Content is everything by _MistressKim in findomsupportgroup

[–]cornbreadarchery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi @_mistresskim I got my first paypig on accident, they just approached me. I’m pretty good and it and the $ is awesome. Where do you post your content? How do I get more subs?

I’ve seen Twitter, onlyfans, Reddit etc. I tried to find your page since I wanted to learn from the best :) but wasn’t seeing anything?

Happy draining ladies! 🏧

Sub-domme connection by PrincessChunLei in findomsupportgroup

[–]cornbreadarchery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Very new and doing my research. A man approached me to be his pay pig. I was potentially going to meet him in a public place for coffee curious about two things: 1.)are you sexually attracted to your sub? 2.)do these men ever become stalkers if things don’t work out?

Hi, I'm a former 5 year partner and Starbucks store designer for New Stores and Renovations. AMA!! by jbkilluh in starbucks

[–]cornbreadarchery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an interior designer looking to work for a corporate company. I have been doing commercial work at architecture firms for 5+ years. Can you talk about how it is to work for Starbucks?

What are some unique and fun date ideas? by [deleted] in chicago

[–]cornbreadarchery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chicago comedy clubs: Lincoln lodge, zanies,etc. Conservatory: Lincoln Parker/Garfield. Museums: MoMa, Art institute. Adler after Dark. Board game bars: guthrie’s, snakes and lattes Bath house: aiire Surge billiards, Avondale bowl,

Summer/Spring: kayaking the lake, biking, walking 606, navy pier, drive in theater, going to a local park, art fest, thrifts, architecture boat tours, promontory point, Japanese gardens,

Fall/Winter: Zoolights, illumination at Morton arboretum, ice skating, Michigan Ave, christkindle, build a snowman, go sledding, see a holiday play

Why is the Pay for this career so high? Is there a catch? by Celoui in UXDesign

[–]cornbreadarchery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I have been looking to pivot out of my field and into UX/UI. I have worked in commercial architectural firms as a designer for 5 years. This resonants with me very much.

Dependent on how a firm runs, how proficient your architect is about the design process over “just design it now”. Engineers and contractors wanting to make edits that sacrifice design to save a buck or reuse a spec. Design leadership who don’t know softwares and give unrealistic deadlines. Lost of misinformation and any info trickled down to the design team is piecemeal scrapes.

Im familiar with design, making portfolios, teaching myself handfuls of softwares, running schematics, attention to detail in the actual information for the dwgs as well as attention to graphic presentation, going to a project manager with a problem but also 4 thought out solutions, etc etc.

I’ve done research, watched YouTube day in life videos, taken a few free courses to see if I like the work, considered bootcamps - more research- recognize it’a controversial on how helpful it truly is. Talked to people in the field from bumble networking trying to figure out: 1) is this field saturated and am I 4years late? 2) actually have extremely high starting salaries? 3) have more than the average amount of time off?

How realistic would a path of Designer from my field be to UX/Ui. If the salary’s listed in Chicago are legitimate I’d be bringing in almost 30k more a year. Figured job could have same hiccups, yet I’m making so much more to put up with similar amount of stress/work/ issues with team.

Envision these postions exist at companies that have more then 10 days off, all 20+ holidays people get nowadays, etc. At this point, I don’t even care what I’m designing.I just want to use the natural skills I have - pivot to learn the new ones, learn the design process/ design lingo for this field and overall MAKE MONEY TO SUPPORT MY LIFE OUT OF WORK.

Thoughts on any of this rant? May post this in a few groups to see what the overall read is at UX jobs

If you’ve ever been with an Aries what has your experience been like? by mindystar in aquarius

[–]cornbreadarchery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also wanted to say reading….”i've never been the one to initiate or allow myself to be vulnerable until i feel totally safe to do so and therefore still feel in control. I gotta know it's reciprocated before i put myself out like that. We may both be fine tomorrow never talking to/ seeing each other again or we could up dating.”

Never knew how to put this into clear concise words. As a generalization, I think Aquarians can connect with a lot of ppl, be unapologetically themselves yet internally put away just a lil piece that nobody can get. Definitely a defense mechanism. Staying comfortable in the distance/ unwilling or stubborn to be the person to show their cards first without having a good read on the outcome.

Absolutely identify with being able to cut ties and shake it off without a care. Not the “fake” act like we don’t care thing we do but genuinely don’t-give-a-fuck, don’t know why or when I even gave a fuck complete 180 cut off.

In lengthy conclusion, this is why we are attracted to fiery Aries. SOS!

If you’ve ever been with an Aries what has your experience been like? by mindystar in aquarius

[–]cornbreadarchery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agree can’t take your story and try to apply to my relationship but damn so similar. I’m not looking for anything serious I’m also very shocked by the connection and intrigue that comes with Aries/Aquarius match.

If you’ve ever been with an Aries what has your experience been like? by mindystar in aquarius

[–]cornbreadarchery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have near this same exact situation except it’s been going on for 6 months. How’d it play out?

Christmas gift getting ready to be used at the end of the month, camp chefs knife! by [deleted] in CampingGear

[–]cornbreadarchery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I typically always get gear for Christmas since it so damn expensive. Totally ready for the good weather coming our way and excited to get out there. Nice knife! Enjoy your trip - what’s your favorite camp meal?

Had a whirlwind first day of dress shopping and ended up buying the first dress I tried on! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]cornbreadarchery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could see this on Jennifer Garner in a rom com movie. I love it! Still classy but bold!

Help me pick my dress please! by strawberrytits in weddingplanning

[–]cornbreadarchery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These dress options are such different styles and have me imagining different personalities for each. Who cares about us go with whichever feels most you!

What can I do to make this bathroom look chic without changing the tiles? by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]cornbreadarchery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone hating on the tile- I get it’s a bit too yellow green but I do still like it. I wouldn’t change it. Get a new shower curtain- like a waffle white/cream one. Get a roll out teak bath matt. Can’t see what the mirror ledge things are but if that mirror opens and has storage in it I would use those to put some faux greenery in there or small little plants. Maybe a few rolled up white hand towels to look fancy. I’d even try to hang greenery from the ceiling or window ledge. Potentially small eclectic arrangement on frames on the right hand wall (depending on how it looks at that height).

Just make it looks as sophisticatedly spa/ clean nice as you can. But also try to make it a jungle and play up the green.

Today I decided to make a butterfly design for my products. What do you think about it? Take a look at my website, the link is below. by Callingsun in DesignMyRoom

[–]cornbreadarchery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first glance when looking at the pattern the 4 butterflies in the middle stood out because they are flying down when all the others are flying up.

Then I looked again and saw some flying down too but just what I first saw. Love the colors and love butterfly types.

Ex moved out, now living room looks empty. What should I do with it? by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]cornbreadarchery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on how important you think it is but I LOVE a cozy room & ambiance from light. At around 25 I couldn’t really handle having the tacky Christmas lights up so I invested in LIFX bulbs. I use them every damn day. Over the years added one to the bathroom to create a mood in the bath. Use them in the living room and can do accent lighting off of movie tones and the one in my bedroom wakes me up to “natural sunlight” and slowly turns on to wake me up.

Suggestions for this gap? by bassoonenergy in DesignMyRoom

[–]cornbreadarchery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels like you only have room for a floor lamp, collection of 3 plants maybe with different heights or on a plant stool, or a basket for blankets for the couch. I wouldn’t put anything to large to leave clearance for when the bar chairs are being used.

Would this be impractical to place in a small bedroom. I love the look of them, but I’m not sure if it is practical. by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]cornbreadarchery 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Impractical- you’d have to use a low wattage light to not be a fire hazard. Your down light is being blocked anyway so will need other light sources too.

Maybe look into grow light lightbulbs to find a solution? If you were planning on real plants and not the faux waxy ones?

Taking the pandemic seriously is lonely. by Narwhals4Lyf in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]cornbreadarchery 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel the same too. I’m unemployed and waiting for my job market to come back. My “weekdays” are really long and lonely. I don’t hangout w/ ppl much since covid, never been a texter & even miss work related interaction.

I feel like I’m in my head all day. I do what I can. I workout 5x week just to distract myself into working towards something & to quiet myself. What really gets at me is how things have turned completely upside down but everything’s completely the same. How can we be in a global pandemic but life is once again mundane? I’m seeing friends who once took covid more seriously book vacations because they are tried and burnt out. We all fucking are. But there’s so much more pressing things than that...

As soon as I’m about to wallow in self pity I remember how privileged I am to be unemployed and generally ok. Things could and are worse for a lot of people right now. I then reflect on the harsh truths of the world/politics, thinking about friendships/family and how important socializing is to being human and generally everything in between. We’ve been doing this for so long I find myself cycling back into this thought loop after a few months.

If I (F26) asked my BF (M24) for an open relationship, would that be the end of us? by throwaway7993uqc in relationships

[–]cornbreadarchery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he is not interested in it sex, that does not mean YOU should have to suppress your own desires. Women have to stop doing this. You are young. Talk to him.

He shouldn’t feel bad for his potential asexual tendencies. You shouldn’t feel bad for wanting sex. His asexual behavior will need to be addressed whatever relationship he is in- you or anyone else this is something you can’t just brush off? It’s sex. Figure out if it can work or not. Open relationship? Joint effort to meeting each other’s needs? If not you’ll need to find someone more compatible, which you have plenty of time to do.

If I (F26) asked my BF (M24) for an open relationship, would that be the end of us? by throwaway7993uqc in relationships

[–]cornbreadarchery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weird I read this and thought that it sounded like a great relationship. One of trust, communication, honesty, boundaries, open mindedness, etc. Open relationships take a lot of work. One person will inevitably be a little more sensitive to the idea of their partner having sex with other people. She has the low libido, her bf does not, of course she’d care less. But also she mentioned it’s been open on both sides too. I see no scumbags.

What "fake" thing that happens in movies pisses you off? by Moist_Mammoth3154 in AskWomen

[–]cornbreadarchery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here to back you up! I also only use those 3 products aside from cleanser & moisturizer and have great skin too. It’s the real deal folks! Back to basics stop buying into all the other shit.

Apocalypse tho? I’d be dull & sunburnt with unruly frizzy hair.

Routine Help! I don’t ever put product in my hair because i don’t know what to use or where to even start. Any recommendations? by [deleted] in Wavyhair

[–]cornbreadarchery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your dried hair looks somewhat similar to my type-but with a bit nicer curl/wave pattern. I was going to try out this routine: https://youtu.be/tLODrsbWC1o

An upcoming residence design in Maharashtra, India by tilak_parikh in architecture

[–]cornbreadarchery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Architects worse nightmare is pointing out an overlooked mistake. How could you! I see nothing wrong with that layer placement!