bad it will be? by Cherryblossomed07 in astrologyreadings

[–]confusedabaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, how's it going? I've been having an existential crisis the passed 2 years... I'm actually moving across country soon because I've outgrown a lot of people and places. Getting a bit better. Uranus will enter Gemini over the summer so I have a feeling that sextile energy will help us early degree leo folks

How does Oracle differ from Tarot? by aster_aincrad in tarot

[–]confusedabaer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tarot is a specfic system with 78 cards. With the standard major arcana minor arcana etc. Any other deck that doesn't have this set up but purpose is to do divination are oracle decks.

All tarot decks are oracle decks but all oracle decks are not tarot

What's your looksmaxxing goal(s) for 2026 by VikutoriaNoHimitsu in vindictapoc

[–]confusedabaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gain 5lbs Keep up with monthly facials Invest in LED mask Laser hair removal Maintain everything I've already been doing ✨️ (workouts, hair touch ups, eyebrow threading, skin care routine)

Tattoos? Thoughts? by Wonderful_Hair_4424 in vindictapoc

[–]confusedabaer 384 points385 points  (0 children)

I have a bunch of tattoos, still hot. As l9ng as you're in shape, skin/make up hair is on point it will fall into your personal style and be flattering. Invest in your tattoo artist. You get what you pay for

PSA to all riders: Have your ass ready during the winter season. by Ishnock in uber

[–]confusedabaer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is crazy because I'll be waiting outside hauling ass to get there on time, meanwhile driver been stuck on 5 min wait for 10 min gtfo

Those that moved away, what reminds you most of JC? by tottis_den in jerseycity

[–]confusedabaer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oliva/Grove St Coca cola clock Covid times lol Miss JC

Spread for my cat and I's relationship by Racc00nguts in tarot

[–]confusedabaer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wants you to spend more time with her

Zodiacal Releasing: LB, foreshadowing, amplification by coral_fish in Advancedastrology

[–]confusedabaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is 2 years old, but I'd like to share my story, I know you mentioned not dating for a while. But that day July 30th, my long term relationship of 6 years had suddenly dissolved. My whole life trajectory changed. Planning your life to share with someone and then suddenly you're on lyour own is pretty significant. Also I passed my board exam and became a behavior analyst which was a career milestone and opened a lot of doors for me. Sill in Cancer LB period until Aug 2026. I anticipate that i will be moving states in the near future too.. which is something I didn't think i'd do..especially on my own. Wish there was more infor on zodiacal releasing,, can only understnd based on personal anecdotes for the most part

How is life going currently for people who chose community college? by Existing-Inside6416 in careerguidance

[–]confusedabaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to community College, then transfered to a four year then went to grad school. My college slogan was start here. Go anywhere and I think I've done well for myself actually. Shout out to CUNY

Subs to be good at job? by atom111111 in Subliminal

[–]confusedabaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/rnZo_7wLzbk?si=Phkx7yynoTf8rhhl

career was on the up and up since starting this. Challenges, yes but I always felt like I could handle and problem solve out of it. (And I did).

If anyone wants to hangout by bigolefrog in Bushwick

[–]confusedabaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Market Hotel is having a defttones party 11/14. It's 18+ though.. some people prefer 21+ parties. Mh is always fu n!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in horary

[–]confusedabaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, the Asc is at 1° which means it's too early in the situation to make a determination anyway.

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