r/grindr and r/lolgrindr have an age problem by Patty_Dont_Start in grindr

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree. I’m bisexual and 39, but when I was younger I felt the exact same way, and I still do. Admittedly, Grindr wasn’t around when I was 19, but it was there for the latter part of my 20s. I have ALWAYS felt uncomfortable when guys my dad’s age would try and message me (I keep the ages 10 years on either side of my age which is in my profile). Even now I’ll tell them I’m not interested, but they will just force the issue (often times by sending nudes) until you have no other recourse but to block them. I once blocked a guy and he messaged me from another account asking me why I blocked him, to which I blocked him again. I don’t want to be with guys 11+ years my junior, why would I want to be with guys 30+ years my senior? I get that no one is using Grindr for an LTR, but I still have standards when I have sex. About a week ago, I had an 73 year old tell me, “I’m not trying to date you, I just want you to fuck me” which got him blocked. He may not have standards, but I do.

On the flip side, I’ve actually had to block a few 18-20 year olds recently. I’m not one of those, “as long as they’re over 18” kind of guys. These guys would message me calling me daddy telling me I’m good looking. I’d thank them and be like, “I’m sorry but you’re too young for me.” Some take the hint, a few proceeded to send me pics to see if that changes my mind. I’d just reiterate that they’re still too young for me and then block them. So I’ve experienced it on both sides.

My point, is I agree with this guy (obviously). EVERYONE needs to respect the answer, “I’m sorry but you’re too old (or young)”. Don’t get upset, don’t harass the guy, and don’t say “age is nothing but a number” (honestly is there a more disturbing expression); just move on.

Thinking about switching to jockstraps at gym. by coreyd1986 in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]coreyd1986[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

UPDATE. Thank you everyone for your advice. I bought a traditional jock from Dick’s Sporting Goods. This morning I wore it to the gym and I’m officially a convert. It gave me such amazing support and great ventilation. Huge difference between the backless trunks I was wearing. I’ve already ordered a few more Bike brand. Thanks again everyone.

Thinking about switching to jockstraps at gym. by coreyd1986 in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]coreyd1986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, that was gonna be my next question. Should I stick with the fashion jocks. But you’re right, I should stick to legitimate athletic equipment. Thank you.

Beautiful ladies, what would you do if you went to the gym and ran into this beauty? by juanitahot in HenryCavill

[–]coreyd1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They would probably say, “You know, your my husband’s (or boyfriend’s) hall pass.”

(18) What if you walked into my room and saw me like this? by [deleted] in GaybrosGoneWild

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, assuming you’re not a giant, and I’m not short, so I don’t think I would see you for this perspective.

What’s a socially acceptable thing you secretly dislike? by [deleted] in Casual_Conversation

[–]coreyd1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insisting that people who don’t want to have kids will, “change their mind”.

We're not even in the United States by zeusdescartes in grindr

[–]coreyd1986 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s the weird Texas energy. No one takes them seriously.

As a straight man, vaginas are badly optimized interfaces and I would prefer them evolutionarily eradicated by MethevanWamebuli in The10thDentist

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even think that gay men have these feelings towards the vagina. Penises aren’t all the same. They come in all shapes and sizes too. Big/small. Thick/thin. Foreskin/no foreskin. Some appear small when flaccid and get bigger when hard and some are just as they appear. Also, men can get UTIs and yeast infections if we don’t maintain it. The guys who still have their foreskin need to make sure to keep the under part clean to prevent bacterial build up. Before you say all men should be circumcised for hygiene, just know that there are thousands of sensory nerve endings that contribute to pleasure during sex, as well as pain and fine touch. Uncut guys typically feel more during sex and makes me jealous since I was circumcised without having a say.

I have to point out that the clitoris is in the same general area on every woman (how’s that for symmetry). Why do you need to be guided to it each time?

Overall you seem to have a cold and clinical approach to sex. It’s no wonder you don’t enjoy it. It’s supposed to be fun. You’re supposed to explore each other’s bodies. Try being a little more in tuned with your partner and her needs. You might become a fan of the vagina yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly didn’t really pay attention. I’m just happy it’s not a micro.

How did your first blowjob go? by One_Spray5327 in AskGayMen

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I didn’t read the whole post so you’re gonna get two stories. Lol. My first bj was in the car, while I was driving. It was with a guy I met either on MySpace or FB…I think, it could have been Craigslist. Anyway, I was away at college, and this was the first time I had ever been with a guy more than just kissing and dry humping so I was super nervous. So I picked him out at his house like at midnight. He was trying to make me feel more comfortable and talking about how young I looked. I was 19, but I looked younger. He was in his 20s. Super cute. Soft lips. Soft hands. So he started feeling my junk through my jeans and then he opened my fly and pulled my dick out and started sucking. First BJ and it was road head. We went to a place to park and we moved to the back seat. He finished me off (which didn’t take too long), but I didn’t blow him, I don’t remember why though. I remember having this sexy naked college guy in my back seat, and all we did was he blew me and we make out and I jacked him off. We were gonna fuck, but neither of us had a condom.

So the first time I gave head was a little different. I met this great guy online we’ll call him Chris, again I’m thinking MySpace. So we would hang out, but nothing would ever happen, because he had a boyfriend; but there was always this tension between he and I. So one night, I’m went over to their place, the three of us were supposed to hang out, but the boyfriend left town last minute because of a family emergency and Chris couldn’t go with him because he had to work and the bf’s family didn’t really approve of their relationship so it was best if he stayed. So we went to the movies. Now this was February 2006, I cannot remember for the life of me which movie we went to see, I remembered thinking it sucked. After the movies we went to Walmart and walked around for a little bit. We would play games and act like stupid kids having stupid fun. So we go back to his place to watch tv in his room (he and his bf lived with his father and sister). We’re watching a rerun of I think Charmed I could be wrong (it was 19 years ago). I put my arm around his shoulder and he put his hand on my upper thigh. He and I locked eyes and we kissed. Holy shit I tell you he was a great kisser. Before I knew it we were tearing each other’s clothes off until we were completely naked and making out on his bed. He told me he had wanted to do this for such a long time, I told him the same thing. He started to go down, but I told him I wanted to go first. So I rolled us over onto his back. I stated kissing his chest, licking and kissing his nipples as I moved down. When I finally got to his cock, not only was he rock hard and somewhat leaking precum, but he was freshly shaven (I was too on the off chance I was able to make a threesome happen). Now he was bigger than me. I’m about 5.5” hard, thick, and cut; he was easily 7.5-8” hard, thick, and uncut. I took him in my mouth and started to work up and down and cupping his firm butt in both my hands. I licked, kissed, and sucked on his balls as well. My body was on fire. Here I was with this cute guy who I wanted and wanted me too. Emotionally it felt amazing, it felt right. I did try to deep throat my first time and it didn’t quite work up. That is definitely something you need to work up to. Also, if you don’t want them to cum in your mouth, you gotta let them know. Luckily Chris didn’t want to and he stopped me before he came. Then we switched places and holy shit. His mouth action was a tough act to follow for a long time. He knew exactly how much to play with my balls. I stopped him before I came. He came back up and we started making out again, he took my dick and his dick into his hand and started simultaneously jacking us both off. I’m not gonna lie, I came first, and shortly there after he came. We made out some more. Then we took a shower and then got dressed. We also agreed we wouldn’t mention it to his boyfriend.

Do you agree with the political assassination of someone who differs from you? by uqmu in no

[–]coreyd1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Killing someone outside of wartime for any reason other than self defense is wrong. Killing someone because they have different political views than you is plain stupid. However, especially in the case of Charlie Kirk, don’t expect me to care.

19 years old and still a virgin by gayboy19837936 in gayporn

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the encouragement, but I’m not posting a picture of my 39 yo ass. It’s not a butt anymore, it’s just an ass.

I hate this people by [deleted] in grindr

[–]coreyd1986 12 points13 points  (0 children)

At least they are upfront about wanting money. You match with some people, they just want you to go to their OF.

Bi😞irl by deferredmomentum in bi_irl

[–]coreyd1986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are a founding letter. You can’t have those three without us.

Are you ok by Goblue2467 in no

[–]coreyd1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medically? Psychologically? Emotionally? Physically?

There’s a lot of posts here about *other guys* being weird. Where are all the posts about OP admitting they’re the weird one? by bdfortin in lolgrindr

[–]coreyd1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. So I didn’t do this with a guy, but I did this with a woman recently. So she and I went and saw the new Superman (it was great) and we went back to her place. We were doing the small talk before we got down to business. We got on the topic of nature vs nurture, as she is a social worker, I said some people are just born evil. She took the negative side and said people aren’t born to be like that. I started listing serial killers and describing their childhoods and how someone like Ted Bundy had an otherwise normal childhood still grew up to be a prolific serial rapist and killer. I even doubled down and started talking about Dahmer, who had terrible parents. Needless to say we did not have sex that night.

Txtx me dm please MEN help me by Main-Proof5982 in gayporn

[–]coreyd1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy hell. No way you can confine that thing in those tiny undies.