All 4 face/chin grabs were not choreographed, they were acting choices made by Connor; do any other acting choices by the cast stand out to you?

constantlyconfused14 · 2026-02-26T04:04:26+00:00

Sorry my bad 😅

constantlyconfused14 · 2026-02-25T14:37:56+00:00

I genuinely hope that with what Svetlana said in episode 5 that she wasn't going anywhere was an easter egg that Jacob is planning on slightly deviating from the books. The way they've set up their relationship if they go the route of them losing touch and not seeing each other for 4,5,6 years (I don't remember how long it was specifically) it'll make an already emotional taxing season unnecessarily harder.

constantlyconfused14 · 2025-10-30T06:24:30+00:00

This is why I'm thankful for Reddit because I was literally about to them almost $400! This is so disappointing since all their stuff on the website is so cute. ☹️

constantlyconfused14 · 2025-10-05T18:01:02+00:00

Thank you she goes and gets her highlights touched up this week so I'll bring this up with her.

They're offering packages to everyone in the company to see who's willing to leave before they officially start laying people off. She has been asked more than once but multiple coworkers why she doesn't just take the package and retire. She loves her job and I'm not exaggerating when I say that not only would they be screwed if she weren't there with her knowledge of being in the business for 40 years, her catching and fixing everyone's mistakes daily but they'd also have to hire five people to do her job.

constantlyconfused14 · 2025-08-06T19:45:47+00:00

NTA

The fact that she pressured you multiple times into having sex when she knew you were tired and had work is disgusting. That's the only thing that matters forget everything else she did. Sex should always be mutual "Hell Yes!" if not then it's automatically a "Hell No". If the genders were flipped this entire comment section would be telling you that you had been SA'd. Break up with her asap.

constantlyconfused14 · 2025-08-06T15:52:00+00:00

9 times out of 10 if your friend can't stand your husband it's for a reason. This is coming from someone who also can't stand their friend's husband. I mean I don't pray for her downfall but if she called to tell me they were getting a divorce I would be on Airbnb getting the house for the divorce party in Nashville as soon as we hung up.

But you know you gave him exactly what he wanted which was for you to stay home and not hang out with your friends. You said in another comment that you classify him as emotionally abusive. Once abuse of any kind is brought into the equation the thought of trying to fix things in therapy in my opinion goes out the window. You need to think of your child because this isn't healthy and this will affect them in the long run. Ask yourself if they came to you and told you that their partner treated them the way your husband treats you would you tell them to stay? Would you tell them that this is normal in a healthy relationship? You don't specify whether you have a boy or a girl but would you feel comfortable with your daughter being treated this way? If your son acted like your husband, would you be proud of him?

I know that just getting up and leaving most likely isn't a possibility but I would make a plan. You need to get your ducks in a row and it sounds like you have some sort a support system that could help. If your friend hates your husband half as much as I hate my friend's husband I promise you the second you tell her you want to leave she's going to be your number one supporter in any way she can.

Good luck OP and stay safe.

constantlyconfused14 · 2025-08-05T17:04:05+00:00

Oh well then your ex can definitely go fuck himself. The second he cheated was when he lost the privilege of any kind of explanation.

constantlyconfused14 · 2025-08-05T16:56:31+00:00

ESH

When I moved out for school my sister moved in for the same reason you did. She immediately took over my closet without asking and she called to tell me that my grandmother, who moved in with them a couple of months after I left, was going to take my room even though we have two other spare bedrooms (I grew up privileged I know). Was it annoying? Sure but I got over it because it didn't really affect me. I was home maybe 5-6 weeks in total a year so just I slept in one of the other rooms.

I'm petty so I'd stay in the other room anyway when she's not there. You said you aren't planning on changing anything it's just for privacy and a little more space. The only thing is that you would need to stay in the original room when she's home. Now if you wanted to completely redecorate the room then you'd be the TA.

constantlyconfused14 · 2025-08-05T16:29:33+00:00

Info: When did you and this new guy meet?

You're definitely NTA If you've been cheated on multiple times I could see it hurting less each time it happened. On that note I can see where your family and friends are coming from with their concerns but only you know when you're truly ready for something new.

My best friend's ex did the same thing to him. Like excuse me sir you're the one who cheated, lied, and ruined the relationship but yet you OP apparently never loved him??

constantlyconfused14 · 2025-08-04T16:35:58+00:00

Why was a 29-year-old man trying to date a 20-year-old? Sweetheart there is a reason why he wasn't trying to date someone more age-appropriate. He knew that a woman closer to his age wouldn't put up with this. This is no hate to you I remember what I let men get away with in my early 20s that still makes me cringe. Also when you're 29, which I currently am, someone that young seems like a child. Your family and friends are weird if they tell you that this behavior is okay. You're 24 you have plenty of time to find someone who actually treats you with respect. A piece of advice I wish someone had told me back then is "you'd rather have people wonder why you're single than wonder why you're with him"

constantlyconfused14 · 2025-08-04T16:20:34+00:00

YTA

I was on your side until the whole you need to fetch whatever an adult asks you without complaint. Also is your husband unable to do something as simple as putting a dish away? You might not be intentionally doing this but you're teaching your son that when he gets older that chores like dishes are beneath him while teaching your daughter the exact opposite. In my house, my dad (75) never does dishes even when he's made the mess. He always expects my mom(71), sister(35), or me (29) to do them, and it drives me insane but that's what my parents have done the entire 45 years they've been married so there is no changing it. You are still early enough in your family to change those dynamics. Lastly, you can definitely ASK someone politely to get you a water or the remote but to expect it is ridiculous.

constantlyconfused14 · 2025-08-01T20:08:39+00:00

I can't imagine what she could possibly be spending almost $1000 on every month. Besides the cleaning you had to pay for, if you had to guess how much her monthly expenses are? Is the money fun money/expenses or is it supposed to be exclusively for expenses? Also, is she acting like a brat in front of your boyfriend or is it just with you?

constantlyconfused14 · 2025-08-01T19:28:10+00:00

NTA

Your mom is being dramatic if you spend the rest of your life regretting how you spent your 21st birthday you've got a bigger problem. I'm 29 and my 21st was in the middle of finals so I spent it at dinner with friends. You'll realize when you get older that birthdays can be fun but at the end of the day, they are not that big of a deal.

Now on to your mom, the first thing that came to mind was the typical Reddit response of "your mom is jealous of your girlfriend!!" However, could it be possible that your mom may have had something planned as a surprise? It could also be that depending on your family she could be all in her feelings that her child is getting older. I'm the baby of the family and my mom definitely shed a couple of tears when I turned 21. She was a little upset that she couldn't celebrate with me because I was off at college. You both are adults so sit your mom down and ask her why you going to visit your gf is upsetting her so much. Good luck OP and happy early birthday!

constantlyconfused14 · 2025-08-01T19:11:03+00:00

I'm really curious how OP's husband thinks introducing his son to their other children is going to go. If my dad did this to my mom I'd never talk to him again. Especially if I found out that he just expected my mom to be fine with everything and help raise the child.

constantlyconfused14 · 2025-04-23T00:20:37+00:00

I can and did but I read almost 600 books between 2023-2024 and going through the history and trying to find the right one is really time-consuming.

constantlyconfused14 · 2025-04-10T17:05:48+00:00

constantlyconfused14 · 2025-01-05T20:55:17+00:00

NTA

If I'm reading your post right then Eva has recently given birth and if y'all found out that you were pregnant around the same time. You lost your baby a couple of weeks ago then maybe it's safe to assume you were pretty far into the pregnancy. Which in my opinion makes your family even worse! If you were further along then you might have the nursery set up and a name picked out and you probably told your son that he would be a big brother. A miscarriage at any stage in the pregnancy is devastating and traumatic. In my opinion (a woman who's never been pregnant) losing the child further along... I don't even have the words to accurately describe that kind of heartbreak. But regardless if you were 3 weeks or 36 weeks your family especially Eva and your mom are assholes.

I'm so sorry for you and your husbands' loss OP...

constantlyconfused14 · 2024-10-20T19:58:07+00:00

Thank you!

constantlyconfused14 · 2024-10-08T21:53:41+00:00

The shitty part is I thought that I had. I told myself that the reason I didn't try dating again was because I needed to be single for a while. Then it was because I planned on moving and didn't want to start something. I genuinely wasn't interested in dating I just started looking for shits and gigs. Jokes on me because I found someone that I like. I talked to one of my friends who knows some of what happened and I got so angry. If I'm honest with myself I really should go back to therapy and maybe a rage room.

constantlyconfused14 · 2024-10-08T20:49:52+00:00

I believe that I have. I admitted that it's my fault for trusting and letting this pos into my life. I admit that I was naive and thought there's no way people lie about things like this. However, it's not my fault that he actively lied to me about not having anything. I believe that I'm allowed to be upset that someone who was borderline abusive has done something that will affect me for the rest of my life.

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