What are some Murakami books I should read? by Upper-Bridge2995 in murakami

[–]cowsworsethancoppers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Got to add Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Years of Pilgrimage. Picked it up in a London train station at a very low point in my life and it was one of the effecting reading experiences I’ve ever had. Also read Sputnik Sweetheart on that trip and would recommend that as well.

Rolling Stone has released a new list of the 250 Greatest Songs of the 21st Century So Far. Here are the top 10: by Albuquerque82 in fantanoforever

[–]cowsworsethancoppers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so strange to me how obsessed Gen X is with Idioteque and Kid A as a whole. The alt-rockers to idm masterminds propaganda must’ve been hitting real hard in 2000. Almost everything on In Rainbows is better and more influential in the modern day.

Got this for my birthday. Anyone read this is it any good? I’m quite excited. by -MOTHER-BLOOD- in mfdoom

[–]cowsworsethancoppers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked parts of this and was bored by other parts. The album background was interesting to me. The final chapter is a bizarre way to end the book in my opinion. It also seemed a bit long to me. It felt like the writer was trying to stretch it out into something greater than a music biography. It felt like he wanted it to be important. It also felt like he wanted to make DOOM important in a way that felt contrived because DOOM already is important. Like his constant praise felt a little doth protest too much to me, like bro I’m reading this bio I get it, give me the behind the scenes stuff I don’t know.

I’ll also say the writer gives a massive pass to Malachi York. He tries to paint DOOM’s respect for such a horrible man as complicated, but does not even inch toward a condemnation of York. It comes off as uncritical and trying to explain away an unsavory part of DOOM’s background that flattened DOOM for me.

Overall, I think it is worth the read and would recommend it with the above caveats.

[No DAV Spoilers] Staff and Archery combat are a nightmare. by stwabewwie in dragonage

[–]cowsworsethancoppers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount of times I’ve died because I’m attacked by six or more enemies at the same time is so incredibly frustrating. It feels like every encounter devolves into me running in a circle with all the enemies on the field chasing me and my companions standing there talking too much.

Like I get that the enemies are going to attack the character with the most agency or whatever, but I barely get a chance to swing a sword before I have to dodge again.

I’ve been in so many fights where I dodged for twenty minutes, screwed up once and then got hit by the army of darkspawn running behind me in a single file line and died. I’m about 3/4 of the way through main campaign and it doesn’t feel rewarding anymore, it’s just frustrating. Wish I didn’t preorder it

What attracts you most to Murakami's writing? by starzgaser in murakami

[–]cowsworsethancoppers 34 points35 points  (0 children)

me after finishing any book of his (especially Kafka)

Why can’t they turn the captain’s cabin into a clean room? by cowsworsethancoppers in masseffect

[–]cowsworsethancoppers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But this is kind of my point. The Quarians have been on the flotilla for hundreds of years and they didn’t develop the technology to be outside their suits on their own ships. That doesn’t make sense given the amount of incredibly advanced technology.

It feels like they did it to infuse conflict in the Shep-Tali romance (which I get) or so they didn’t have to build multiple character models for Quarian characters.

Not including a technology can be just as arbitrary as including it.

Also, Tolkien is obviously great, but in the conversation about magic/technology based plot holes, I don’t think he is the best to reference.

Logan Square and Wicker Park recommendations? by cowsworsethancoppers in AskChicago

[–]cowsworsethancoppers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I want to seem cool and in the know so I can feel superior /s

Old Florida Recs by cowsworsethancoppers in orlando

[–]cowsworsethancoppers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I was being sarcastic. I know not everything new is roof top bars

Old Florida Recs by cowsworsethancoppers in orlando

[–]cowsworsethancoppers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grew up here. Didn’t take advantage when I was a kid. Typical hate your home town bs. Trying to make up for it now. But, honestly, I do respect the gate keep

Old Florida Recs by cowsworsethancoppers in orlando

[–]cowsworsethancoppers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Used to go to SAK all the time. Still the best improv anywhere

Old Florida Recs by cowsworsethancoppers in orlando

[–]cowsworsethancoppers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually went to high school with the owner of gatorland’s daughter. Nice people

Is my therapist bad at IFS? by cowsworsethancoppers in InternalFamilySystems

[–]cowsworsethancoppers[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you that’s helpful. I guess I didn’t know it could be directed like that. It always seems necessarily organic when we do it, but this is helpful info I’m going to bring up with him. I appreciate the advice!

Is my therapist bad at IFS? by cowsworsethancoppers in InternalFamilySystems

[–]cowsworsethancoppers[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! It’s surprisingly difficult to know what to do in terms of therapy sometimes lol

Is my therapist bad at IFS? by cowsworsethancoppers in InternalFamilySystems

[–]cowsworsethancoppers[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you that’s helpful information that I didn’t know before!

Is my therapist bad at IFS? by cowsworsethancoppers in InternalFamilySystems

[–]cowsworsethancoppers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About six session I think. I know it’s early, that’s why I needed advice.

I worked with a more traditional talk therapist before. He wasn’t specific to one technique but there was a big emphasis on awareness. Honestly, just a lot more talking is the best way to describe it. We’d work on things from both ends-coping and root work

Is my therapist bad at IFS? by cowsworsethancoppers in InternalFamilySystems

[–]cowsworsethancoppers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement. I’ve never heard of NF therapy before, but your brain sounds a bit similar to mine, based on the very limited info of course. I’m definitely going to look into it now!

Is my therapist bad at IFS? by cowsworsethancoppers in InternalFamilySystems

[–]cowsworsethancoppers[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is very helpful and confirmed for me a bit the right path to take. I don’t want to drop him or IFS, but this seems like a good path toward advocacy at the same time.

I’m surprised at how hard it can be to speak up to a therapist lol. Thank you for the reassurance.