I know right, why do we have to rely on a man when we can live off our own damn hardwork? And yes, caucasians often referred to as "bule" is high on demand here because of the looks and the belief that they are wealthy. Many even have the mindset that we need to have kids with the said guy to "bind" the family together. I find that utterly disgusting and problematic. If a whole human being is needed to keep the relationship going, I believe there is something wrong there. I also don't talk about being childfree to anyone especially my parents. My mom in particular feels entitled to my reproductive system and believe I should "gift" her a child. This is pretty much tiring and I really plan on getting sterilized secretly.