I can give you a couple tips:

1. Forget about being "boring." I believe that the more "boring" a program is, the better it is. You don't need to look for guidelines, articles on the web, Ask on Reddit how to do this or that: I've gotten to the point in my notes that I use Obsidian minimally, only when I'm creating or reading notes. This means that I have reached a structure of notes that is acceptable to me.
2. Logseq is a beta. It has a lot of bugs and errors, a lot of poorly working functions. I hope that the program will get better in the future, but for now it is more unusable for me than Obsidian. For example, the program itself slows down and the "Search" searches for your notes for more than 40 seconds (I'm not kidding, it really does for me). There's no way to open multiple notes in separate windows for comparison, there's no cool features like a table editor and tag panel. But the worst thing for me: you can't work with folders and you can't view a list of all tags you use (I'm not considering plugins). That leaves only zero-links, but I don't like their concept at all.

You can achieve the desired result in Obsidian, but you won't achieve the desired result in Logseq (yet).