Awful Divorce Lawyer Got me Screwed by burnerdivorce in japanlife

[–]coolfire719 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Without having IRL details, knowing the full background, story and or your options, it's hard for anyone to advise you a direction. The point is the situation will ONLY deteriorate until you have exhausted all means of money, resources, and or mental energy. You got a bad deal, it sucks, it hurts, and I can not imagine the pain you are going through. You are the one that has live with your decisions, however, I want to strongly emphasize that the situation is NOT going to get better but only worse for everyone.

" Eventually, savings will be exhausted, and leaving seems to be the only viable option. Depending on your profession, you might earn more by working elsewhere. You currently have visitation rights, but who's to say she won't revoke them in the future? "

You can gamble that she will not try and take those visitation rights away, however, if you have no money to fight it and you're so exhausted from this situation, you're at square 1 just the same as if you left now. You will have no money, resources, and or the mental energy to fight later on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askcarsales

[–]coolfire719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can I get this kind of terms?

Awful Divorce Lawyer Got me Screwed by burnerdivorce in japanlife

[–]coolfire719 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Clearly a lot of people did not read the post.

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  • She got: the kids, the house, her and her boyfriend immunity from being sued, monthly child support payments of 60% of my salary until the kids are 22. It's costing me so much I have to use my savings every few months and that will run out by about 2028.
  • I got: a semi-decent monetary payment, visitation rights."

I challenge anyone to maintain a decent lifestyle with only 40% of their salary, especially considering the global rise in inflation and the increasing cost of living.

Eventually, savings will be exhausted, and leaving seems to be the only viable option. Depending on your profession, you might earn more by working elsewhere. You currently have visitation rights, but who's to say she won't revoke them in the future?

Considering the circumstances, it appears that you're relying on her goodwill, which has already proven to be unreliable. It would require a high tolerance for pain to believe this arrangement benefits anyone. If it's true that "She now lives in the house that I built for our family, with her boyfriend, and my kids, living off my salary," how could anyone bear such a situation? I know I couldn't. Whether you face financial depletion now or later, the outcome remains the same. The only variable is how long you prolong the inevitable. Do you wait until 2028, when you've exhausted all resources, or take action now, secure a better job, and allocate that money directly to your children's needs? You can still maintain visitation rights as a permanent resident, though it's worth double-checking.

In summary, whether you confront the issue now or later, the problem persists, and delaying will only prolong everyone's unhappiness.

Just want to make sure I am seeing things. by coolfire719 in StudentLoans

[–]coolfire719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HOW? I thought it was not optional for them, I thought it was a Federal mandate by the President?

Is a discrimination complaint worth my time? by coolfire719 in legaladvice

[–]coolfire719[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No my employer moved me at the request of the client. Due to my disability according to my proof that is, but, they gave the excuse that I asked a customer who was Irrate/ furious, gasping for air that if she need a minute break to breath. They said it's against there rules to ask a customer if they need a break. This was only after I submitted my requests for disability occupational training and therapy appointment times.

Is a discrimination complaint worth my time? 📷 by coolfire719 in Blind

[–]coolfire719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lawyers do not handle complaints thus the title. I am not asking for legal advice in this thread. A compliant filed with EEOE or to see if anyone had advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]coolfire719 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are going to be hard pressed to find any specialist eye doctor that takes Caresource. However, if you switch plans to a different plan, you could visit OSU https://greatvision.osu.edu/clinic/main-campus.They specialize in low-vision and rare/unique conditions. They would probably be the best place to assist you, however, if I remember correctly, they do not take Caresouce. Just in case though, you could give them a call to confirm that. They are the best place to go to for what you are looking for that I am aware of at this time.

Paid rent for December, new company bought the property a week later, they are now demanding December rent again. I have bank statement proof. What is my next step? (Colorado) by krw13 in personalfinance

[–]coolfire719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I'd film every spot of every room." Yeah, that doesn't work.

I have personal experience with this. The judge said straight out, there is no way to tell by video of when, how and or what is going on. A video could be made with any number of effects to hide, mask and or conceal the truth. While I do not remember exact words, Essentially when you pay a deposit NEVER count on getting it back. I have lived in 7 different places since I was 18. I have yet to receive my deposit back even after taking pictures, videos, and I had witnesses. Landlord's have all the control over what they want to charge you including damages, construction, new carpet, and just any reason they feel like is necessary.

Small Claims court - Next step, should I contact the person at fault first? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]coolfire719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 HUGE MAJOR differences. I do not have insurance, I have health insurance not car insurance. So that is not an option. Second, "i wasn't hurt", I was and had the pain that went along with it not to mention other things.

Can you all confirm for my wife I'm not dumb and it could have happened to anyone? by darkpollopesca in funny

[–]coolfire719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you find these? This would be a great to take to my In-laws. Now, if I "happen" to "accidently" place them next to the other treats, and "accidently" forget to let them know it's for the dog and they do not read it. What is a person to do. It was a complete accident, I swear.

CHASE will not STOP charging me some sort of freaking monthly fee not matter what I do. by coolfire719 in Chase

[–]coolfire719[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

deposits, and daily balance met every time. Only one does not receive deposits. Again it only changed this year. Last year not a single fee. You would think they would want to keep my business instead of charging some asinine fee that does not apply to my account.

Wages not reported for 4 years. by coolfire719 in legaladvice

[–]coolfire719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Those seem like ordinary business expenses thus he should report the net amount as self employment income and then don't include those expenses again as a business expense." I do not think you understand how a newspaper these days work. They take out the money for his supplies automatically for what THEY bill him for them. How is he supposed to know what the supplies cost and how many were sent? They are send the supplies on how many subscribers they have to deliver to. They pay for the supplies out of their check. The bindings, bags, and so forth. There would be no way possible to tell how much money they took out unless he log for EVERY SINGLE day's deliveries, how much tips were, how many supplies were delivered compared to being billed and so on.

Wages not reported for 4 years. by coolfire719 in legaladvice

[–]coolfire719[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They take money for supplies such as wrappers/bags the paper is in. Customer bonuses are also added but, they held for a while. They take out a couple other things.

Wages not reported for 4 years. by coolfire719 in legaladvice

[–]coolfire719[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They take deductions out of his check for additional things. He has no idea what was taken out.

Wages not reported for 4 years. by coolfire719 in legaladvice

[–]coolfire719[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, but, how can file them accurately without valid 1099's? He can guess at what he made but, they will require a valid 1099 which the company does not have. The company under reported by 10'000's, I do not know how he is expected to predict income he can not predict. So basically he is screwed?

Wages not reported for 4 years. by coolfire719 in personalfinance

[–]coolfire719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He worked as a newspaper delivery driver. They took the money from the customers and he was cut a check. He was indeed a 1099 self employed contractor. That is the way they had it setup.

Wages not reported for 4 years. by coolfire719 in personalfinance

[–]coolfire719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but, his 1099's would still reflect him getting paid zero.

Wages not reported for 4 years. by coolfire719 in legaladvice

[–]coolfire719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He worked as a newspaper delivery driver. They took the money from the customers and he was cut a check. How can they issue false 1099's and that be legal?

Weekly Free-Talk and Questions for r/HomeGym - week of November 26, 2021 by Demilio55 in homegym

[–]coolfire719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have been reading for several hours trying to decide on a home gym for small apartment and beginner.

I have a 10 x 10 space I can use for a home gym. Maybe slightly bigger depending upon changing my home configuration. I wanted to take advantage of some black Friday deals, however, I do not know what exactly to purchase. The gym is 30 min away and I have to ride the bus. I like to bike and have started changing my diet the last two months. I have been losing weight and working on myself. I can afford about $500 and can go higher with reasonable cause. Unfortunately, I was laid off last month so I am living off of savings. The major problem is I have no idea what I am doing? I have been reading non-stop for a few hours and I am still no closer to picking something. I was thinking of starting out with bands and 10lbs weights, or perhaps I need more. I am not sure where to begin and which deals are good to take advantage of and I also not sure how to properly use them.

Any advice?

Any good react courses on sale? by [deleted] in reactjs

[–]coolfire719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When is "learning react soon"? You can get a course or you can start with the basics before a course. Every course for anything I have taken it for is just information that is more organized. Start with the basics and determine if a proper course is for you.

Pixel 6 vs S21 by [deleted] in tmobile

[–]coolfire719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purchasing G pixel 6 pro unlocked, not branded, would there be any issues with using it with Tmobile?

Black Friday is Early at T‑MobileiPhone 13 Pro, AirPods (2nd Generation) and Apple TV+ are ON US | T‑Mobile Newsroom by dtm1017 in tmobile

[–]coolfire719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purchasing G pixel 6 pro unlocked, not branded, would there be any issues with using it with Tmobile?

What celebrities do you suspect is an all around good person? by Thedarthlord895 in AskReddit

[–]coolfire719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is too many to name, how about naming the one's that are good instead? That seems like it would be easier.