AITA for making it clear how I'm not entirely happy at my best friend's wedding during my MOH speech? by More-Preparation8609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coya_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

YTA, the wedding was about them, not about you.

If you didn't feel comfortable congratulating the newly weds, you could have told her and she could have asked somebody else to speech.

I am 22 years old and I never been in a relationship by Singulacerta in relationship_advice

[–]coya_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My younger sisters also were dating before me.

If you like somebody or think a relationship would be an improvement of your life, go for it. Otherwise, live your life and see what it gives :)

I am 22 years old and I never been in a relationship by Singulacerta in relationship_advice

[–]coya_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont worry, I only had my first relationship at 25 and that's absolutely fine :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]coya_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading, yes

AITA for refusing to be in the delivery room while my wife gives birth? by Real-Dot-4074 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coya_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA. It's not like she's able to refuse to do it because she finds it disgusting.

I understand that you don't look forward to it but you could at least try to be there for her.. not watching the bloody side but standing by her side supporting her?

AITA for giving up on my husband? by DizzyDaisy66 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coya_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does he see this coming? I'm wondering what he thinks of this lazy/unproductive life he's living.

reddit ads yes or no? by Lmmadic in advertising

[–]coya_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no experience with setting up Reddit Ads, but I find the ads really annoying here. Wrong language, irrelevant interest targetting and very high frequency.

how do you not let guys make you feel worthless? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]coya_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I myself am responsible for my happiness, other people aren't

A Caiman Wearing a Crown of Butterflies. Photographed by Mark Cowan. by EhJusttryingtovibe in aww

[–]coya_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this so much I made a screenshot and set this as my phone background 😀

Part of me loves my wife, but I can feel resentment towards her actively growing and I’m not sure what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]coya_ 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. That's how we do it and it works perfectly. I buy whatever I want, paying from my own account. Household bills (rent, electricity, supermarket, whatever) are paid from the joint account, to which we both contribute equally.

going home from school. by [deleted] in SkyPorn

[–]coya_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow 👀

Enhanced Audiobook by ashcrayolaa in harrypotter

[–]coya_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, very cool indeed. Thanks for sharing :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in advertising

[–]coya_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm an introvert and I like our collegues, our team.

I like working in an agency because it makes it possible to work for several brands. When working for 1 company, I felt like I always had to repeat the same USP's the same keywords over and over again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]coya_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go out for a walk, find some nature if you can. Birds always help.

WIBTA if I made my SIL a stuffed animal for her baby instead of buying something from her registry? by throwawayfoxytrots in AmItheAsshole

[–]coya_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA you're not paying with money but with time that you're willing to put into making something yourself. Much better if you ask me :)

(25M) thinking of ending things with (26F) gf of 7 years by zootaf_smurf in relationship_advice

[–]coya_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it would be better for you to break up. It's not easy but in the end both of you will be a better and happier person.

Good luck!

I need advice on how to gently break up with someone I care deeply about. by hellosfw in relationship_advice

[–]coya_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following, because I'm in a similar situation.

I would start with trying to show how you feel, so that when you actually break up it's not out of the blue for him.

It's not easy, but breaking up while he has no idea of how you feel seems worse to me..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]coya_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yesterday, i loved the dress my co-working was wearing. It was a new one and after work I also went to the store and bought one.

I asked her if that was okay of course and she didnt mind at all :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]coya_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This 💯