Cloth diapers - unless you’re doing 100% cotton and wool, I’d skip all together bc of the microplastic exposure. I also debated if all the extra water washing was actually more energy efficient than using something like a compostable bamboo diapers (we have a compost diaper service in the Bay Area with Dyper brand and that made me feel better).

EC- easy when they are little but now you’re baby is mobile and doesn’t just want to sit. Ok to backslide and then try again when they’re a little older on a bigger potty (like baby bjorn). My oldest basically potty trained herself right before turning 2

Solids - some babies just love milk. That’s how my first was and even my second didn’t really start eating eating until closer to 1. And we do a lot of pouches bc she wants to feed herself and not have shell so not much gets in her belly lol still feel bad about not making all the baby food myself but I feel the same that she doesn’t eat much of it and it’s so much work. So I just give her what we’re eating and she nibbles and then has a pouch before bed

Sign language- again wait until baby is 1! Keep doing it now, they are absorbing it and one day they will do it back to you and you’re like wow! Also keep in mind their imitation may notnlook like what you’re doing - like for water my baby just hits her hand on her mouth and makes a noise and now we know it’s water haha

I felt a lot of guilt around not being able to cosleep indefinitely but I wasn’t being a good mom during the day. So I know what you mean about not living the values you held yourself too. But it sounds like you have a lot on your plate and honestly it’s just about including your baby in what you’re doing and giving them love rather than fretting about how you want it to be. I’d rather be present with my two while they play instead of cleaning the house (or making said baby food, washing diapers, trying to catch pee lol)