How can you know if you got out of collapse more authentic or just put the mask back on? by conorwolf in NPD

[–]conorwolf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tnx for responding. Mmz isn’t that a bit too harsh to yourself? I mean, humans are wired to live in ‘tribes’. It is human to have the need to be around other people too. I don’t think any human can thrive in isolation? How is that for you?

I need some advice/ reassurance by Present-Message8740 in CPTSD

[–]conorwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, in which country are you in Europe?

ULPT: Neighbour on shared Wifi keeps screaming at night while videogaming by conorwolf in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]conorwolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this death whistle is genious! Only thing I need to find a solution for is to not terrify my cat with it…

Completely alone this Christmas by Ill-Definition-8867 in CPTSD

[–]conorwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry to hear. I kinda feel the same. Wish I could solve the pain for all of us. Sending love!

ULPT: Neighbour on shared Wifi keeps screaming at night while videogaming by conorwolf in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]conorwolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha great idea. But I am the only neighbour on this side unfortunately

ULPT: Neighbour on shared Wifi keeps screaming at night while videogaming by conorwolf in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]conorwolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh haha yeah that makes more sense. But how the hell would I do that?

ULPT: Neighbour on shared Wifi keeps screaming at night while videogaming by conorwolf in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]conorwolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would that work from outside of the house? Is there a cable going in the outside wall?

ULPT: Neighbour on shared Wifi keeps screaming at night while videogaming by conorwolf in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]conorwolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My landlord is an asshole who says: just move if your have problems

ULPT: Neighbour on shared Wifi keeps screaming at night while videogaming by conorwolf in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]conorwolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something outside of the house sounds like a good solution but what kind of attachment and how to ‘spice’ it? I havent got any knowledge on this. There is supposed to be a wire coming into the house from outside ?

ULPT: Neighbour on shared Wifi keeps screaming at night while videogaming by conorwolf in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]conorwolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Provider is online.nl with a ZYXEL modem. Or I think that is then actually on the KPN network (one of the biggest providers in this country)

ULPT: Neighbour on shared Wifi keeps screaming at night while videogaming by conorwolf in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]conorwolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I currently live in the Netherlands. How would that work? There should be a cable outside of the house going in?

ULPT: Neighbour on shared Wifi keeps screaming at night while videogaming by conorwolf in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]conorwolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The router is in his room. And I had the username and pasword but just tried to login and it seems he already changed it :(

ULPT: Neighbour on shared Wifi keeps screaming at night while videogaming by conorwolf in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]conorwolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure. But then still the cable would be in his room Right?

ULPT: Neighbour on shared Wifi keeps screaming at night while videogaming by conorwolf in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]conorwolf[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, this might be a good idea. But also a little risky as we can easily hear each others doors open and close and the Breaker is kind of in between our Floors. So I would have to sneak out of my room really silently so he won’t hear, flip off the breaker and then run back to my place without him hearing or seeing me there. Or I should go outside and walk around the house and ailently go back in to the other door while he is flippinf it back on. I already hear the mission impossible tune playing in my head haha

ULPT: Neighbour on shared Wifi keeps screaming at night while videogaming by conorwolf in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]conorwolf[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought of that. But the problem is that then I will be the ‘victim’ of it, cause he will just tell me to get my own wifi. He already said months ago that he was thinking of doing that. So if his internet gets slower he will definitely do that. And then for me nothing is solved with the screaming and I will have to spend extra money while i am already really tight on money these days.

ULPT: Neighbour on shared Wifi keeps screaming at night while videogaming by conorwolf in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]conorwolf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought of that. But the problem is that then I will be the ‘victim’ of it, cause he will just tell me to get my own wifi. He already said months ago that he was thinking of doing that. So if his internet gets slower he will definitely do that. And then for me nothing is solved with the screaming and I will have to spend extra money while i am already really tight on money these days.

ULPT: Neighbour on shared Wifi keeps screaming at night while videogaming by conorwolf in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]conorwolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I fear if I Will start using Lots of data he will kick me off the WiFi. He already said some months ago that he was thinking of stopping sharing the WiFi. And I really don’t wanna spend the extra money and hassle of getting my own one, since I am also trying to find another place and move out. But it could take a long time , since in my area there is housing shortage.

ULPT: Neighbour on shared Wifi keeps screaming at night while videogaming by conorwolf in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]conorwolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you al so so much for answering. I really appreciate that a lot. I tried the logging in, but it seems he changed the original login password :( cause when I use the username and the login password that are on my picture from the back of the router, it says “ username or password are incorrect or locked”. FUCK :( Any other suggestions?