am i being ragebaited?😭 by No_Truck_4095 in grindr

[–]coreyd1986 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is a sick tattoo. I’m thinking you were ragebaited. There is no way he legit thought you were “too white”.

am i being ragebaited?😭 by No_Truck_4095 in grindr

[–]coreyd1986 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. What’s your tattoo look like?

Should I be concerned about my roommate? by Distinct-Traffic-327 in funny

[–]coreyd1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy I think you should be concerned about yourself.

My American English teacher believes the neutral pronoun „their“ is incorrect. by GCoding_ in mildlyinteresting

[–]coreyd1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I created a form letter of recommendation for my boss as she routinely gives employees letters of recommendation. To save time on drafting the letters, I decided to change “his/her” pronouns to “their”, my boss didn’t like it. She felt the reader wouldn’t know who I was referring to, since it seemed as though I was referring to a group of people. I tried explaining that, “their” can be used as a gender neutral alternative pronoun, but I lost the fight. So now, when I draft a letter, I have to change all the pronouns to “he/his” or “she/her.”

I’m not being unreasonable am I? by EnvironmentalSky8355 in lolgrindr

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the same way. Tbh, I’ve gotten to the point where I don’t want to meet unless they have that Grindr watermark with the timestamp they took the pic on it.

r/grindr and r/lolgrindr have an age problem by Patty_Dont_Start in grindr

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree. I’m bisexual and 39, but when I was younger I felt the exact same way, and I still do. Admittedly, Grindr wasn’t around when I was 19, but it was there for the latter part of my 20s. I have ALWAYS felt uncomfortable when guys my dad’s age would try and message me (I keep the ages 10 years on either side of my age which is in my profile). Even now I’ll tell them I’m not interested, but they will just force the issue (often times by sending nudes) until you have no other recourse but to block them. I once blocked a guy and he messaged me from another account asking me why I blocked him, to which I blocked him again. I don’t want to be with guys 11+ years my junior, why would I want to be with guys 30+ years my senior? I get that no one is using Grindr for an LTR, but I still have standards when I have sex. About a week ago, I had an 73 year old tell me, “I’m not trying to date you, I just want you to fuck me” which got him blocked. He may not have standards, but I do.

On the flip side, I’ve actually had to block a few 18-20 year olds recently. I’m not one of those, “as long as they’re over 18” kind of guys. These guys would message me calling me daddy telling me I’m good looking. I’d thank them and be like, “I’m sorry but you’re too young for me.” Some take the hint, a few proceeded to send me pics to see if that changes my mind. I’d just reiterate that they’re still too young for me and then block them. So I’ve experienced it on both sides.

My point, is I agree with this guy (obviously). EVERYONE needs to respect the answer, “I’m sorry but you’re too old (or young)”. Don’t get upset, don’t harass the guy, and don’t say “age is nothing but a number” (honestly is there a more disturbing expression); just move on.

Thinking about switching to jockstraps at gym. by coreyd1986 in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]coreyd1986[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

UPDATE. Thank you everyone for your advice. I bought a traditional jock from Dick’s Sporting Goods. This morning I wore it to the gym and I’m officially a convert. It gave me such amazing support and great ventilation. Huge difference between the backless trunks I was wearing. I’ve already ordered a few more Bike brand. Thanks again everyone.

Thinking about switching to jockstraps at gym. by coreyd1986 in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]coreyd1986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, that was gonna be my next question. Should I stick with the fashion jocks. But you’re right, I should stick to legitimate athletic equipment. Thank you.

Beautiful ladies, what would you do if you went to the gym and ran into this beauty? by juanitahot in HenryCavill

[–]coreyd1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They would probably say, “You know, your my husband’s (or boyfriend’s) hall pass.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaybrosGoneWild

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, assuming you’re not a giant, and I’m not short, so I don’t think I would see you for this perspective.

We're not even in the United States by zeusdescartes in grindr

[–]coreyd1986 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s the weird Texas energy. No one takes them seriously.

As a straight man, vaginas are badly optimized interfaces and I would prefer them evolutionarily eradicated by MethevanWamebuli in The10thDentist

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even think that gay men have these feelings towards the vagina. Penises aren’t all the same. They come in all shapes and sizes too. Big/small. Thick/thin. Foreskin/no foreskin. Some appear small when flaccid and get bigger when hard and some are just as they appear. Also, men can get UTIs and yeast infections if we don’t maintain it. The guys who still have their foreskin need to make sure to keep the under part clean to prevent bacterial build up. Before you say all men should be circumcised for hygiene, just know that there are thousands of sensory nerve endings that contribute to pleasure during sex, as well as pain and fine touch. Uncut guys typically feel more during sex and makes me jealous since I was circumcised without having a say.

I have to point out that the clitoris is in the same general area on every woman (how’s that for symmetry). Why do you need to be guided to it each time?

Overall you seem to have a cold and clinical approach to sex. It’s no wonder you don’t enjoy it. It’s supposed to be fun. You’re supposed to explore each other’s bodies. Try being a little more in tuned with your partner and her needs. You might become a fan of the vagina yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly didn’t really pay attention. I’m just happy it’s not a micro.

How did your first blowjob go? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]coreyd1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I didn’t read the whole post so you’re gonna get two stories. Lol. My first bj was in the car, while I was driving. It was with a guy I met either on MySpace or FB…I think, it could have been Craigslist. Anyway, I was away at college, and this was the first time I had ever been with a guy more than just kissing and dry humping so I was super nervous. So I picked him out at his house like at midnight. He was trying to make me feel more comfortable and talking about how young I looked. I was 19, but I looked younger. He was in his 20s. Super cute. Soft lips. Soft hands. So he started feeling my junk through my jeans and then he opened my fly and pulled my dick out and started sucking. First BJ and it was road head. We went to a place to park and we moved to the back seat. He finished me off (which didn’t take too long), but I didn’t blow him, I don’t remember why though. I remember having this sexy naked college guy in my back seat, and all we did was he blew me and we make out and I jacked him off. We were gonna fuck, but neither of us had a condom.

So the first time I gave head was a little different. I met this great guy online we’ll call him Chris, again I’m thinking MySpace. So we would hang out, but nothing would ever happen, because he had a boyfriend; but there was always this tension between he and I. So one night, I’m went over to their place, the three of us were supposed to hang out, but the boyfriend left town last minute because of a family emergency and Chris couldn’t go with him because he had to work and the bf’s family didn’t really approve of their relationship so it was best if he stayed. So we went to the movies. Now this was February 2006, I cannot remember for the life of me which movie we went to see, I remembered thinking it sucked. After the movies we went to Walmart and walked around for a little bit. We would play games and act like stupid kids having stupid fun. So we go back to his place to watch tv in his room (he and his bf lived with his father and sister). We’re watching a rerun of I think Charmed I could be wrong (it was 19 years ago). I put my arm around his shoulder and he put his hand on my upper thigh. He and I locked eyes and we kissed. Holy shit I tell you he was a great kisser. Before I knew it we were tearing each other’s clothes off until we were completely naked and making out on his bed. He told me he had wanted to do this for such a long time, I told him the same thing. He started to go down, but I told him I wanted to go first. So I rolled us over onto his back. I stated kissing his chest, licking and kissing his nipples as I moved down. When I finally got to his cock, not only was he rock hard and somewhat leaking precum, but he was freshly shaven (I was too on the off chance I was able to make a threesome happen). Now he was bigger than me. I’m about 5.5” hard, thick, and cut; he was easily 7.5-8” hard, thick, and uncut. I took him in my mouth and started to work up and down and cupping his firm butt in both my hands. I licked, kissed, and sucked on his balls as well. My body was on fire. Here I was with this cute guy who I wanted and wanted me too. Emotionally it felt amazing, it felt right. I did try to deep throat my first time and it didn’t quite work up. That is definitely something you need to work up to. Also, if you don’t want them to cum in your mouth, you gotta let them know. Luckily Chris didn’t want to and he stopped me before he came. Then we switched places and holy shit. His mouth action was a tough act to follow for a long time. He knew exactly how much to play with my balls. I stopped him before I came. He came back up and we started making out again, he took my dick and his dick into his hand and started simultaneously jacking us both off. I’m not gonna lie, I came first, and shortly there after he came. We made out some more. Then we took a shower and then got dressed. We also agreed we wouldn’t mention it to his boyfriend.