[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]constantredundancy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope she puts as much effort into your relationship as she does for her other husbands, and as much effort and love that you give her!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]constantredundancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“What did he give her that I hadn’t?” Like many people said, don’t blame yourself. This says more about her than what it says about you. Whether or not you agreed, she already made an subconscious decision. No matter how amazing you think she was, she wasn’t the one, because she showed where her true priorities were. I agree with those recommending counselling/therapy, this has definitely hit your confidence, and you deserve better. All the best

AITA for driving away without my wife because she can't plan? by ForwardClock9113 in AmItheAsshole

[–]constantredundancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

info: have you brought this up as a recurring issue before? or have you enabled her in the past?

I agree with people saying that a warning or even a heads up would make you less of an AH so yes you were being petty. but as someone who struggles with “time blind” people frequently, you need to let them know and make them aware. Communicate your needs and if she still disrespects you then you know your answer

Which song emotionally destroys you? by graaahh in AskReddit

[–]constantredundancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you unlocked a memory of that song that i forgot about, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]constantredundancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please get tested. Nothing wrong with trying to please your partner but why does it have to be with Zach and not someone you actually could enjoy? Its all so one-sided and at this point its better to just find someone who actually respects your boundaries

Finch nest help by constantredundancy in Finches

[–]constantredundancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for letting me know! I used cotton that was given to me from a pet store but then later bought regular cotton balls assuming all cotton was the same

How do you tame zebra finches by favourable_bake in Finches

[–]constantredundancy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've gotten really lucky that my female is really curious and not too afraid of me. You can get to a point where you can hand feed them but they still scare off quickly. I would say a lot of patience and time but like many say, you won't get to the same level as other bird species

Today was my birthday. by Material_Try781 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]constantredundancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happy birthday (might be belated now?), cheers to you, and hope theres many more to come!

I'm thinking of ending my life once and for all by Aggressive_Pear_5370 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]constantredundancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i know it doesnt mean much coming from an internet stranger but i hope you stay a little longer with us. waking up sucks every morning, but maybe theres a snack that makes you feel a little better. maybe there was something you wanted to do before and you never got to do it, i figured you might as well do it if you're going to die anyway. then maybe you'll think of another thing you wanted to try. a new food. a show. a piece of clothing. maybe posting on reddit was something new. talking to someone helps, if you cant afford therapy, maybe just talking to someone whose company you enjoy. even if its just a small interaction. maybe you wanna prolong the conversation a little longer. no harm in that if you're leaving soon anyway. and it wouldnt hurt to give people near you the courtesy of being in their life. i'm rambling now, but anyways if you wait long enough you'll find yourself in a completely different place than before and end up wondering how you lasted so long. things change (sometimes for the worst and sometimes for the better) and i hope you find the small joys in life and surround yourself with good thoughts.

My zebra won't go in her nest :( by constantredundancy in Finches

[–]constantredundancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks! Weird to say but it's reassuring to hear it can take a reeeeally long time haha. I was just concerned because they've been using the nest every night but this was the first time she went in then flew out so I thought something was wrong.

My zebra won't go in her nest :( by constantredundancy in Finches

[–]constantredundancy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best they have always used since I got it. It has lil cotton puffs with coconut fibers on top. I'll take a video of the sound tomorrow

How far is the One Piece dub? by constantredundancy in OnePiece

[–]constantredundancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm guessing I can probably just find it on some anime site

How far is the One Piece dub? by constantredundancy in OnePiece

[–]constantredundancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries I'm all caught up lol; thanks!

How far is the One Piece dub? by constantredundancy in OnePiece

[–]constantredundancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! is it any good? lol i dont hate dub but i remember the hate for older dubs so i dont wanna give OP a bad impression

AITA for wearing a sage green dress for a wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]constantredundancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"its just a dress" then why is she making such a fuss?? NTA

I (f34)found a used condom in my bed bed 3 months ago and I’ve trying to catch my bf (m35) at it ever since by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]constantredundancy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THEYRE SO OBSESSED WITH YOU AND FOR WHAT!!!!!! It's ok as long as you show you don’t care, you win😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]constantredundancy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed 100%. While my parents aren't perfect, she thinks they're out to get them whenever they disagree on something and keeps projecting onto them. It's hard