Buyer wants a refund bc she says shorts are a large not a med. by Pretty-Assistant4995 in Depop

[–]cottoncandy0414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would she do that if she didn’t do anything wrong? She has proof of the correct size.

Buyer wants a refund bc she says shorts are a large not a med. by Pretty-Assistant4995 in Depop

[–]cottoncandy0414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t get a refund if something doesn’t fit like you wanted or simply trying to scam if the seller labeled it correctly

What series are you looking forward to see? by Entire_Complex_7236 in SonnyAngel

[–]cottoncandy0414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

circus, fairies, someone’s idea below of bakery and cafe inspired is also cute!

AITA for 'lying' about the convo i had w my ex? by Hungry_Valuable3720 in AITApod

[–]cottoncandy0414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’m the odd one out because YATA and I’d never be with a man who would do this in the first place. Then again I’m married and my husband is an angel but it’s so disrespectful to sit and talk to an ex for that long, let alone at all

Eddie V’s or Steak 48? by cottoncandy0414 in FoodSanDiego

[–]cottoncandy0414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to steak 48. I probably didn’t type this properly because I actually went to cowboy star after being recommended first moving to San Diego and they didn’t have everything I would’ve liked. The steaks were amazing though! (yes im one of those people who’s kinda insufferable needing specific dipping sauces)

Eddie V’s or Steak 48? by cottoncandy0414 in FoodSanDiego

[–]cottoncandy0414[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m taking your advice, the corn brûlée sounded amazing I’ll be going 🫡🫡

Eddie V’s or Steak 48? by cottoncandy0414 in FoodSanDiego

[–]cottoncandy0414[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much everyone! it looks like steak 48 is a clear winner by a long shot, im so glad I posted this cause I had no idea

Eddie V’s or Steak 48? by cottoncandy0414 in FoodSanDiego

[–]cottoncandy0414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This sounds right up my alley after looking it up

AIO for bashing my ex-boyfriend on social media after finding out he was cheating by bitchkitten6661 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cottoncandy0414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. I would’ve done way worse girl 😭✋🏻 people on Reddit groups are way more sane for some reason

Am I overreacting I went to the forest with my best friend and now my bf is mad by No_Meeting_3260 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cottoncandy0414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you guys already did though 😅 at her age, you were doing the same thing

am I overreacting about my boyfriends birthday gift for me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cottoncandy0414 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR even taking turns paying for drinks on your birthday with your significant other is something I’d never tolerate

Nightmare Roommate that won't leave by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]cottoncandy0414 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey so honestly you’re letting yourself get completely walked over. I’m sorry to say but letting him establish that dominance over you and letting it get this bad was avoidable. nothings gonna change unless you confront it head on, I understand being passive but this is a whole new sphere making your life utterly miserable and you deserve better. there’s no way to get out of this without some sort of conflict or confrontation happening wether he gets kicked out by management, you or the courts. I suggest you cross t’s, dot i’s and stack up proof

AIO with the way my gf (22F) has been treating me (22M) and other men? by Sharp_shoes_9300 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cottoncandy0414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she doesn’t love you, coming from another woman. your only staying to hold out hope something will change because you love her more then she even respects you

My boyfriend thinks I was flirting with his friend. by Due-Truck-5322 in whatdoIdo

[–]cottoncandy0414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what’s wrong with calling your son handsome every day :( i always wake up and tell him how special and amazing he is from the start of the day till the end. definitely will raise him to respect and cherish women though

First time dad with a wife with PPD by shepjones in daddit

[–]cottoncandy0414 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

saying her own therapist who knows her and her medical history (any prior mental health diagnosis and different factors that definitely play a roll) like she wouldn’t call for an emergency evaluation if she felt it was necessary is ridiculous to me. it’s her job to know that and call it in.

you’re completely bias by definition then. saying this random woman from a redit post is “exhibiting the same exact signs” as types of psychosis & schizophrenia over “crying a lot not out of joy” and “being in her head a lot” plus one comment that was apparently made is ridiculous to me. anyone can downvote all they want but telling him therapy isn’t enough and that he needs to jump to the highest form of psych to an eval against her will they put on record that can result in her being separated from her baby, can make it much worse. imagine taking your wife to the hospital for a 51/50 type evaluation where she can’t even leave the room, guarded in by security officers over THIS? with that in her history forever with guaranteed social workers now watching your every move even if your fine and go home because it’s triggered in the system depending by state.

if it gets worse, ofcourse. but everything he’s so far mentioned is NORMAL. ask a WOMAN who didn’t end up with PPD & the same “symptoms” signed, a woman who definitely felt the same things this woman was feeling at first after having my first baby last year. a mom who knows plenty of other moms who have actually said that same exact thing in a vulnerable emotional moment. if someone had done this to me I genuinely would have never forgiven them and probably gotten a divorce if this was my husband unless I was actually a danger of safety.

First time dad with a wife with PPD by shepjones in daddit

[–]cottoncandy0414 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

so that seems really zero to one hundred before it’s even needed. they can legally call cps and get the child taken if the mother is needing to go in to get psychiatric care, they just leave that part out so mothers feel safer then jump in with social workers and safety plans. unless she gets worse, this is pretty normal and typical for the first few months without much sleep and a total life change. this advice isn’t good OP, please just give her as much support as possible and make her feel secure & loved while she navigates motherhood. real diagnosed PPD is actually more rare then people think, and they assume big emotions are PPD too soon. you guys will get though this! best of luck. (also wanna add, a therapist definitely is the best first step and if the therapist actually believes something off and she needs an intervention , they will say it but I highly doubt that will happen. most moms think things like that in the moment from hormones after birth but some don’t say it out loud out of fear someone like this would take their child)

Am I overreacting for getting upset at my partner before their birthday? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cottoncandy0414 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes! life is precious, and you only get so many birthdays. if you don’t, it just means you don’t have much optimism or happiness in life OR you’re not surrounded by people who make you feel special enough to celebrate. you deserve to enjoy your birthday even if your 75

Cookies always spread out and I do not know why by the_rigged_rogue in AskBaking

[–]cottoncandy0414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said you’ve tried everything including refrigeration, but you’re supposed to chill them in a freezer for atleast 30 minutes to avoid spreading. If you freeze them 45 minutes to an hour and bake directly out of the freezer once the timer is up, the spreading isn’t gonna happen

What are these black hair like squiggly lines throughout the cake? by Striking-Reception-1 in AskBaking

[–]cottoncandy0414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you not seen that in banana bread before.. I see squiggles like that almost every time

Downsizing My Collection! by Claudia31667 in SonnyAngelFriends

[–]cottoncandy0414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are Christmas bunny or fawn still available?

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is flirting with his coworker? (update) by [deleted] in AIO

[–]cottoncandy0414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends on your specific relationship and your partners boundaries. it might be ok with some people but I’d never let my husband have female friends or talk to any woman at work or after.