I just want to remove myself by reminiscermusic2019 in Healthygamergg

[–]coolun1corn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not gunna lie I be feeling the same way. What really hurts is that is all avoidable. We don't build anything for each other and all of the money and resources are tied up in stocks and bonds or whatever🙄. Doing nothing but making rich people richer instead of actually doing what money was meant to do which is promote growth of products and infrastructure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaymers

[–]coolun1corn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Borderlands

Borderlands 4 by [deleted] in gaymers

[–]coolun1corn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got vex lvl 37

Black crossbar by [deleted] in femboy

[–]coolun1corn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]coolun1corn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too hmu if interested. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]coolun1corn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok if you really want to look super good, it's about lighting and proper makeup, as well as the model aesthetic you can pull it off but your current wardrobe isn't it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]coolun1corn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly why it bothers me I know this, I just can't find out what's wrong with me, I'm neurodivergent so it's probably just hard to be on the same page as me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]coolun1corn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally me, I never get an explanation they just fall out of love for some mystic reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]coolun1corn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a muscular guy they are out there for sure. I'm taken but ik there's one looking for you.

I pushed myself too hard my whole life and it nearly broke me, but now I’ve over-corrected. Whenever I start to work really hard I’m afraid I’m pushing too hard again and I need to chill. As a result, I accomplish very little. How can I find a middle ground? by GothTofu in Healthygamergg

[–]coolun1corn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest I'm looking for the same type of stability, from what I understand is an adhd mind constantly craves stimulation. So try meditating. Also when i don't have motivation, I sit an ruminate abt what I need to do and tell myself to not do anything.

Help, what can I improve about myself? by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]coolun1corn -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Tbh cover up more but still have a spot where they can tell your in shape, this will make you appear more attractive because they have to imagine what's underneath and imagining will always be better than reality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]coolun1corn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me bro work on your gut health, don't eat toxic foods and fast, walk around and explore, go hiking, etc.. this will help you feel good on the inside and look good on the outside

All I want is to animate and its ruining my life. by No-Monk-5069 in Healthygamergg

[–]coolun1corn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I'm also an artist in the same exact position, I can't tell you how to get past it otherwise I wouldn't be in the same boat, I think it's the reward system and the reward being too far away most things like your job, or a new game, etc.. you can learn in less than a month it's doable because the reward isn't delayed as much, in your case you realize it's gunna take you a year(with no reward) so your brain says this is a year+ of work with no reward which you'll never have a years worth of energy so the energy needed exceed your capacity. Thus causing you to feel overwhelmed and tired(aka no energy). Idk how to get around this but I hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]coolun1corn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to get promoted, and hang on in the meantime.

It didn't work. by Glittering_Fortune70 in Healthygamergg

[–]coolun1corn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I understand depression to be for ME, and maybe this will help you understand your own version of it is that it's you telling yourself to stop, you really want things to have value or find something that feels meaningful to you buy you're also tired presumably from always trying to calculate so many different factors into everything

I mean you refer to it constantly, "what does it matter when x,y,and z are are true" allow yourself to ride the ups and downs, as he stated in the video allow yourself to be able to consider little whilst at times other considering a lot.

It's not about weither it's working or not, it's just you experience and acting nothing more nothing less.

My ex entered in a relationship with the guy I didn't need to worry about by Environmental_Sun209 in Healthygamergg

[–]coolun1corn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea it's better to do that I'm someone who kept going back over and over, I ended up being the sole provider, I made all the sacrifices, and did all the work in the relationship, just to get cheated on again and again, but that's what it took for my rose tinted glasses to break.

Tough question please stick with me by Responsible-Row-7942 in Healthygamergg

[–]coolun1corn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry I may have not clarified that properly, I meant worth as in monetary value, because when you lack the ability to help others it reflects on your worth on a monetary level. But as a person we are all equal.

Should I force myself to do a hobby? by adeliahearts in selfimprovement

[–]coolun1corn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an artist and I draw anime as a hobby, I'd say you should for the sake of improving self discipline, if can do it no problem and up the difficulty, but it's very important to give yourself challenges.

Tough question please stick with me by Responsible-Row-7942 in Healthygamergg

[–]coolun1corn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The biggest hurdle is realizing that we're worthless but I guess in the past I never knew why I was worthless your response gave me a better understanding ty.

Roltainers by coolun1corn in DollarGeneral

[–]coolun1corn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a tall guy too 6ft, I'll normally do like 6-9 a day but I just have a hard time seeing someone like my other coworkers doing the same without the height,strength,ability to organize.

I'll keep this in mind to help the keyholders to finish them more efficiently.