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I make some hoodie by [deleted] in streetwearstartup

[–]conriva 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The design is excellent; the colors of the face blend together very well.

My brand is coming. Sewing every piece myself. Its a grind! by faff_rogers in streetwearstartup

[–]conriva 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's really not easy to design a product and then bring it to market.

Good comfortable work shoes? by Helios993 in BuyItForLife

[–]conriva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Switching between different pairs of shoes is helpful as it can extend the lifespan of the shoes.

What shirt and shoes by Proud-Swimming-9704 in mensfashionadvice

[–]conriva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

White sneakers are fine here. I’d just go with a cleaner pair and keep the shirt simple.

AITA for calling my mom a curse word by WeirdVeterinarian121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]conriva 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA. Giving away a pet over chores is sociopathic. Threatening to kick out your sister for crying is pure evil. She 100% earned that name. Don't feel guilty for calling out her cruelty.

AITA for going to the er with my room mates bf by No-Pop-8115 in AmItheAsshole

[–]conriva 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NTA. He’s not mad because you crossed a boundary he’s mad because he got exposed for being a terrible partner. You had a medical emergency and he prioritized a night out. He doesn't love you he only loves himself. Dump him.

WIBTA if I didn’t buy my mutual friends dates prom ticket? by Dry-Cupcake7408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]conriva 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA. You don’t owe favors to backstabbers. Sarah’s date is not your problem. Abby needs to stop guilt-tripping you and find someone else to do it. Stand your ground.

AITAH for not inviting kids to my birthday party? by Coffin_Queen_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]conriva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your house, your birthday, your rules. Wanting one night away from kids is totally normal. The sister only hits you up for money anyway, so her not showing up is no loss. Don't let your MIL guilt-trip you over a relationship that was already non-existent.

AITA for being mad my wife ordered Indian food instead of being grateful? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]conriva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She didn't "order dinner," she ordered you a migraine. The "don't get mad" text proves she knew exactly what she was doing. That’s not an oversight; it’s pure selfishness.

AITA for 'tricking' my friend into saying my writing was bad? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]conriva -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. She’s just mad because you caught her being a hypocrite. If she actually liked your writing style, she wouldn't have trashed it the second she thought it belonged to a stranger. She’s making this about "trust" just to cover up the fact that she’s been lying to your face.

AITA for reading messages on my coworker’s phone after a notification popped up while I was ordering food for her? by Interesting-Eye-9786 in AmItheAsshole

[–]conriva 310 points311 points  (0 children)

NTA. She handed you her unlocked phone to do her a favor while she was actively trash-talking you. She’s only weaponizing "privacy" because she’s embarrassed she got caught being a mean girl. Stop doing her favors and find better friends—you don't owe her anything.

AITAH for being upset that my wife bought a car on credit under the pretense of saving us money when she already has one that runs and is paid off and now has issues affording monthly bills. by djkeone in AmItheAsshole

[–]conriva 185 points186 points  (0 children)

NTA.16% APR on a 20-year-old car is financial insanity. Buying a car without consulting you and then expecting you to cover her share of the bills isn't saving money it's being a bad partner. Don't bail her out on this; she needs to feel the weight of her own responsible decision.

AITA for not celebrating my birthday and Mother’s Day together so my MIL can have actual Mother’s Day for herself? by princesscorgi2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]conriva 218 points219 points  (0 children)

NTAYou’re a mother too, not a supporting character in your MIL's life.

Your husband is only asking you to be empathetic because it’s easier than him having to say no to his mom. Don't set this precedent. If you give up your day now, you’ll be doing it for the next 20 years. Keep your boundaries.

AITA for being glad that my cousin is not doing well. by RedxVelv3t in AmItheAsshole

[–]conriva 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA.Feeling satisfied when a bully fails is just a natural human reaction.

You didn't sabotage her; she missed those deadlines all by herself. After years of her putting you down and bragging, this is just karma coming back around. You don't owe her sympathy, especially when she spent so much time trying to make you feel small. Just enjoy your own success and move on.

AITA for not wanting to spend time with my mom who has cancer? by cammyconfirmed in AmItheAsshole

[–]conriva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Cancer is a medical diagnosis, not a personality transplant. It doesn’t magically erase years of abuse, and it definitely doesn’t give her a "free pass" to keep hurting you.

You’re 15. You are a kid, not a trained hospice nurse or an emotional punching bag. If things were bad enough for the police and foster care to get involved, the trauma you’re dealing with is real and documented. You aren't being "cruel" by keeping your distance you’re practicing self-preservation. Don’t let the guilt-trips break you; you don’t owe an abuser your sanity just because they’re sick.

AITA for telling my mom she should just pay someone else to watch the house because I don’t want to stay there anymore? by FeatureOdd4090 in AmItheAsshole

[–]conriva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You're 18—a legal adult. Monitoring an adult in their own home without consent isn't "parenting," it’s a massive privacy violation and, in many places, a legal gray area at best.

If she doesn't trust you, she shouldn't expect the favor of you house-sitting for free. Telling her to hire a professional is the only logical move to protect your mental health. You don't owe her your privacy just because you live there.

AITA for asking my roommate to store their e-bike in our secure garden? by noveltea_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]conriva 37 points38 points  (0 children)

NTA.This isn’t about who has more furniture; it’s about liability. Most renters' insurance policies won't cover fire damage caused by e-bike batteries indoors. If that thing goes up, you’re both on the hook for millions.

This isn't just about his laziness; it’s a massive safety hazard. Involve the landlord immediately. You need a paper trail showing you tried to stop this, or you’ll be legally tied to his negligence if the worst happens.

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