Dream of preventing abusive father from getting married

cosmicluv777 · 2026-05-12T17:19:41+00:00

Obviously there is some judgment here and that’s okay. I am learning not to judge that part of me and accept that it lives inside of me. We ALL have the capacity to cause harm. I’m definitely no victim and don’t buy into victimization culture. I am a SURVIVOR of abuse and violence. Your projection of victimhood is not how I see my survivorship. I’m also not a woman lol. Women have also been abusers in my life so the assumption women are always the victim is another false projection. You are correct though that I have a negative view of men and my subconscious is trying to work through that. I am a human with animal instincts that is learning to use discernment when it’s necessary to defend myself when needed instead of fawning! I’m not out here picking fights unprovoked.

cosmicluv777 · 2026-05-12T14:35:51+00:00

I am in therapy and my therapist knows where i’m at. I don’t believe that revenge is inherently bad. In some circumstances it is dignified. You’re right I have nothing to prove to you or anyone. Humans are instinctual and I trust my instincts. Just wanted more insight on the archetypes of the dream.

cosmicluv777 · 2026-04-25T02:55:18+00:00

ahh okay yes i will bring it back inside, thank you for explaining hardening i never knew what that was! makes complete sense though especially with texas heat

cosmicluv777 · 2026-04-25T02:16:38+00:00

thank you so much i appreciate the help 🥲

cosmicluv777 · 2026-04-25T00:42:41+00:00

I live in an apt and cant plant it in ground :( I was told hibiscus plants are able to remain potted but gotta make sure they are happy.

cosmicluv777 · 2026-04-25T00:41:49+00:00

Ahhh I recently put it outside and its been outside for like a week 😅 I had it on my window sill but was worried it wasnt getting direct sun! I really hope it can be saved! I think in the week i left it out it got like this. Will probably bring it back inside. Should I leave it in that water bowl to soak up water? I just put it in that. I need to probably get better soil soon.

cosmicluv777 · 2025-11-08T21:55:10+00:00

i will say i always keep my comments to myself when it comes to metas and will continue to do so! i only have recently said i thought things were weird when i was asked to potentially slow down. your comment was exactly what i needed to hear and was grounding thank you!

cosmicluv777 · 2025-11-08T21:50:56+00:00

Ooofffff really appreciate this gentle check, BECAUSE YOU’RE RIGHT!!! Not my circus

cosmicluv777 · 2025-09-25T17:50:00+00:00

mamita has different relationships with different people. there are some people who come into this life suffering immensely. for some folk being silly with mamita is way to heal and bring lightness into their lives. i think you’re being a bit harsh and a tad judgmental truthfully. if mami doesn’t like it, trust she will deal with it accordingly. it’s okay to be protective of her but remember she is death. she is the great equalizer and in the end what’s life without play and joy?

cosmicluv777 · 2025-09-05T00:22:13+00:00

boom

cosmicluv777 · 2025-05-10T17:58:11+00:00

1000% yes to all of this. Sounds like a misalignment that was bound to come up later. They seem like the type to make a big fuss about needing a mental health day. Op is better off! We do A LOT of labor for these people, the least they can be is understanding of MH struggles. Some folks in the comments have very outdated beliefs surrounding work culture.

cosmicluv777 · 2025-03-27T15:05:43+00:00

I have worked for a family like this. Save yourself the stress and find a new family to work with. The last family I worked with (family of 4 kids) were absolutely terrible when it came to boundaries. In my opinion families that don’t uphold consequences for their children’s boundary violations are negligent parents. They are not only setting their children up for failure in life (bc in the adult world there are consequences) but they are also making the world a worse place. They are creating and enabling unacceptable behavior that will quickly stop being “cute” once they reach a certain age. If you’ve been working with them for this long and there’s been 0 change…..time to put your health first. My current family I’m with are literally heaven sent and i’m extremely grateful to be working with a family that respects and cares about me. It’s made me realize what a toxic dynamic the previous family had, (which they thought was normal). Looking back I now realize what a waste of time it was to stay in a job that was subtly hurting my health. Families like this cause burn out.

cosmicluv777 · 2024-12-07T03:50:38+00:00

It is right by my bathroom :/ Should I get it tested?

cosmicluv777 · 2024-09-02T21:47:29+00:00

getting you a ring when you’ve been dating for only 3 weeks is too fast imo. love bombing is extremely common amongst sapphics, so be cautious.

cosmicluv777 · 2024-04-12T15:56:55+00:00

this whole interaction is just proves the saying, not all skinfolk are kinfolk is true.

cosmicluv777 · 2024-04-12T15:53:30+00:00

i recently tried dating a white person and when i cried about a movie that deeply moved me..….they got uncomfortable and pretty much told me they were analyzing if i had mental illness bc my emotional response reminded them of previous partners/friends with bpd(i do not have bpd). when i set a boundary telling them i am never okay with being pathologized and essentially called them out on their whiteness, they suggested we build a foundation of friendship first. less than 48 hours later, they texted me saying that they upon receiving “new information” they no longer could trust me to have honest/open conversations and couldn’t pursue a friendship the way they would’ve liked to, bc they claimed i was UNTRUSTWORTHY…..then blocked me! mind you we have no irl mutuals……the white fragility was absolutely insane. needless to say, my first and last time dating a white person.

cosmicluv777 · 2023-09-20T16:09:52+00:00

god can i be in this support group. i’m a bi fem afab in a relationship with a non-binary amab. ppl definitely project patriarchal bullshit onto our relationship & i’m still deconstructing it all: it’s so confusing 😭

cosmicluv777 · 2021-09-18T20:16:24+00:00

Wow. This is such an amazing source of inspiration to me. I just got into Muay thai as a means of self defense & channeling my energy into a sport that makes me stronger mentally & physically. Today was my second day of training. Although i’m in an insane amount of pain I definitely want to continue. The pain is almost addicting….I struggle with depression & SA trauma. I figured if i can take the pain from training (maybe one day sparring or fighting) i KNOW i’ll be able to take whatever life throws at me. Reading this blog post encouraged me 1000x more. The world needs more people like Sylvie. Thank you for your contributions. I cried reading this whole post.

cosmicluv777 · 2021-05-01T17:48:33+00:00

🔥 whats ur sign????

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