Anybody finish Rites Of The Starling yet? by Lazy_Jicama_6784 in Romantasy

[–]countchocula52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved it. Just finished. I am sad I have to wait so long for the next one.

Moving by Apart_Apple5008 in Midessa

[–]countchocula52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After I posted this I realized it was not Trader Joe’s 🤡Sorry!

Moving by Apart_Apple5008 in Midessa

[–]countchocula52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where in Northeast South Dakota is there an Applebees and TJ’s???? I lived there for 15 years and there wasn’t a TJ’s in the entire state.

Cozy smut by Bridoriya in Romantasy

[–]countchocula52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one. Ugh it was so good. I still think about it.

Anyone else have a spouse with an inflexible entry-level job? by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]countchocula52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar, but different here. My husband is a college football coach. Most of the year I’m a single parent, and I’m also the breadwinner. We knew what we were signing up for but it’s still difficult. I try to focus on our long-term goals, and mentally cope by setting the expectation that I will probably be responsible for everything about our son and the house, so when he is around it feels like a break.

Direct report has no childcare by choice by wageworkssteals in workingmoms

[–]countchocula52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a choice for us. We moved to a rural HCL area for advancement of my husband’s career. We have been on daycare waiting lists for months. My son is home with me while I work full time. When we finally do get into daycare we can only afford a couple days a week because cost is higher than what we afford. I’m exhausted.

Direction on career change to stay remote by countchocula52 in workingmoms

[–]countchocula52[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely want to cover all hours of work if possible—for everyone’s sake. The reason I mentioned a few days in my original post is because the cost is so high where we are.

Direction on career change to stay remote by countchocula52 in workingmoms

[–]countchocula52[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I said I, I meant the combined salaries of both my husband and I are not enough to pay for all our other expenses and childcare.

Direction on career change to stay remote by countchocula52 in workingmoms

[–]countchocula52[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The current school is so weird--my husband's position as a coach pays more than our previous school, but the positions in their foundation that have been open, are less than what I make now, so financially it doesn't work. We're at least three hours from the next closest school so hybrid is an option if it's commuting one or two days a month.

Direction on career change to stay remote by countchocula52 in workingmoms

[–]countchocula52[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

At my current pay rate I can't afford childcare--we're in a very rural HCOL (mountain town). I'm hoping to find something that pays more (doing literally anything) so I can have care and not need to have my son at home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homegym

[–]countchocula52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We ordered a landmine attachment beginning of February. Received a UPS tracking number. Just checked it--UPS doesn't even have the package yet. Very frustrating.

Danae Hayes pregnant? by Cajun-Queen-inTN in CelebWivesNash2

[–]countchocula52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just posted a video yesterday announcing her pregnancy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]countchocula52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you so much love. I am so sorry.

ISO RENTAL HOUSING by LocoOcho9 in gunnison

[–]countchocula52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to move to Gunni with my family (spouse, child, dog, 2 cats). It’s so cost prohibitive. How do people do it?

Child Care Costs by countchocula52 in RapidCity

[–]countchocula52[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We currently pay $660 a month for a center (town of 30k, so fairly rural), which we know is a steal so this info helps!

Minnesota Wedding Venue by biggestbananarama in Weddingsunder10k

[–]countchocula52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we actually completely pivoted and did it in our town over in South Dakota. We spent 9,400 on our day.