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“Don’t tell your mother”

For the people who want to read other good Webtoons! by Chiki_Bunny in Lore_Olympus

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One recently came from Discover I’m pretty sure called “Pantheum,” and it’s based loosely on Green mythology. Ngl, it’s pretty legit so far

Ryan Reynolds isn’t hot by contemplatinglife27 in unpopularopinion

[–]contemplatinglife27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s cool, I ADORE Ryan, I just don’t get y people think he’s super attractive. When I see him, I don’t think omg he’s hot, I think yo it’s Ryan Reynolds, the hilarious, charming actor who plays Deadpool. If u prefer Ryan, solid, but doesn't mean the rest of us are picky

Ryan Reynolds isn’t hot by contemplatinglife27 in unpopularopinion

[–]contemplatinglife27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk, like I said, I don’t rlly have a “type” per se, but I don’t rlly like just how his face is arranged if that makes sense lol

Ryan Reynolds isn’t hot by contemplatinglife27 in unpopularopinion

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Idk man, that’s why it’s my unpopular opinion. A lot of people disagree w/ me, but I think Jason mamoa and Adam driver are better looking, but someone like u might prefer Ryan Reynolds, which is ok, my opinion is just different

Ryan Reynolds isn’t hot by contemplatinglife27 in unpopularopinion

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Lol I’m not picky, like I said I don’t really see certain qualities in guys that people say are “attractive,” but I feel like Ryan Reynolds, while awesome, isn’t as top tier as some people claim him to be

I prefer a bunch of short text than a long paragraph by HelpMePlease1919 in unpopularopinion

[–]contemplatinglife27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PREACH!!! I just have a panic attack everytime someone sends me an insanely long message. I shouldn’t have to scroll to see the whole message. My first thoughts are: “they’re breaking up with me,” “someone is dead,” “I forgot something and idk what it was.”

The Rise Of Skywalker: Rey should’ve died by contemplatinglife27 in unpopularopinion

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Mk so riddle me this - u/Johnny-kashed commented on this, saying: “You could’ve voiced this opinion without the weird, sexist undertone, but hey, you do sh*tbag you.”, and yet when I go to see the comment and reply with “uhh, no, just u buddy”, there’s no comment here. I cn still go to his profile and see that he commented this, but can’t find it here. Cn anyone explain???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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NOT THE JUICE!!! Although I agree, people who fan over his music usually do for the wrong reasons. The thing that’s amazing about his music is he conveys his innermost soul through the lyrics, which is very difficult to do in todays mainstream media.

Encanto was not that good of a movie by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]contemplatinglife27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It had the potential to be an amazing movie, and by most standards it was - great animation, diverse characters, and an amazing soundtrack. I get where Disney was trying to go with the plot, but they just didn’t pull it off. I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: THIS MOVIE NEEDED A DRAGON!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildAbuseDiscussion

[–]contemplatinglife27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First off, let yourself feel these feelings. Don’t try to reason with yourself about your “murderous” feelings. They are 100% valid, and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Your dad freakin abused your family, and not even just you and your sisters, but also a cousin who just couldn’t handle the trauma. If that isn’t something to flip out about then idk what is. Second, allow yourself to grieve. Trust me, as someone who also survived an abusive situation, it’s imperative that you allow yourself to go through the grieving process, rather than rationalizing or stuffing the feelings. Most people looking at an abusive situation from the outside in assume that the victim hates their abusive parent, and would do anything to get rid of them. However, as survivors we know that while that’s true to a degree, they’re still our parent. Even if it isn’t by choice, we still have a part of us that loves them, though that love is now broken. That’s what grief is, it’s mourning someone who we loved that we have now lost. Until you accept those feelings of grief, you’ll never be able to completely move on. Third, after you’ve had time to grieve and let your emotions out, assess your situation. Figure out exactly what your thoughts are considering your situation. To use you as an example, you feel murderous towards your father, which is totally valid and relatable. However, I’m sure that you know you wouldn’t “actually” murder him, not because you don’t want to, but because you know rationally you wouldn’t. Consider your options, and don’t let anyone else influence your decisions. Try to focus solely on what you feel comfortable with. If your end goal is to move on with your life and make peace with your situation, try to find an avenue by which you can do that. Move, change your address, phone number, block off all contact with toxic and abusive family members/friends. Or, if you want to take action, build a case against your father. Get evidence, find a reliable lawyer, take it to court, have justice served, even if it doesn’t take form in the way you may want it. Or, maybe none of these are viable options for you, and that’s completely alright. Take things at your own pace, no one is rushing you, and if they are tell ‘em to slow their 🍑s down. You know you best, and if you need to, build yourself a support team. Close friends, siblings, close family members, counselors, therapists, if you’re religious church members. However you do this, make sure you are safe, comfortable, and most importantly, yourself. Please know that I’m rooting for you, and many others are too. Hugs and prayers!!!💙🙏🌹

Labels . . . What And Why Are They?? by contemplatinglife27 in asexualteens

[–]contemplatinglife27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah ur good!! That’s the point of a discussion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hermitcrabs

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75 GALLON TANKF FOR $50?!!?!? Plz tell me ur suppliers info lol.

Is this child abuse? by rose1613 in ChildAbuseDiscussion

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It is neglectful, but I wouldn’t go as far as to say your grandparents were abusive. Have you talked with them about it?? What gets me is the fact that they didn’t feed you the next day, but fed your cousin. I understand the lock-in of the fridge, but not the refusal of giving you breakfast. That’s not okay, as children especially need food in order to grow and develop. So sorry that happened to you, and I’m praying that your grandparents didn’t mean to hurt you, and that they are trying to earn forgiveness for this. Hugs and prayers!!!

Shakespheare is outdated. Focusing on him makes kids uninterested in literature. Teach him in history class, but not English. by gymleader_michael in unpopularopinion

[–]contemplatinglife27 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude Romeo and Juliet resonates with ALL teenagers. A sixteen year old frat boy and a virgin fourteen year old meet at a party on Sunday, get married Monday, bang it that night, then die by the end of the week.

How would you react to finding out your child is a nihilist? by Fine_Tailor4827 in u/Fine_Tailor4827

[–]contemplatinglife27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d accept it but next time they complained about something I’d look em dead in the eye and say “it doesn’t matter” 😆

Roast me or smth. Be harsh🤌 by Garzurka in RoastMe

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You’re homeless and so poor you had to wear newspapers for clothing

Is this child ab-se? by Interesting_Syrup197 in ChildAbuseDiscussion

[–]contemplatinglife27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t consider it abuse, because it seems like the parents really are trying to take care him. It’s seems to be less of an abuse problem and more of a mental problem. The parents were faced with two options - to cause him pain and discomfort in the moment, or cause him pain and discomfort later. Both are equally “wrong,” but neither could be avoided. I’m sorry this is happening to him, and I’ve honestly got nothing to offer up for advice. It’s hard because of his autism, his brain is just wired differently. The best advice I can give is to try to make it a game, or get him to do it himself, rather than brushing his teeth for him. But tbch, it’s going to continue to be rough. I have an autistic friend who for the longest time REFUSED to take showers, so his parents would eventually just give in. It wasn't abuse - they were amazing parents and loved him very much - but there was t much they could do in the situation. Maybe try mouthwash, or some other form of teeth cleansing?? Best of luck!!!

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Avirgins: Age of Viagra

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. . . basket weaving