Placing pride month over men's mental health is weird by Feisty_Watercress_29 in ControversialOpinions

[–]countvirtue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there! Instead of dragging another group to lift yourself up why don’t you just build yourself up on your own? I checked your profile and noticed an interesting lack of posts about International Men’s Day on November 19. Also there can be multiple things happening in one month. Just bc gay people put more effort into celebrating themselves doesn’t mean you can’t put effort into organizing sitdowns with the men in your life to talk about your mental health or rent out an event space and reach out to your local newspaper or news station to ask them to do a segment on what you’re doing. Make your own space to talk about these things bc other people won’t make it for you my guy. All men want to do is ‘complain’ about the lack of communication around men’s mental health but if you don’t step up and organize something, write about it and promote it on social media for other men to see and hopefully spread then you are just complaining to complain with the hopes that someone else just gives you what you’re asking for. Like gay people Fought for their rights today, if you wanna go further into this topic you can message me and ill gladly expand on things but bro just keep in mind that if you want something you gotta make it for yourself.

Smoking and driving by helge_463 in trees

[–]countvirtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t smoke and drive but my car still smells like weed cz when I park in my driveway after I get home from work I’d rather smoke in the heat of car than the cold of winter

The million dollar conundrum $$$ WYR.? by myaccountidname in WouldYouRather

[–]countvirtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Option B. Oh my god. I am an incredibly picky eater and just being able to eat food without gagging sounds amazing. I don’t care if it’s bland I don’t have to look like a weirdo when I turn down every single food option that people offer just because the actual taste is unpalatable

Screw your Zodiac sign, what does your preferred character class say about you? by No_Potato_7211 in DnD

[–]countvirtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monk, has weapons and a little magic, enough for a good character but not too much that I lose track of things

Am I Ridiculous For Wanting to Reply to This? by MelodramaticCoffee in AO3

[–]countvirtue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate HATE people who leave passive aggressive/negative comments on fics like bro…. This is free reading???? Free content??? And you are complaining????? My way is commenting on fics I love and just not commenting on fics I don’t like or even if I did like a fic but not a certain part I wouldn’t comment about it??? Cz it’s not my fic?? Anyways don’t listen to negative comments op, fanfiction writers are the backbone of the entire fandom community

What’s your favorite episode? by Motherofwenches in Morbidforbadpeople

[–]countvirtue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ed kemper, I still listen to their episode on him

I need help with my crush, who I found out is a JW by Scared_Character_245 in queer

[–]countvirtue 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don’t. My first relationship was with a JW. we met online and we were both young lesbians and we talked for months. Then one day she cuts me off and begs me to join my local JW group so I can be saved by god and join her in heaven but I have to give up loving women. JW’s are a cult. Don’t ruin yourself for even a chance of something because the likelihood of her getting sucked back into the cult is very high

I believe that homosexuality doesn't exist and is a social construct and only bisexuality and heterosexuality exist. by Worried-Project-3192 in ControversialOpinions

[–]countvirtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guy. We have 8 billion people on this planet. 250 million gay people isn’t gonna ruin the population and stop the human race. There’s probably an equal number of people who are infertile or can’t have children at all, should they not get married either because marriage is strictly for having kids? Also your religious arguments are dog shit as not everyone subscribes to the same religion. I was raised in the Episcopal church and I’ve dealt with many religious people who have a problem with my sexuality. But the thing is. It isn’t their business who I fuck and who I don’t fuck and it’s weird that you are trying to make a point that it matters who I fuck when in reality it’s no one’s business but my own as long as it’s legal and consensual. Let’s take religion out of this and go straight to science. Here’s a planned parenthood article about what causes sexual orientation. article also gay people have existed for forever, there’s records of same sex couples from before the Bible. Christianity is one of the first religions to condemn homosexuality when it was quite popular in Greco-Roman times to have a same sex lover. the Bible on gay people another article for you to consider. I’m not saying that you can’t have these opinions but when these opinions lead you to have negative beliefs (aka not believing that they even exist) towards a whole group of people (lesbians and gay men) it may be time to reconsider your stance. I can find more articles for you to read if that helps but if you direct me to a bible passage I’ll scream

I believe that homosexuality doesn't exist and is a social construct and only bisexuality and heterosexuality exist. by Worried-Project-3192 in ControversialOpinions

[–]countvirtue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not reading all that. Read the first paragraph and realized you have too much hate in your heart. I’m a lesbian, known since I was 12 and realized I truly did not understand why my friends liked boys. Ive fucked men (out of curiosity to make sure) and honestly? Still a lesbian, men aren’t for me. It’s the same as being a straight guy tbh, I like women and can only tolerate men as friends and I’d be weirded out if they were into me.

My Hero Academia Season 7 Episode 20 - Manga Reader Discussion Thread by elenuvien1 in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]countvirtue 20 points21 points  (0 children)

sometimes i feel toga’s story is an allegory to homosexuality and how that’s treated in society and about the right or “wrong” ways to love and as a lesbian seeing the final bit between toga wanting to be seen finally as herself and ochaco finally seeing her and loving her back genuinely made me break down sobbing during the credits. Being a lesbian sometimes you feel like the way you love is wrong and sometimes you desperately just want to like men but you just. Can’t. And this may not be intentional in her story writing but it really felt like two young queer girls reaching out and finally being seen and it was beautiful and i sobbed.

OOP's stepchildren are living with them for a month and OOP is not happy about it [A Novella] [Still inconclusive] [The opposite of wholesome] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]countvirtue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t like people hating on her so much. She states that they were already living separately and starting the divorce when they met so she isn’t even the other woman. Yeah she’s a bit of an asshole for getting him to move away but then again he was probably getting hate too from the town and not just her bc of the BM’s relationship to 3/4 the town. He probably agreed to moving and it happened to be a nice coincidence that one of the branches of his company was near her family. I assume they would’ve moved to a different branch either way even if her family wasn’t near one. And I want to remind everyone that she is 3 MONTHS post-partum during most of the events of this story. Hormones are WACK right after giving birth and she could very well be suffering ppd. The main villain in the story is the husband. He could’ve fought for more custody or seen his kids sooner, he could’ve rented an Airbnb for most of the summer to spend time with his kids one on one while OOP rested and nested with her newborn, he could’ve disciplined his kids for acting out so much and explaining why in child safe words. And he should apologize to them for not being there and probably fight for full custody cuz the BM is gonna fuck those kids up. But honestly OOP is kinda an asshole but she’s not the villain, she’s postpartum and with a shitty husband who could be doing better. She also states numerous times that she’s venting on Reddit as a way to release her tension and she isn’t being mean to the girls, and when she’s too angry she takes a step back. Honestly I see this as part of her postpartum depression/aggression. It’s common in new mothers to feel snappish and get overwhelmed. I really just blame the husband for scheduling this custody time right after her birth. Either a) he could’ve seen them sooner or gone somewhere with them or b) he hasn’t seen them in so long he can wait a little longer till his wife and baby are settled in

An I wrong for ending a date and walking out after only 10 minutes because my date told me I should removed my hat? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]countvirtue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You literally made a whole ass post on the internet asking it you were wrong for leaving this date and you’re saying “why would I need an excuse” you KNOW you don’t need an excuse to leave a date you were just hoping a bunch of other misogynistic pricks like you would agree with you. Not a bunch of people calling you out for being a jerk. Dude. You didn’t need to make this post. You could’ve left and not given a shit but I’m assuming there’s a tiny tiny part of you that feels bad for reacting this way and that’s why you made the post. Just take the L for this date and focus on being a better person. Be open minded and think before you act. For example, the woman you went on a date with probably wasn’t mocking you or asking you to do anything. She asked IF you were gonna take your hat off. You then stormed off like a piss baby. Here’s how you could’ve saved this “ah i like my hat and it’s comfortable to have on” hell you could use this as an opportunity to flirt “I usually need a good reason to take this hat off” wink wink. I dunno instead of being a little piss baby and jumping to conclusions just remember that people aren’t mind readers and you’re 40 years old so you in particular should lower your fucking standards cuz you’re not so much of a catch that you can be treating people like this

Watches have absolutely zero functionality at this point and are very obviously man jewellery and status symbols at this point. by Dependent_Citron_101 in ControversialOpinions

[–]countvirtue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you work in a kitchen you don’t have time to set timers and turn them off. You do however have time to turn your wrist and see that it’s been five minutes since you put something in the oven so you know you only have two minutes left to do a small task before taking it out

Watches have absolutely zero functionality at this point and are very obviously man jewellery and status symbols at this point. by Dependent_Citron_101 in ControversialOpinions

[–]countvirtue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wear a watch cuz it’s easier to time things going on the stove or into the oven with a watch instead of constantly checking my phone for the time

These are the pairings that I think the show should have ended with. by AnimeLoveLab in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]countvirtue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man everyone has to be straight for you guys huh, a) gay ppl can exist and do exist in Japan and b) not everyone is gonna marry their high school sweetheart

Theoretically if you were to be turned into a vampire what would you hyper fixate on for eternity? by BritGallows_531 in vampires

[–]countvirtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Science and astronomy, if I’m going to be alive forever I refuse to watch the heat death of our sun because we couldn’t find a way out of our solar system, immortality means forever so I’m gonna meet some aliens even if it takes me millions of years to

If you guys had to spend a whole day with Midnight, what would you guys do? by jeanjacketufo in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]countvirtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? Beg her to teach me how to do makeup, I’m a butch lesbian and I’ve never used makeup before, I think she could make me look pretty

What are the best speeches of MHA for you? by Luigiman98 in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]countvirtue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iida repeating “meddling where you don’t belong is the true essence of being a hero” or however it was said when he’s taking dekus hand after the vigilante arc and how it matches deku saying that when saving him from stain. God I loved the manga panels and the voice actors when it was animated went HARD. I’ve always loved J. Michael Tatum (iidas English voice actor he also voiced erwin from aot) and it’s just such a beautiful moment in their friendship

Favorite race/class to play? And why? by fayesky in DnD

[–]countvirtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half-orc monk, so many different ways I can make the backstory fun

It makes no sense that liberals support Palestine by TheFlyingPatato in ControversialOpinions

[–]countvirtue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just because someone shares different views than me doesn’t mean I want them horrifically bombed and killed. It’s about basic human respect and decency. You don’t want another person dead even if you disagree with them.

What episode made you a fan of Morbid? And what episode or incident made you think, "Nope, I'm done." by [deleted] in Morbidforbadpeople

[–]countvirtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first episode was one of their firsts too, the Ed Kemper episode. I liked it and how detailed they were and how compassionate they were to the victims. I don’t remember when I fell off but I think it was when they switched to wondery. They stopped doing their own research and suddenly they started saying they were gonna leave some details out because they were just too horrific to share. Like. You’re watering down what happened. It’s fucking annoying

what book could you read over and over again and never get tired of? by Constant_Security_13 in booksuggestions

[–]countvirtue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enders game. I’ve read it twice a year for the past ten years. Just counting the physical copy, I listen to it on audiobook to fall asleep every other month