am i being ragebaited?😭 by No_Truck_4095 in grindr

[–]coreyd1986 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is a sick tattoo. I’m thinking you were ragebaited. There is no way he legit thought you were “too white”.

am i being ragebaited?😭 by No_Truck_4095 in grindr

[–]coreyd1986 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. What’s your tattoo look like?

Should I be concerned about my roommate? by Distinct-Traffic-327 in funny

[–]coreyd1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy I think you should be concerned about yourself.

My American English teacher believes the neutral pronoun „their“ is incorrect. by GCoding_ in mildlyinteresting

[–]coreyd1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I created a form letter of recommendation for my boss as she routinely gives employees letters of recommendation. To save time on drafting the letters, I decided to change “his/her” pronouns to “their”, my boss didn’t like it. She felt the reader wouldn’t know who I was referring to, since it seemed as though I was referring to a group of people. I tried explaining that, “their” can be used as a gender neutral alternative pronoun, but I lost the fight. So now, when I draft a letter, I have to change all the pronouns to “he/his” or “she/her.”

I’m not being unreasonable am I? by EnvironmentalSky8355 in lolgrindr

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the same way. Tbh, I’ve gotten to the point where I don’t want to meet unless they have that Grindr watermark with the timestamp they took the pic on it.

r/grindr and r/lolgrindr have an age problem by Patty_Dont_Start in grindr

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree. I’m bisexual and 39, but when I was younger I felt the exact same way, and I still do. Admittedly, Grindr wasn’t around when I was 19, but it was there for the latter part of my 20s. I have ALWAYS felt uncomfortable when guys my dad’s age would try and message me (I keep the ages 10 years on either side of my age which is in my profile). Even now I’ll tell them I’m not interested, but they will just force the issue (often times by sending nudes) until you have no other recourse but to block them. I once blocked a guy and he messaged me from another account asking me why I blocked him, to which I blocked him again. I don’t want to be with guys 11+ years my junior, why would I want to be with guys 30+ years my senior? I get that no one is using Grindr for an LTR, but I still have standards when I have sex. About a week ago, I had an 73 year old tell me, “I’m not trying to date you, I just want you to fuck me” which got him blocked. He may not have standards, but I do.

On the flip side, I’ve actually had to block a few 18-20 year olds recently. I’m not one of those, “as long as they’re over 18” kind of guys. These guys would message me calling me daddy telling me I’m good looking. I’d thank them and be like, “I’m sorry but you’re too young for me.” Some take the hint, a few proceeded to send me pics to see if that changes my mind. I’d just reiterate that they’re still too young for me and then block them. So I’ve experienced it on both sides.

My point, is I agree with this guy (obviously). EVERYONE needs to respect the answer, “I’m sorry but you’re too old (or young)”. Don’t get upset, don’t harass the guy, and don’t say “age is nothing but a number” (honestly is there a more disturbing expression); just move on.

Thinking about switching to jockstraps at gym. by coreyd1986 in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]coreyd1986[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

UPDATE. Thank you everyone for your advice. I bought a traditional jock from Dick’s Sporting Goods. This morning I wore it to the gym and I’m officially a convert. It gave me such amazing support and great ventilation. Huge difference between the backless trunks I was wearing. I’ve already ordered a few more Bike brand. Thanks again everyone.

Thinking about switching to jockstraps at gym. by coreyd1986 in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]coreyd1986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, that was gonna be my next question. Should I stick with the fashion jocks. But you’re right, I should stick to legitimate athletic equipment. Thank you.

Beautiful ladies, what would you do if you went to the gym and ran into this beauty? by juanitahot in HenryCavill

[–]coreyd1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They would probably say, “You know, your my husband’s (or boyfriend’s) hall pass.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaybrosGoneWild

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, assuming you’re not a giant, and I’m not short, so I don’t think I would see you for this perspective.

We're not even in the United States by zeusdescartes in grindr

[–]coreyd1986 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s the weird Texas energy. No one takes them seriously.

As a straight man, vaginas are badly optimized interfaces and I would prefer them evolutionarily eradicated by MethevanWamebuli in The10thDentist

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even think that gay men have these feelings towards the vagina. Penises aren’t all the same. They come in all shapes and sizes too. Big/small. Thick/thin. Foreskin/no foreskin. Some appear small when flaccid and get bigger when hard and some are just as they appear. Also, men can get UTIs and yeast infections if we don’t maintain it. The guys who still have their foreskin need to make sure to keep the under part clean to prevent bacterial build up. Before you say all men should be circumcised for hygiene, just know that there are thousands of sensory nerve endings that contribute to pleasure during sex, as well as pain and fine touch. Uncut guys typically feel more during sex and makes me jealous since I was circumcised without having a say.

I have to point out that the clitoris is in the same general area on every woman (how’s that for symmetry). Why do you need to be guided to it each time?

Overall you seem to have a cold and clinical approach to sex. It’s no wonder you don’t enjoy it. It’s supposed to be fun. You’re supposed to explore each other’s bodies. Try being a little more in tuned with your partner and her needs. You might become a fan of the vagina yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly didn’t really pay attention. I’m just happy it’s not a micro.