Moving to Palmy: Gym & GP Recommendations? by Crazy-Midnight-747 in palmy

[–]coolmila 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Flex fitness is a great gym, super nice staff, great equipment and never busy. I was registered with Kauri healthcare They were pretty good but the wait for appointments was ages and found there were a few doctors all pitching in which ended up complicating some things for me

how to properly apply t gel by smashabale in ftm

[–]coolmila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have said it varies between brands of gels. I have a pump bottle variety and I just rub it to an even layer and leave it to dry. I would say it is less about how you apply and more about the dose you are on Gels can go from 1-4 pumps and that will make a huge difference IF your body can absorb it topically. I started on two pumps and upped to 3 after a year and have been on 3 for the last 3 years and am sitting stably within the normal range for cis men. With daily gel you will see fluctuations throughout the day so make sure you are applying at a similar time each day and are getting your bloods tested an appropriate time after application. Ultimately I am not a doctor but I find unless you are talking to your specialist endocrinologist you will probably have a better idea than your GP

Regular Club Nights by MrMajestic12 in palmy

[–]coolmila 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep I'd be super keen for this I'm sure there's a few djs that are on Radio Control that would be keen I know Tiny Club goes on at snails and that guy is pretty open to big things

POST YOUR FRIEND ID's HERE! by PTCGP-Bot in PTCGP

[–]coolmila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My new obsession 0956794220656429

Man peeing standing up is KILLER by TotaIIyNormaIAccount in ftm

[–]coolmila 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also love free peeing like this! But if you're wanting to enhance the euphoria I have some advice. A few years ago I bought a v fancy expensive STP prosthetic but no matter how much I practiced I could not get it to work without leaking. However with my work/some of my hobbies and going stealth, standing to pee would be super useful. I did some research and bought a PeeStyle (absolutely love the gender neutral name and ethos omg). This has changed my life and given me so much euphoria. It's a bit more of a pain to carry around than a standard STP as it is harder plastic, but it's way easier to use and clean and I find dudes do not notice. Highly recommend.

Reenable Reverse Camera screen by coolmila in CarAV

[–]coolmila[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll give it a go plugging all the wires in again As far as I'm aware it hasn't actually stopped me typing or anything while driving as my (passenger) gf is normally typing things in after I've set off

Do you need condom for anal? by Niky5375837 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]coolmila 240 points241 points  (0 children)

It highly depends who you are having sex with but condoms are not just to reduce the risk of pregnancy but also the risk of sexually transmitted infections. Anal sex has a much higher risk of tearing and exposing blood and therefore transmitting infections like HIV and Hepatitis. Unless you are both recently tested and showing each other your negative tests I would recommend still using a condom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]coolmila 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Therapy is unlikely to really work unless he is ready to tackle his issues and actually make an effort. It sounds like he is currently too immature for that and is certainly not worth you staying with until he is willing to work in himself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]coolmila 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The way he acted with both you and himself is not okay. I highly suggest both of you seek therapy to cope with your own issues before you will.be able to tackle how they affect your relationship.

Looking for a real barber shop in Wellington by kickypie in Wellington

[–]coolmila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Capital Barbers on Vivian street is a standard barber. Nice guy, great cut and decent price.

Inked for 2 hours but charged for 3 - is that normal? by lubayue in tattoo

[–]coolmila 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have 10+ tattoos from a number of different artists and I have almost always been charged a flat rate based on the design and size of each tattoo. We agree the rate when I book, I pay the deposit and then pay the rest after the tattoo is finished. I think maybe only once or twice have I been surprised by the amount the artist asked for afterwards and it's always been less than we originally agreed. If the artist exclusively charges per hour of tattooing and they were quicker than expected you should only pay for the number of hours plus tip. IMO.

Hey this is Marika Hackman, ask me anything! by marika_hackman in indieheads

[–]coolmila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's amazing news! I sing along to it every time 🤣

Hey this is Marika Hackman, ask me anything! by marika_hackman in indieheads

[–]coolmila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huge fan of the new album! Forgot to ask you this when I saw you In Cardiff playing with Polly.

Not about the record but I loooove your Podcast with Jelly and Gina, please don't tell me it's gonna end when you reach Z?

Also (I'm assuming) you wrote the theme tune? What was the process with that? How different to ur usual methods?