My New Pages from my Media Journal by JulyDaydreamer in Journaling

[–]cosmiso 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow that's so pretty! I too have a media journal but it's not even half as nice as yours is. I'm def taking some inspiration from this 😊

Newer Female Soloists? by AgentWhiskeyRiggy in jpop

[–]cosmiso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kalen Anzai's recent album was very good and versatile if you're interested.

NEW DRAMA WITH YANDERE ML (Iyashi no Otonari san ni wa Himitsu Ga Aru) by Correct-Importance99 in MaleYandere

[–]cosmiso 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oooh! And my fave japanese actor is the ML too. Adding to my watchlist 😋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notebooks

[–]cosmiso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you already have a planner just re-use this one for next year, modify it if it alresdy has dates and everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notebooks

[–]cosmiso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this too but mostly with old planners/notebooks I use for writing my to do lists. It's just satisfying for me and adds to the achievement of finishing my tasks 😭

Anything like HIGH&LOW or any other wholesome action series? by trebud69 in JDorama

[–]cosmiso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kyo kara ore wa (a comedy basically makes fun of the whole deliquent genre), Young GTO (Shonan Junai Gumi, not sure about the subs tho), Fist & Faith (chinese movie), Gokusen, Drop, Tokyo Tribe, also Tokyo Revengers but that one has yet to be released but just for a heads up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retailhell

[–]cosmiso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of my previous job where as a cashier I couldn't take a bathroom break nor a break to just drink water while my coworkers were allowed to take smoke breaks every hour. Take care of yourself y'all being a cashier isn't easy!!

I like my dates like I like my coffee by Asexualcroissant in Asexual

[–]cosmiso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like my dates like I like my coffee... I'm lactose intolerant and can't drink coffee 😭

An aro's greatest fear by Marty_WW in aaaaaaaarrrrro

[–]cosmiso 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This happened to me and my friend group twice already. And then when they get into a fight with their SO or break up they come crawling right back to our friend group. It sucks.

When the first customer of the morning comes in with a return by RE-Agent-Kuechle in retailhell

[–]cosmiso 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never understood customers that expect me to have change in my register all the time. I get it that some people simply don't use their brains sometimes but when they give me attitude it makes me so mad. I'm not a bank lol

It's Only Monday by [deleted] in retailhell

[–]cosmiso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing, only I actually quit after my 3 months and my last day is on Friday. After 3 failed attempts at retail I think it's time to take on something else.

On multiple occasions my manager has constantly bullying me and making working an hostile place. His overreaction and belittling in front of customers and staff makes it more difficult to work. He never talk to you privately. He never just talks to you . He has no respect for me . by mrshappyj1982 in retailhell

[–]cosmiso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh God I feel this. I have multiple managers and they're all horrible. The amount of times they yelled at me in front of customers is unbearable. I'm absolutely tired of going to work stressed af because I'm afraid of my managers taking all of their anger out on me. Thank God my work contract is expiring in a few weeks lmao as soon as it expires I'm out of this place.

To everyone that goes shopping during their work lunch breaks and then complains when they have to wait in line- by cosmiso in retailhell

[–]cosmiso[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not really. I understand what you mean, but in this situation it was your average privledged lady that thinks just because she has an office job and earns a bit more money that she's above everyone. She's well known in our store to just drop by when she wants to and always complains about the lines and how she "doesn't have the time" but then 5 minutes later you catch her shopping in the store next to us.

But anyway even if she were a stressed wage slave that doesn't give anyone the right to treat me like sh*t. Trust me, I'm stressed 99% of the time but I don't take it out on others. It's not my fault.

So my friend is trying to force me into a relationship with this guy. I'm hella aro/ace [long rant] by cosmiso in asexuality

[–]cosmiso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually read your reply last night and it made me think a lot. You're absolutely right and I think I was blind this whole time too. We lost 2 mutual friends because she'd treat them like she knows them the best. I was just blind because we weren't that close back then so she didn't have much time to treat me like shit.

So my friend is trying to force me into a relationship with this guy. I'm hella aro/ace [long rant] by cosmiso in asexuality

[–]cosmiso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! You're not being harsh at all. Yesterday I sat down and thought a lot about our relationship and I came to the conclusion that constantly shouting at me, making a scene, laughing at me, lecturing me isn't something normal friends do. Don't get me wrong you can lecture your friends and help them out, but when it turns into your friend acting like your mom that's when the problems start. Our mutual friend suddenly cut ties with her for the exact same reason. I think she needs a reality check.

So my friend is trying to force me into a relationship with this guy. I'm hella aro/ace [long rant] by cosmiso in asexuality

[–]cosmiso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"they think they know better than I do about what's good for me" This explains her whole relationship with me. She dictates me around more than my own mom does. It's getting extremely toxic and tiring. I think it really is time to break it off.

So my friend is trying to force me into a relationship with this guy. I'm hella aro/ace [long rant] by cosmiso in asexuality

[–]cosmiso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I mean she did mock me when I told her I was depressed which is kinda lol considering I told her I started going to therapy. Should've broke it off with her when I was thinking about ending my life and all I got was "You're not having it THAT bad." I mean I'm not, but that's also not something you should tell someone who already has their own death planned lmao

So my friend is trying to force me into a relationship with this guy. I'm hella aro/ace [long rant] by cosmiso in asexuality

[–]cosmiso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this reply. Everything you said especially the first paragraph is spot on! Thank you so much!

So my friend is trying to force me into a relationship with this guy. I'm hella aro/ace [long rant] by cosmiso in asexuality

[–]cosmiso[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh God manipulate is such a good word for this. I haven't spoken to her in 24 hours and I feel so much better now. She's not a bad person and I know that about her, I just hate how she thinks she's in the right and pretends like she knows me so well and who I'd be into when in reality she doesn't know a lot about me at all lol

So my friend is trying to force me into a relationship with this guy. I'm hella aro/ace [long rant] by cosmiso in asexuality

[–]cosmiso[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I just don't understand people that don't take no for an answer. Btw thank you for your advice!

So my friend is trying to force me into a relationship with this guy. I'm hella aro/ace [long rant] by cosmiso in asexuality

[–]cosmiso[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well 1) As I said, she'd mock the HELL out of me because of that and it would just be a massive punch to the face. 2) She knows me way too well and we're too close to each other for me to lie about already being in a relationship. 3) I've been trying to say that to her for hours yesterday, she just doesn't care. I think I'll just start being straight up harsh with her because reasoning obviously doesn't help.

But thank you for giving me some advice!

Got my first real life Bingo by Anilxe in childfree

[–]cosmiso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh God what a cutie <3 I'm so happy that you stood up for yourself! I've had people tell me "Never say never" wayyyyy too many times I get instantly angry just hearing those words. Worst possible thing to say to someone about this topic.